Question Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 8:20 am
i'm 17/f and my bfs 18/m.
to start with, we have known eachother for almost a year now but only recently did we start dating. when we first met we liked eachother but we argued so much so we stayed friends. idk about him but i REALLY liked him, i was so upset when we argued and i always thought about him. now we have stopped arguing and were getting along really well, but it doesnt feel right to me. we havent argued at all since we have started dating, do you think im just used to arguing with him so thats why it feels weird??? i mean i dont think about him most of the day like i used to :/ dont get me wrong, i still really like him but idk..it just doesnt feel right.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? holahayley56 answered Wednesday February 17 2010, 6:34 pm: I feel like I went through something similar to this. I really liked this one boy, I didn't really know him, but I thought he was beautiful and I thought about him constantly, and then when we started talking, we had a lot in common, but the spark was just gone. I think I liked the chase more then the actual relationship. So, maybe that's all you like too, or maybe you're not ready for a relationship yet. I can't really read your mind, so I don't know. But, if you don't like him that much, then I would just end it, before things get messy. [ holahayley56's advice column | Ask holahayley56 A Question ]
laynemayhem answered Wednesday February 17 2010, 4:38 pm: you were too used to the arguing, like siblings. and it doesnt feel right to you because to your subconcious, it feels like you're dating your brother. you guys seem better off as friends, to me. :
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