Question Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 7:22 pm
When I masturbate I cannot ejaculate. It's really embarrassing and I'm not going to go to my parents and say, "Hey, when I masterbate I'm not able to cum out! Should I see a doctor?"
I have masturbated many times now but I never reach orgasm. I've tried different techniques, have tried "cumming" quickly, and have tried jacking off for a long period of time before trying to "cum" but it never happens!
What's more embarrassing is that I urinate instead of cumming, it seems. I've peed on my bed twice now because I was trying to reach climax. I now stand over the toilet to masturbate so when it gets to the point of urination I won't make a mess again. It is most definately urine and not cum.
I haven't gone past kissing a girl because of this. It's SO embarrassing and gross. Yeah, I can get hard and it feels really good to jack off but then the wrong thing happens in the end! I just cannot tell a girl I can't have sex with her because I can't cum but will, instead, pee.
I feel so messed up. Something is seriously wrong with me, obviously, but I don't know what to do about it now. Please, help me!
Karlissa23 answered Wednesday February 17 2010, 10:08 pm: Your problem may be that your not fully turned on. Your focusing on it too much you should relax and find something or someone that gets you hot and bothered and then try. Just forget about cumming . Let it come natural. Lol [ Karlissa23's advice column | Ask Karlissa23 A Question ]
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