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I'm a mother of 2 boys who are 13 months apart. Talk about a handful. I'm a wife to the best husband I could have ever dreamed of.I'm one of the very blessed.
I have Bipolar 1 Disorder. I hate taking all these medications and always going to doctors appointments, but life is too short to let mental illness get the better of me.
Often times life is a challenge, and nobody knows that better than me. I wake up wondering if this is going to be a day my illness overpowers my meds, and either sends me flying like a bat out of hell, or leaves me laying on the couch like a wet dish rag.
Thank all that is good in the world that I have an excellent support system at home.
I'm one of the lucky ones.
I'm honest, and that can either be a perk or s flaw. Depends on how you choose to look at it.
I like to see it as a perk, because it's better to hear the truth than to be told candy coated bullshit.
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Okay, I was just wondering...
I got my ears pierced when I was a baby.. they turned out fine, no bumps,
but when I got older, about 6th grade I got my ears double pierced (second holes) and they developed bumps behind them "keloids" not sure why, I've been told some people become more prone to them as they get older.
Regardless, I'm 18 years old i got my cartilage pierced it has a slight bump but I've been sea soaking it and its been fine, i'm just wondering if I got my lip pierced is it likely to get a keyloid like in my mouth??
Like do piercings in the mouth heal differently? i know that must sound stupid, I'm just wondering. Thanks!
"...Do Piercings Cause Keloids?
Any type of trauma to the skin can trigger and offer the right conditions for keloid formation. So although a piercing is a very controlled procedure, it’s still very traumatic on earlobe, nose, or whatever area the tissue is that is getting a hole put in it. Because of that, if this condition runs in your family or you think you are prone to it, you should strongly consider avoiding piercings altogether. Most would agree it’s just not worth the risk..."
From the link, which I suggest you read:
http://www.keloidremoval.net/keloids-from-piercings
All piercings heal differently, because they are injuries to different parts of your body.
I very STRONGLY urge you to do some serious research before getting ANY peircing. Meaning, Google it every which-way, starting with
lip piercing + keloid
The above linked article suggests seeing a dermatologist to treat keloids as soon as possible.
Research. Do so in great detail.
This is your body, so make sure you are aware.
31/f
sooo im gonna do shrooms for my first time on friday with 2 friends when we go to see alice in wonderland. i just want to know what its going to feel like and if im going to like be able to control myself and stuff ya know? oh and what it does to you in the long run thanks!
We can't give advice on taking illegal substances.
i dont know if this is serious or not, but i had a mild headache above my left ear and a little behind it. i was walking and talking to my friend in the hall, and then i felt a pull in my right rib and i felt soo weird for a couple of seconds and then it went away. it felt like a pinch or a pull and it made my rib cage feel funny. i couldnt bretahe for a second or two. i randomly get sweaty... do you think its anxiety? do you think i pulled a muscle or pinched a nerve? is it serious? am i okay? help asap
Call doctor's office.
Make appointment.
Ask doctor.
We aren't qualified to diagnose, and if anyone could, no respectable doctor would do so via anonymous internet question. You need to be seen and examined. Your personal and family medical history may come into play.
31/f
I know that this is long but I need help. I have been with my boyfriend of two years since i was 16 years old, I am currently 18 and in College working towards my maters. He has always been good to me and is my best friend, I can tell him anything and I know he will listen and understand. We have been through a lot together, vacations, deaths, proms exc. and I have seen him every single day for 2 years. Although are relationship was good there are many negatives. When I met him he had gotten in a lot of trouble the year before and I had to deal with it, it was hard but we got through it. Nothing major , just stupid kid mistakes. Although it was not serious, what he did still came back to haunt him and I always was there to swing to the rescue. He has gotten alot of speeding tickets and would never pay them and continues to speed. Just things like that bug me and we would argue about it alot. He is currently about to turn 21 and does not have a degree and was laid off of work 2 months ago. Once again I had to swing to the rescue to give him money because he needs it. I do it because i love him and its not really his fault but its hard for me. He doesn’t really think a lot of things throught before he does them and I always have to deal with the consequences, for example getting an apartment when he cant really afford one. He has come a long way from when I first met him but he still has a long way to go. About two months ago i was introduced to a guy through my now ex boyfriend. I ran into him a month ago and we started to text. He knew I had a boyfriend but continued to pursue me. I started to develop feelings for him and left my boyfriend for him to figure out his situation and for me to figure out mine. I have been spending more and more time with this new guy “John” and he is everything my ex is not. He has a degree and a great job and is good with his money. He is saving for a house. He has set incredible goals for himself and knows that he is going to be extremely successful . His smile drives me crazy and he makes me so happy and I want to be with him and he would do anything to be with me. We recently slept together and the sex was amazing, nothing like I have ever felt before. He is stable and I know that he will always be able to take care of me. The only thing is when I told my ex he was devastated. He’s written me letters upon letters pouring his heart out to me claiming that he has changed and how he does not know how to get over this and calls me balling his eyes out. The letters make me cry and I feel like such a horrible person for what I have done to him. I still love him but after being together for 2 years I feel like the only thing let is to get married and I don’t really want to be the one supporting him. I still talk to him and its hard because he was such a big part of my life for so long but I don’t know what to do. I want to commit myself to “John” and he asks me everyday to be with him but feel as though I can’t because of the guilt and sadness I feel from my ex and I feel as if I’m not ready to but I do not want to lose him over a relationship that most likely will always be the same. Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated, I really could use it.
