I have nothing to talk about with my boyfriend now...
Question Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 6:54 pm
I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and we have a great relationship. He comes over to my house once a week and we cuddle and he's really a sweetheart. My problem is that we don't really talk about anything. Ever.
I don't know what to talk to him about. I don't really have anything to talk to him about that I haven't already said. I don't want to end this relationship because he's such a good boyfriend but it's getting boring and, to say the least, strange.
When we talk on the phone we say the same things we usually do. I've been trying to cut down on the time we are in communication with eachother so that when we get together we have more to talk about but it doesn't seem to change anything. It's like our "conversations" don't REALLY start, you know?
What can I do to save this relationship?! What are we missing?
CLN answered Wednesday February 17 2010, 10:45 pm: Oooooh well hi I'm C.L.N and I realy get what your saying. Me and my boyfriend was going through the same thing but I was like you didn't know what to do or say to pop something off.
So how my problem got solved was I went to him and I asked him what I can do. So you sould proble do the same. And if he feels the confused what my BF told me to do is to say things he like, like I love you, kiss me, I'm so happy your here and he should react to that and even if you have to repeat it still let him know in advance that you care for him hopefully things work out for you wish lots of luck. [ CLN's advice column | Ask CLN A Question ]
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