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Alright. Here's what happened. Awhile ago I was at my boyfriends house. We had been dating for like four months at that time. So about a week before that day he had fingered me for the first time. He'd done it before but I hadn't. He's sixteen and I'm fourteen by the way, but he's only the grade above, a year and a half older. But anyway. So it was new but I liked it and yeah. Well on that day I started giving him a handjob but I didn't think I was doing any of it right and I felt like an idiot so I kind of stopped right in the middle... I guess you're not supposed to do that /: ... yeah. oops. So we decided to slow things down a little cuz I didn't think I was ready for all that stuff yet but it's been a few weeks and I want to try again. I just don't wanna screw up again... haha. The first time I told him I had no clue what I was doing so he showed me what to do with my hand but I don't know it was awkward... so will someone please tell me how to do this?? And when he told me you weren't supposed to stop in the middle of a handjob he mentioned something like blueballs?? What does that mean? (link)
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You wrap your hand around it and start slowly moving up and down and when you get in the rhythm move a little faster and keep progressing . You have to do this until he cums which might take a while but he will love every second of it.
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hi
welll...
what do you people think of phone sex..it it really bad..i did it a couple times with my bf..and it feels really good. To me it makes me feel..slutty..;/ My bf treats me well..and we hardly see each other.. i never felt this way about someone before..but tell my should i be ashamed of doing this..my mom almost caught me..she's suspicous now...;/ help me out? thanks nd plz dont be to harsh.. (link)
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You shouldn't feel ashamed about it it's a natural part of long distance relationship. It's not slutty it's sexy.
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the boy i have a huge crush on has got a girlfriend but it looks as if there goin to split up sometime soon :) so i was thinking about asking him about a week or so after they finish each other but im not sure how to say it, should i just come out with it, or should i try and make a convo first but the only thing with that is he never ansers to wuu2? an all that :S ( im going to do it over msn by the way ) help please (link)
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I wouldn't do that because you would become his rebound.
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i posted a question on here a while back about being unsure about whether or not i had a yeast infection. well, i'm pretty sure i don't, considering i'm not "uncomfortable" and i don't itch. but i do smell terrible. i went to the store recently and got some vaginal deodorant, but it only seems to work for about an hour, and then i smell really bad again. i spray it on/around my vaginal area and in my underwear because it said to do that for extra strength, but it still wears off.
does anyone know of any good products that could get rid of this horrid odor? it's frustrating me to no end. thanks for any advice. (link)
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You may need to douche and if it doesn't work go to the gynecologist.
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Alright, so I'm not sure how to go about saying this. Lets see. I lost my virginity with my boyfriend of 6 months back in December. We've probably done it about 5 times since then, I think I've bled every single time we've done it, obviously a virgin bleeds, and he's significantly larger than most men, about 8.5 inches, at first it wasn't worrying me, because I knew that I was going to bleed. I know he torn me because It isn't really normal to bleed as frequently as I do, and I wasn't too surprised when I was very sore and still spotting the next week, accompanying what felt like a UTI, Painful urination, etc. I didn't get treated for it, and it seemed to stop hurting as much, but since the first time, I haven't returned to normal quite the same. Just recently I've been spotting really inconsistantly and My Vagina is inflamed quite a bit, I'm really tight. and urinating doesn't hurt consistatnly either, its only on occasion and it's a light burning sensation, nothing like it was before. I'm a little bit afraid that something's been wrong, it's been almost 2 months (not since the last go, but the first), and I'm still suffering consequences. Oh, and I don't know if this has anything to do with it but the period after our first time, I had cramps a lot worse than usual. Has anybody experienced this, or does anybody know what could be wrong? My parents don't know, I am 18 but I don't really want to go to a gyno or a doctor. Are there any store bought medications I might be able to take? Thanks a ton guys... (link)
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You have to go to the hospital because it can get worse and whatever medicine you are probably needing would mean that you will have to have a perscription for it. So it's mandatory that you go to the hospital.
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Ok, you might think I'm trying to give up on someone I see every day but I never saw this guy in my life we meet in a chat room and since then are relationship grew. I knew him for about 1year and a half and we started by sending mesages and now we talk amost ever night. Don't get me wrong it is heavy flirting going on when we talke I mean how els can we tain are selfs.