"In love you are never going to find the 100% of what you're looking for in a mate, mostly about 80%. Of course you'll see that left over 20% in others and that may sway your attention because that's the missing portion you've been looking for. However if you leave your 80% for that other you'll only be getting 20% and now in need of 80%!"
http://cat-thinkingoutloud.blogspot.com/2007/11/8020-rule.html
31/f
Today (Monday), I was diagnosed with a urinary tract infection. I was fingered Saturday so could the urinary tract infection be a result of this?
Yes, it is possible.
My boyfriends father claimed both him, and his younger brother on his income tax report. The problem with this is that his father hasn't been a part of their lives for more than ten years, and hasn't offered to be. He's always been lacking on child support payments (his mother has nowhere near enough income to hire an attorney to change this) , he neglects to answer phone calls or even attempt to get in touch. My boyfriends mother is a single mother, raising three kids. My boyfriend is in college, the middle is 17, and the youngest is under 17. Obviously, by his father claiming my boyfriend, his mother is being neglected of money she could use to help out her children. I find this incredibly ridiculous, and really don't know much about the subject. If there's anyone out there who knows anything about this, is there anything they can do to change this situation? Or is his mom just basically screwed.
As far as I'm aware, she can call the IRS and explain to them the situation. They should then do a tax audit. Since she can provide proof (school records, etc) that the children lived with her for more than 6 months out of the last tax year, and he of course does not, then Uncle Sam will be very displeased.
Tax fraud is a big no-no, an the IRS doesn't take such offenses lightly.
This page from the IRS website may be useful to her:
http://www.irs.gov/individuals/article/0,,id=106778,00.html
31/f
As I was browsing the internet I found a really offensive website that I absolutely hate. I can't stand that it is available for ANYONE to see and the content is just horrific. It isn't really anything illegal but it is still really, really offensive and degrading to certain invidivuals.
Is there a way I can get a website shut down or "closed" by somebody? Can I make a request some where for a website to be further investigated so that it might be closed down? Is there ANYTHING I can do other than block the website from my browser so that I don't run into it again? I really don't think it's material anybody should be viewing...
If the content is not illegal, then there is nothing you can do about it. It may be offensive to you, but obviously it is to the liking of others.
You have the right to be offended, but you do not have the right to make the owners close the site, nor do you have the right to take the site away from those who DO enjoy visiting it. You don't have the right to judge what material is acceptable for everyone else to view, as long as it is within the law. You do have the right to judge what is acceptable for yourself, and you do have the right to not click on that link.
I don't know if you are from the US, but if you are, you definitely need to read and understand our constitution. You need to realize that the rights on that paper apply to everyone in this country, whether you like it or not.
Your rights end where your neighbor's begin.
Even when it means something offends you.
31/f
Me and my boyfriend haven't been going out for long but I realllly like him.I don't smoke anything (no cigs,no weed,etc) and he knows that and respects it. He does smoke weed though and he asked me if it bothered me (before we started going out) and i said it didn't bother me ,because it used to not bother me.Now it seems as though he took advantage of that and smokes ALL the time,probably everyday.I don't like how he acts when he's high,he's just not the same.He acts dumb and is just not normal (obviously because thats what smoking does to you...)He used to lie to me about when he did it because it bothered me but he stopped lying about it and does it all the time.I told him he doesn't have to quit but I'd wish he would just do it less.He keeps saying he will do it less and he just doesn't.I don't wanna break up with him ,i just have talked to him several times about it but have never threatend to breakup with him over it because it's such a dumb thing,but it's gotten to be a big deal.I need help!
