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How to tell my mom that I'm pregnant...


Question Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 7:07 pm

How do I tell my parents that I'm pregnant?

I live with my mom and I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. My mom thinks he's OK so it isn't like she hates him. I heard her telling my dad about it on the phone once when he called to see if I wanted to come down to his house on the weekend so I know my dad knows about him too.

Anyway, I've been having sex with my boyfriend since we got together. We used a condom every time but I guess one didn't work because I didn't get my period this last time. I bought some home pregnancy tests (4 of them total) and they ALL came up positive. I even took once mid-way through the school day and it still showed pregnant. I totally didn't want to get pregnant, especially in high school, but it looks like I am anyway.

So, I need to tell my mom that he got me pregnant. What's even worse is that I was just about to break up with him. Now I feel like if I break up with him my mom will make this situation even worse.

How do I tell my mom I'm pregnant?
How do I break up with this guy without my mom freaking out?
I plan to keep the baby and raise it myself and I want my mom to be supportive of this. How do I break the news to her and tell her my plan?


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CLN answered Wednesday February 17 2010, 11:54 pm:
Sooo knocked up congrates in a good way.
My name is C.L.N and I never got pregnant but my sister did at 16 so one thing she did was just started out like this

Mom I have something I have
to tell you but you have to
Swear you want get made or
through in opions ( if see say
Ok ) I knew I shouldn't have
but me and .....been messing
around and I'm pregnant
Please forgive me

If she feels she have to tell dad then tell her to cuz if you do than he will most likley yell or not want to talk but if your mom tells him the right way then he will want to talk to you.
And your mother should want to support you she's going to be a granmal. Even when my sis had got knocked up my mom ofered no help but now she has him every weekend.
Hope I helped good luck!!!!!!!!!

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Brandi_S answered Wednesday February 17 2010, 10:02 pm:
Your mom is going to want the best for you and your baby. If you don't want to be with this guy, I'm sure she will support you, because miserable couples do not make a happy life for children.

How do you tell her? Just blurt it out and get it over with. She'll probably freak out at first, because of your age, but she WILL GET OVER IT.

Just tell her, then tell her your plans.

If you just can't blurt it out, my friend told her parents by writing "I'm pregnant" on a piece of paper and hanging it where her parents could see it.
Personally, I wouldn't suggest doing it that way, because they would have rather she just opened up and said it. But it's a way of telling her.

If your mom has been there for you and supported you all these years, have faith in the woman.

31/f

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