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this is between me my cousin and a guy
im 15 and a female! ok i went out with this guy about a year and a half ago and i made a big mistake (whole other story) and since the day we broke up i have had a major crush on him and EVERYBODY knew it cuz i have a big mouth and i don't keep it shut lol and well me and my cousin are very close or at least we were. she never met this guy untill a few months ago but she knew i would do anything to go back out with him. even though she was aware of this she still went on with her usual ways of flirting with him. this made me furious, but after about a month she forgot all about him. then one day i invited her to a party with me where i knew he was going to be there not thinking of the conciquences! she was all over him and it made me soooo angry. NOw they talk on the phone all the time i mean they don't even live in the same state! she told me that she wasn't even interested in dating him cuz she doesn't date guys out of state! so i am confused she is constantly calling me asking me to go places with them but i am not up for all that junk i don't want to sit there while they flirt. i think she might be doing this to be mean. but im not sure, i am now over this guy but it still P's me off to know that she is getting the attention of the guy i once dreamed of! please help cuz i really am confused about what i should do about the whole thing!
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well okay you say your over this guy but it sounds to me that you really like him and it sounds like your preatty jealous of her i kno you dont want to hear it but just read the letter you wrote!! im sure if she was trying to hurt you they would be going out already so dont try to jump to conclusions already.. call her and ask her what going on and be upfront!! but i hoped i helped
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That's your problem in your second to last sentence. "the guy i once dreamed of!" implies that you chased him and he didn't have to work for your affections anymore. He saw a challenge with your cousin and he took it. Your cousin wasn't intending to hurt you,I don't think. I mean if they don't even live in the same state,then come on. I can see your point about not wanting to go over there and see them flirt;that's a real drag. Don't worry about it and ask your cousin the real story why she flirted with your ex. She had to have a mild interest,she did flirt with him.
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this sounds like me n my cuzin n bobo..but its the other way around...he dated her n i started flurtn n doing thangs wit him...but make up its juss a boi
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hey well if i was you i would go tell your cousin how you feel when she all over him or flirting with him. Because it obviously isnt makin you feelin any better. So you should tell her how you feel. And you should tell the guy how you feel as well. Because maybe if they knew it was hurtin you they wouldnt talk as much or flirt as much. Because i dont think they might see that it is hurting you. I hope i helped. <3 Nicicole
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If you are close to your cousin you should know her well or at least have a basic idea of what she is like. Is she the type of person to steal your ex-boyfriend away because she just wants to be mean? There could be many reasons why she's doing this. Either she thinks that you are over him and you aren't truly being serious when you say you're not over him. Or she might like this guy...and regardless of what you say she'll try and go out with him anyway but she denied the fact that she likes him and wants you to think he is just a friend. Since she is keeping contact with this guy and flirting with him, I'm assuming she doesn't care enough about how you feel towards that. And I think she would have a clue as to why you wouldn't wanna hang out with them. But make it clear that you are not over him, make her understand that. You guys used to be close, right? You should consider telling her exactly how you feel about him right now. And if she's ever missed an ex-boyfriend she should know how that is and back off a bit. Even though she insist that she wouldn't date him, let her know that's not how you see it. You see them getting closer and it makes you be in an awkward situation because you still have feelings for him. Good luck with your cousin and ex-boyfriend!! Love Always, Mandee
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well first off...u needa just stop talkin to her..the more u talk to her the more she knows how to make u mad and she feeds offa that...she seems to love to shove in ur face that she can get the guy u wanted and u couldnt get him back....dont let her do that...dont let her see how much it effects u
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if she says shes doesnt want a reationship out of state yet she hangs out wit him all the time mabye shes trying to get him to like you thats the good side or mabye she just wants to be his friend if she says shes not intrested beive her its the only thing you can do just tell ur cuz the truth if u still get really mad about it tell her the worst that could happen is she could get angry for a little while but blood is stronger the boys
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