You either accept him for who he is or move on.
Obviously he likes to smoke pot, and that's his choice to make. You said it didn't bother you before, and now that you find it bothersome, you can't just expect him to cut back or quit.
You say he used to lie to you about it, but now that he's stopped lying about it you're bothered by it? Shit, female, I'd rather NOT be lied to about anything. I don't know about you.
31/f
I already have my top bellybutton pierced, but I am thinking about getting the bottom, so I'll have both. I want guys and girls opinion on this, like? dislike? its whatever?
http://www.belly-button-rings-guide.com/double-navel-piercing-2.html
I think it looks cool.
However, being a person who's into body piercing, I say if you're going to have these holes stabbed into your body, you do it because YOU like it.
Last night I came downstairs really late and saw my dad on the computer. I was walking through the house to go to the kitchen for a drink and saw that he was on some sort of video-chat with another woman. She had her top off though and my dad was typing to her.
Today I sort-of tried to see if my dad would tell me anything about what was going on last night. I said to him, "You were up pretty late last night. Was everything OK?" He said he was up getting some paperwork done for work. I couldn't really do any more confrontation about it but he didn't seem nervous at all.
Over the past month I've noticed my dad coming home late from work and taking private calls in my parents' bedroom sometimes. My mom doesn't seem to think anything is strange but I'm wondering if he is cheating on my mom.
Should I talk to my dad about this and tell him I saw him chatting with a half-naked woman? Should I tell my mom about what I saw? Should I stay out of it completely? I don't want my parents to break up or get a divorce so I want this to be handled properly but I don't know if I should bring it out in the open first. Advice?
**EDIT 2**
So, I don't see why you bothered wasting my time by even asking this question here.
You already had your mind made up, and only wanted people to tell you what you want to hear, and you've made that obvious.
Go on and do what you think is right.
I certainly hope you are right that your mother won't be destroyed hearing this from her kid of all people.
But you know what's best, right? I hope so, because I'm moving on to help someone who actually does want help with their problems.
Best of luck to you!
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Should you tell your mom?
No. That is not your place.
I'd say to stay out of it, except for you saw something that bothers you. If you think it would make you feel better to discuss it with him, then do so. You should realize that when you get involved in such things, you may find out more than you want to know.
31/f
**EDIT**
I still must stand in total disagreement with the other columnists.
It is NOT your place to tell your mother. It IS your FATHER'S place to tell her.
Why would you put the balance of their relationship onto your shoulders, where it DOES NOT BELONG?
As a mother, I would not want to hear something like this from one of my sons. In fact, it would hurt more and outright piss me off more.
Everyone else seems sure that you should tell her, even go so far as to say your mother would resent you, and that it's horrible if you didn't.
That is NOT true.
Just talk to your dad. It's not your responsibility to crush your mother with the truth, because that is the reality of it: The truth will crush her. That is HIS responsibility to tell her the truth.
NOT YOUR PLACE TO DO THAT.
PERIOD.
No good mother would want you to, either.
22F- I have a great boyfriend who I love dearly but I met this great older man (51) last summer and we had a fantastic time. He's wealthy and enjoys traveling and doing things that I want to try. I have been avoiding him but I'm being drawn back to his lifestyle since summer is coming up. He has a boat, helicopter, huge house, motorcycles... and he will pay for most of the expenses on whatever we do. I went on a trip with him and some of his friends last fall and had a fantastic time but I had to lie to my dad about it. My mom knew who I was with from the get-go but I didn't tell my dad the whole story until I got back. I know my parents won't be very keen on me traveling with the 51m and I don't know how to tell them that I want to try new things and travel and I don't want to pass a great opportunity. But my bf and I have been together 5 months and we are in a great place. He just graduated college and I'll graduate in May. He lives and works about 2 hours from my hometown (where I want to live after I grad) and I don't think he wants to move. I've told him I want to live back in my hometown and he just doesn't jump on board with it. He has a great family and he's the last of 4 to get married. I get along with everyone in his family very well, also. We have discussed marriage (which is what I want ultimately out of life) and children (I want 1-2 and he wants 3-4) but he doesn't have the funds to propose to me or anything, which I'm not sure if I would say yes if he proposed. I guess I need advice on what to do. Should I break it off and have fun and be young with the spontaneous older man or should I suck it up and sacrifice this opportunity to stay with my boyfriend and strengthen our relationship? What should I do about my parents?
