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HJ and blueballs? haha help...
Alright. Here's what happened. Awhile ago I was at my boyfriends house. We had been dating for like four months at that time. So about a week before that day he had fingered me for the first time. He'd done it before but I hadn't. He's sixteen and I'm fourteen by the way, but he's only the grade above, a year and a half older. But anyway. So it was new but I liked it and yeah. Well on that day I started giving him a handjob but I didn't think I was doing any of it right and I felt like an idiot so I kind of stopped right in the middle... I guess you're not supposed to do that /: ... yeah. oops. So we decided to slow things down a little cuz I didn't think I was ready for all that stuff yet but it's been a few weeks and I want to try again. I just don't wanna screw up again... haha. The first time I told him I had no clue what I was doing so he showed me what to do with my hand but I don't know it was awkward... so will someone please tell me how to do this?? And when he told me you weren't supposed to stop in the middle of a handjob he mentioned something like blueballs?? What does that mean?
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I don't know if you did or not but next time you might want to buy lubricant, It can be found at Walmart in the condom department which is usually near the department where you buy pads when you have your period. Either that or behind a cash register. Lubricant will help your hand slide up and down and make it more pleasurable for him.
Blue Balls: A term used for pain in the testes or discomfort that occurs when a man becomes sexually aroused without ejaculating.
When you give a hand job you want to wrap your hand around the penis "not too hard" and stroke it up and down.
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You wrap your hand around it and start slowly moving up and down and when you get in the rhythm move a little faster and keep progressing . You have to do this until he cums which might take a while but he will love every second of it.
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We can't give you the tutorial you seek or any how-to info on sexuality on this site. The best thing to do is tell him you're inexperienced and let him guide you.
As far as "blue balls" goes he'll be fine. It's best defined as when climax approaches right before semen is to be released and things stop. When that happens there's minor aches or pains in the genital region about nothing serious that he should be whining about. It's something ahem that he knows how to take care of. It can't hurt him as bad as he may be telling you.
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Blue balls is when the sperm is kinda backed up and it makes the balls sore kinda. Idk it's really painful for guys I've given a guy blueballs haha.
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