Question Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 7:48 pm
Ok, you might think I'm trying to give up on someone I see every day but I never saw this guy in my life we meet in a chat room and since then are relationship grew. I knew him for about 1year and a half and we started by sending mesages and now we talk amost ever night. Don't get me wrong it is heavy flirting going on when we talke I mean how els can we tain are selfs.
We are starting to say things to eachother like iwant you to myself and iwant to love you and he made a song about me.....two songs..... real songs and he calls me sweety and I call him babe.
Your proble saying why you want just meet up somewhere but he lives all the way in LA and that's a distance from here. So help what should I do sould I give up or still fight for are love
lovealways1221 answered Thursday February 18 2010, 8:21 pm: the way i look at it.. i see 2 possible solutions
a. he could be lying to you and actually "cheat" on you with other girls who live closer to him. (aka a player)
b. he could actually love you and mean all those things.
I dont know the answer to which one could be true, but you gotta trust your instincts. listen to your gut. not your heart or head.
if you believe that he really does love you, and that you he's not using you.. then i'd say keep him. maybe dont take it too far (like long distance relationship) but stay in touch. maybe during the summer, you 2 could take a trip and meet somewhere? maybe with your families?
its really what you feel is right. if you want to stick with him, i wouldn't give up on him. there's no harm in having too many friends. so just keep him as a friend (or friends with benefits if you wish) and maybe in the future when you guys are able to meet, you can see where it goes on from there. let fate guide you :)
Karlissa23 answered Wednesday February 17 2010, 10:13 pm: You should prob forget about him because you never know who he could be dating. You wanna find someone close to you so that you can see him you know . [ Karlissa23's advice column | Ask Karlissa23 A Question ]
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