a little more:
I usually date older men
I have a tendency to cheat on my bf's when I see them going sour
I feel like I am sacrificing my youth to be serious
"(which is what I want ultimately out of life)"
That pretty much answers your question, don't you figure?
Then again, since you seem worried about this guy even being able to afford a ring for you, are you going to eventually make a guy miserable because he can't provide you with the pretty things in life? If so, how is that fair to HIM?
You are 22 years old, and you're just going to have to decide what makes you happy in life, love or money, and go for it without regret.
"I feel like I am sacrificing my youth to be serious"
Welcome to Life, where responsible adults sacrifice all of the time. You have to work it out with yourself, though, what is worth sacrifice to you. Either you sacrifice the material lifestyle, or you sacrifice the married with children lifestyle.
Think carefully.
Choose wisely.
31/f
I just found out that I'm a few weeks pregnant and it's been pretty stressful trying to change my lifestyle around. I have stopped drinking and have cut down dramatically on smoking cigarettes. I know you're not suppose to do other drugs like weed so I have been staying away from my friends who do those things so I don't end up in a bad situation for my baby.
What else do I need to avoid though? What else is bad for my baby? I don't want to be taking something in my body that is harmful if I can avoid it and I don't want to be doing things that will risk my baby's health. Is it ok to exercise and stuff when you're pregnant too? I don't know anything about this...please give me some advice!
Very important: Find an OB-GYN and set an appointment. The appointments will be regular, and become more frequent once you reach the 3rd trimester. Do not miss these appointments, because they are important to keep track of Baby's health as well as your own!
Of course you know not to drink or do drugs. You should of course quit smoking, but I'm a realist and say cutting down is certainly a good step in the right direction. Smoking is VERY HARD to quit. I know, because I quit, but I won't lie to you and tell you it was before my children were born.
I found an OB-GYN that who was also a realist: She didn't want me to smoke, but praised me on cutting way back. I am a coffee drinker, and she allowed me one cup per day.
Exercise is excellent!! Stick with low impact, though, until you can get in to see your OB. We are ALL different, and our bodies all deal with pregnancy differently (Heck, both of my pregnancies differed from one another...), and your exercise routine is something you want to work out with good ol' Doc OB.
When it comes to what you consume, if it's bad for you, it's bad for baby.
Only eat fully cooked meat. Though medium-rare steaks may taste the best to you, it's best for you to have them well done until baby is born.
Under no circumstances should you eat sushi or any other form of raw fish or meats during pregnancy! High risk of food poisoning with that stuff. Don't eat a lot of tuna, either because of mercury.
DO NOT take aspirin. If you have a headache, take Tylenol only, unless Doc OB says otherwise. Other than taking Tylenol for aches, take NO MEDICINES unless Doc OB says it's ok to do. Many medicines can be harmful to baby.
A site that I found EXTREMELY helpful during my first pregnancy is linked below. I highly recommend it, because it is a wealth of pregnancy knowledge. In fact, it will inform you week by week what you can expect to go through and what's going on in Baby's World of Warm Belly Goo.
I think you'll find it as helpful as I did.
http://www.whattoexpect.com/what-to-expect/landing-page.aspx
31/f, mother of two healthy toddler boys.
I am 23. I currently asked out the girl I really liked, she's 17. There is a major age difference, but although she's 17 she acts mature. Anyways, people don't approve of our relationship. They tell her that all I want to do is sleep with her when that's not the case. I really do care about her. I'm not that type of guy that does that. I am a really good guy. I'm a nurse studying to be a doctor, I will be going to Japan to work at hospitals over there for a month, I go to church, I have morals, I don't drink or smoke. I think I am a good catch.
I want to make my girlfriend a mixtape. What are some good songs I can use to show her that I love her no matter what people think?
And if you can help with my problem, what can I do to show the people (her family, friends, etc) that I'm with her because I want to make her happy and I don't want to sleep with her.