We are starting to say things to eachother like iwant you to myself and iwant to love you and he made a song about me.....two songs..... real songs and he calls me sweety and I call him babe.
Your proble saying why you want just meet up somewhere but he lives all the way in LA and that's a distance from here. So help what should I do sould I give up or still fight for are love (link)
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You should prob forget about him because you never know who he could be dating. You wanna find someone close to you so that you can see him you know .
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16/M
When I masturbate I cannot ejaculate. It's really embarrassing and I'm not going to go to my parents and say, "Hey, when I masterbate I'm not able to cum out! Should I see a doctor?"
I have masturbated many times now but I never reach orgasm. I've tried different techniques, have tried "cumming" quickly, and have tried jacking off for a long period of time before trying to "cum" but it never happens!
What's more embarrassing is that I urinate instead of cumming, it seems. I've peed on my bed twice now because I was trying to reach climax. I now stand over the toilet to masturbate so when it gets to the point of urination I won't make a mess again. It is most definately urine and not cum.
I haven't gone past kissing a girl because of this. It's SO embarrassing and gross. Yeah, I can get hard and it feels really good to jack off but then the wrong thing happens in the end! I just cannot tell a girl I can't have sex with her because I can't cum but will, instead, pee.
I feel so messed up. Something is seriously wrong with me, obviously, but I don't know what to do about it now. Please, help me! (link)
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Your problem may be that your not fully turned on. Your focusing on it too much you should relax and find something or someone that gets you hot and bothered and then try. Just forget about cumming . Let it come natural. Lol
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14/m
last monday, february 15, i went out with a girl. I knew she liked me and this other guy who is older then me i think 10th grade. After the movie we kissed, nothing else. So when i get home i text her and she texts me. At the end i tell her night and i'll be thinking about her. She said night and same. Well Tuesday comes, i send her a text in the morning same time i do everyday usually. No reply, i go to school, thinking she was busy.
Later that day i send a text after school. No reply. So i called her later that night. No answer, fully rang, 6 times went to Voicemail and i didn't leave a voicemail i never do.
So now its today, Feb 17. Didn't send anything till this afternoon well actually early evening. The text said that i was sorry and it was ok that she didn't like me because i like being her friend and we've been friends for awhile now. My friend told me that she didn't wanna go on a double date this weekend. He knows because we were gonna go so it would've been her, me, my friend and his date who happens do be this girls best friend. So he told me she didn't like me because her friend said it to him.
Thats when i sent the text, sorry this is getting long haha, So she replied asking who my friend was because i said his name. I asked her if she wanted to talk on the phone. No reply. Sent her another msg no reply to that either and i called her again, rang full amount again.
What does this mean? Like i know she doesn't like me now more then likely. But im still confused on it.
Anyhelp would be appreciated thanks :) (link)
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Maybe she did like you when y'all went to the movies. But while she was there she prob figured that you two weren't compatible. So I think you should move on and find a better girl for you.
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My boyfriend and I have sex without condoms. We've only used a condom once, actually, but we've only been having sex for a couple of weeks. He always pulls it out of me before he cums so he doesn't get me pregnant so we don't need condoms or anything like that.
My best friend said he probably still leaks in me a little and it's called precum. I talked to my boyfriend about it and he was like, "NO! I ALWAYS pull out of you, you know that!" I totally trust my boyfriend and I know he doesn't cum inside of me, obviously.
I'm still kind of worried though because I also don't think my best friend would lie to me about getting pregnant. I totally can NOT get pregnant by my boyfriend because my mom would kill me.
Can this "precum" really get me pregnant? Should I be worried that I might be pregnant? My period was due two days ago but I know sex delays your period so I wasn't worried about it...should I be concerned now? (link)
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Throughout the whole time a guy has sex a little bit of precum comes out throughout the WHOLE process. Your bf can't prevent precum from coming out . Yes it is very possible for you to get pregnant that way. So you might wanna start to use condoms just to be safe.
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i'm 17/f and my bfs 18/m.
to start with, we have known eachother for almost a year now but only recently did we start dating. when we first met we liked eachother but we argued so much so we stayed friends. idk about him but i REALLY liked him, i was so upset when we argued and i always thought about him. now we have stopped arguing and were getting along really well, but it doesnt feel right to me. we havent argued at all since we have started dating, do you think im just used to arguing with him so thats why it feels weird??? i mean i dont think about him most of the day like i used to :/ dont get me wrong, i still really like him but idk..it just doesnt feel right. (link)
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Y'all are wayyyy better off just friends.
