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Can pre-cum REALLY lead to pregnancy?


Question Posted Wednesday February 17 2010, 5:11 am

My boyfriend and I have sex without condoms. We've only used a condom once, actually, but we've only been having sex for a couple of weeks. He always pulls it out of me before he cums so he doesn't get me pregnant so we don't need condoms or anything like that.

My best friend said he probably still leaks in me a little and it's called precum. I talked to my boyfriend about it and he was like, "NO! I ALWAYS pull out of you, you know that!" I totally trust my boyfriend and I know he doesn't cum inside of me, obviously.

I'm still kind of worried though because I also don't think my best friend would lie to me about getting pregnant. I totally can NOT get pregnant by my boyfriend because my mom would kill me.

Can this "precum" really get me pregnant? Should I be worried that I might be pregnant? My period was due two days ago but I know sex delays your period so I wasn't worried about it...should I be concerned now?


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xokristabelle answered Thursday February 18 2010, 3:09 pm:
Yes, precum has more than enough sperm to enable conception. And of course he'll say that, because guys can't usually feel when precum comes out. Pulling out is extremely ineffective and if you keep it up, chances are you will get pregnant. You should take a pregnancy test now to make sure.

If you and your boyfriend don't like condoms, then at least get on birth control (you can get it from Planned Parenthood without your parents knowing).

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thelaura answered Wednesday February 17 2010, 6:40 pm:
Pre cum can contain sperm. End of.
He just probably doesn't feel it coming out.

Yes, you should be a little concerned, if it doesn't come soon, get a pregnancy test.

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thnx4thmmrs answered Wednesday February 17 2010, 5:13 pm:
Alright, It's definately a possibility, but here's the thing, the guy can't feel himself precum, it's just the liquid that sperm comes out with, it doesn't always have sperm, and I read that if the guy hasn't urinated since he last came, then there could be sperm in this liquid. Urinating clears the tract. But no promises, there are always exceptions. My boyfriend pulled out everytime he "felt himself get ready to precum" but even so, even if he wipes it off or whatever, it doesn't kill the sperm, it's still there, sperm does not die when it touches air. Just be careful.

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Karlissa23 answered Wednesday February 17 2010, 2:30 pm:
Throughout the whole time a guy has sex a little bit of precum comes out throughout the WHOLE process. Your bf can't prevent precum from coming out . Yes it is very possible for you to get pregnant that way. So you might wanna start to use condoms just to be safe.

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NinjaNeer answered Wednesday February 17 2010, 1:15 pm:
Pre-cum can absolutely get you pregnant.

Your boyfriend wouldn't be able to feel it. It's a slow leakage that happens while he's aroused. Theoretically, it's made up of the stuff that's in semen minus the sperm. However, because of that, sperm can definitely live in it. Even a couple strays that happen to get out can get you pregnant.

The pill is cheap, and you can get it without parental permission through Planned Parenthood, as well as free condoms. You don't want to have to go through an unplanned pregnancy at this age.

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