I can't help you choose songs, because I don't know you nor her, and I think that the songs you choose should be on a personal level. Are there any songs that when you hear them, you think of her? If so, then there you go.
As for the friends and family, this isn't about them. The only person who you show why you are with her is HER. If all you want to do is make her happy, then focus on doing just that.
They will see in time what you're about. If you go out of your way to try to prove them wrong, you'll only make them more suspicious of you, anyway.
31/f
I just got my Monroe done today, and I have a few questions.
I smoke, what do I do?
And also, it's been hurting a lot when I eat, what do I do about that?
How long does it take to heal?
And how long does it take for the swelling to go down?
Also, how long does it take for it to stop hurting when I eat?
Please don't tell me to ask my piercer.
Thank you. [:
**EDIT**
"My piercer never told me anything cause I have my nose pierced, I'm guessing he assumed that I knew what to do. I wasn't aware there was so much to it till I went online and started googling what to do."
NEVER go there again. A reputable establishment DOES NOT assume you know how to take care of a piercing, because each one has different after care! They should ALWAYS explain your aftercare, as well as send you home with information on how to take care of it.
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I had mine done on February 4th. It is just now getting to were it doesn't hurt so much to eat. You pretty much just have to suffer with it. That is the price we pay for poking holes in our faces like that.
The swelling will be at it's worst on days 2-5.
You got to wait at least 2 weeks from the day you had it done to have them put the short bar in. The one you have in now is longer to allow for swelling. My swelling actually got pretty outrageous, and I had to go in to have an even longer bar put on.
One thing I can tell you is being a smoker, it's likely going to take longer to heal and also to take longer to stop hurting. In fact, most respectable places will tell you that you should either quit smoking or not get a Monroe.
I quit smoking before getting mine done. You want to continue smoking? Fine. You just have to suck it up and deal until you're healed up in 6-8 weeks.
You need to change your outlook about asking your piercer questions. You allow someone to take a needle and injure your body and don't want to ask them questions about what they're doing to you??
Especially considering that they should have already answered these questions when you had it done, as well as sending you home with strict instructions and an aftercare sheet...
I can tell you from my experience (and I've had several experiences), but you need to trust your piercer enough to call or email them with your questions. They ARE the experts...
31/f
I always heard that Richard Simmons was gay. My mom use to have the Sweatin' to the Oldies work-out VHS tape she watched every day. I know Richard Simmons sounds a little high-pitched for a man but so does my best guy friend and he's not queer.
Anyway, I'm really just curious is all. Is Richard Simmons an open homosexual for sure?
No, he is not married, nor does he have 3 children. He has 3 Dalmatians, and I'm sure they are children in his eyes.
He has denied being gay. He is a devout Catholic, and his religion severely frowns upon homosexuality. But even if he is closet-gay, he is still a totally awesome guy who devotes his life to truly helping others.
Below is an excerpt from an article that pertains to your question, as well as the link to the rest of the article. I suggest reading it all, because it's pretty interesting FACTS about Richard Simmons and his life.
"One big thing you and I don't know about Richard Simmons is his personal life. He rarely discusses it and, when prodded, says there is none to speak of.
"There are sacrifices you have to make. I don't have a lot to offer one person. I have a lot to offer to a lot of people." He says he has very few friends. He calls himself a loner. He lives in the Hollywood Hills with two maids and his Dalmatians, which he named after characters from "Gone With the Wind" (Scarlett, Pittypat, Melanie). When he's out of town, he calls his house every night to talk with his dogs and sing to them.
His says his life companions are the fans who line up for hours to tell Simmons their life stories, who sum it up in the few seconds they have together."
From link: http://www.denverpost.com/fitness/ci_9595970?source=bb
How do I tell my parents that I'm pregnant?
I live with my mom and I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. My mom thinks he's OK so it isn't like she hates him. I heard her telling my dad about it on the phone once when he called to see if I wanted to come down to his house on the weekend so I know my dad knows about him too.
Anyway, I've been having sex with my boyfriend since we got together. We used a condom every time but I guess one didn't work because I didn't get my period this last time. I bought some home pregnancy tests (4 of them total) and they ALL came up positive. I even took once mid-way through the school day and it still showed pregnant. I totally didn't want to get pregnant, especially in high school, but it looks like I am anyway.