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theres this girl and i love her so much, ive already told her how i felt and she says tht she likes me too and we're dating now but she keeps giving me mixed signals, i cant tell if our relationship is going anywhere, if it isnt i want to end it now before i get to attached and cause my self heart ache.
if you need me to explain more just let me know.
By the way im bisexual and im 14
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You need to tell her that you need to know how you make her feel. Tell her that she can trust you to tell you how she feels. Let her know how much you care for her and that it would be nice to know whats going on in her brain/heart
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f/14.
hey so i like this guy a little,
and we talked a couple times so im
gonna tell youu all what went down:
so, i met him in my school cause i lost my
jacket. and i went to his lunch in 8th period to
see if it was in there and it wasn't and i was like, asking the lunch aid if it was in there anywhere and he over heard me and he was like, ohh its in my locker and i smiled and thought he was cuute so i was like oh really, and he was like yeah. so i was like, hmm. describe it then to me, and he was like okay its white and it has a hood and i was like oh? and i just before had ex. to the lunch aid that it was white and had a hood and so i was like hm, ex. it more and he was like i guess you could say flirting with me a little. and ever since then when i saw him he was like wheres my jacket. and i laugh, and soo. then hes friends with the kid who i used to like but, it didn't work out between me and him. so it ended and whenever i see him most of the time he's with him.
and well, let me get to the point i saw him another day, and i was talking to him he told me to go to his lunch with him so i did, and he was un clipping my bag and pulled my chair closer to him, and took my iPod and unplugged it and was changing the song and i was supposed to hangout with him that say but he had to drive his friends home after school so he couldn't and it seems every time i try to make plans with him they never ever happen.... how do i get him to get more interest me more, is he even interested in me & how can i tell? oh & before i forget i told my friend i sort of liked him and she was like of thats not going to end up well he's a big time player, & she was interested in him at one point so i dont know if shes just saying that or if its true & he's 17 and im going to be 15 in april btw if that helps? kwell, HEEEEEEEEEEEEElllllllllPPPPPPPP thankyouuu byeee. (link)
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He prob thinks your cute but he knows your age which means that y'all prob couldn't date. Cause thare is that whole going to jail thing you know. He prob is a player and you deff don't wanna end up hurt. So I just say find someone closer to your age and I'm sure he will be just as cute if not cuter than that 17 year old.
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So, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a 8 months now and we have been having sex for the past 4 months. One night I was playing around with him and called him, "Daddy." The next thing I know it was leading to sexual play and, of course, we ended up having sex. It really surprised me because he didn't tell me anything about wanting to be called Daddy. He never brought it up himself since then either.
I've called him Daddy a few more times since then to see his reaction and it really seems to get him going good. I know that I hear songs where girls are calling their man "Daddy" and "Papi" so I'm not freaked out by it anything. It's actually made me curious if this is really common or something!
He's a REALLY good guy and I don't have any reason to believe this is any more than some simple role playing. Should I talk to him more about this or leave it be? I mean, if it's a common interest for men then there's no reason why I should ask possibly-embarrassing questions, right?
Has anyone else encountered this or is "into" this sort of thing and can shed some light onto it? Is it an odd practice that we should discuss and let die off?
I want our relationship to be strong and fulfilling in all ways so I'm just wanting to know if this is something I should inquire more about, I suppose... (link)
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It is very common for a man to want to be called daddy or papi. It's a turn on because they wanna feel dominant. Making him feel like he's the boss or that he's in control in the bedroom is all he wants. I'm sure he's loving every moment of you calling him daddy.
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Female
When I masturbate and orgasm I get this weird creamy like white substance and it could be for a few days or a week. It's not a yeast infection I dont think, I've had them in the past and it's not the same cottage cheese look and it doesn't itch. I'm not sure if the smell of this dischage is normal or not. I'm not really that sexually active either. Any idea what this could be? (link)
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I'm not too sure on what it might be I think you should go get it checked out because you definately don't want it to get worse.
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