So, I need to tell my mom that he got me pregnant. What's even worse is that I was just about to break up with him. Now I feel like if I break up with him my mom will make this situation even worse.
How do I tell my mom I'm pregnant?
How do I break up with this guy without my mom freaking out?
I plan to keep the baby and raise it myself and I want my mom to be supportive of this. How do I break the news to her and tell her my plan?
Your mom is going to want the best for you and your baby. If you don't want to be with this guy, I'm sure she will support you, because miserable couples do not make a happy life for children.
How do you tell her? Just blurt it out and get it over with. She'll probably freak out at first, because of your age, but she WILL GET OVER IT.
Just tell her, then tell her your plans.
If you just can't blurt it out, my friend told her parents by writing "I'm pregnant" on a piece of paper and hanging it where her parents could see it.
Personally, I wouldn't suggest doing it that way, because they would have rather she just opened up and said it. But it's a way of telling her.
If your mom has been there for you and supported you all these years, have faith in the woman.
31/f
i posted a question on here a while back about being unsure about whether or not i had a yeast infection. well, i'm pretty sure i don't, considering i'm not "uncomfortable" and i don't itch. but i do smell terrible. i went to the store recently and got some vaginal deodorant, but it only seems to work for about an hour, and then i smell really bad again. i spray it on/around my vaginal area and in my underwear because it said to do that for extra strength, but it still wears off.
does anyone know of any good products that could get rid of this horrid odor? it's frustrating me to no end. thanks for any advice.
If you are having an ongoing issue with this, you need to see a doctor to make sure there is no underlying medical problem
You especially need to see a doctor if you are sexually active, because that is a symptom of some STDs.
From MayoClinic.com:
"Causes
By Mayo Clinic staff
Commonly, vaginal odor may be caused by:
* Bacterial vaginosis
* Chlamydia
* Gonorrhea
* Pelvic inflammatory disease (PID)
* Poor hygiene
* Yeast infection
When to see a doctor
By Mayo Clinic staff
If you have persistent vaginal odor, see your doctor.
In the meantime, to minimize vaginal odor:
* Wash your external genital area. During regular baths or showers, use a very small amount of mild, unscented soap and lots of water.
* Avoid douching. All healthy vaginas contain some bacteria and other organisms. The normal acidity of the vagina keeps bacteria and yeast in check. But douching can actually upset this delicate balance."
31/f
Hi! I was talking to my best friend one day and she said she was heading to McDonald's. I asked her what she gets there and she said she usually gets a McGangBang to eat and the Mickey D's sweet tea to drink. I didn't want to sound stupid so I went with the conversation and didn't ask, "What in the WORLD is a McGangBang?!"
I'm pretty sure McDonald's doesn't have that on their menus but I don't know what it might be. My friend isn't nasty and doesn't participate in gangbangs or anything so I KNOW it isn't dirty or some weird sexual thing. What is a McGangBang so the next time my friends talk about it I will have a better idea of what it is?
THANKS!!!
Here you go:
http://www.eatmedaily.com/2009/03/the-mcgangbang-a-mcchicken-sandwich-inside-a-double-cheeseburger/
Okay I am 17 and I got a speeding ticket about a week ago in a rental car I wasn't registered to use. On the ticket it does say I was unlawfully driving it but it says my offense is speeding. Will I be fined for using the rental car? And can I just send in the payment or do I have to call the court house first.
Does the ticket have a dollar amount written on it for the ticket's fine? If so, you can just mail the ticket fine in BEFORE the court date noted on the ticket.
If not, then you must show up to the court date noted on the ticket in order for the judge to decide your fine. If there is no fine price written by the officer, you MUST go to court.
As for being fined over the car, I would guess that if it wasn't listed on your ticket as an actual offense, you probably won't be fined for it.
Of course, when in doubt, call the Clerk of the District Court office and clarify any questions or concerns. The office would be within the county courthouse. (Of course, it would be the courthouse of the county the traffic offense took place.)
31/f
Whens the soonest you can take a pregnancy test after the sex?
To get the most accurate results, you should wait until you are a week late for your next due period, or if you are a teen, two weeks late. (Just in case you're having an irregular month)
Of course, there are tests that say you can test sooner (if you buy this certain overpriced stick to pee on!) but wouldn't you rather go with certain accuracy? Chances of false positives are slim to none, but false negatives are far more likely.
Why?
Early testing.
31/f