i brokeup with my boyfriend but ONLY because he lived so far away and i never got to see him (everyone thought it was because of another guy but it wasn't) and ive been an emotional wreck ever since then, it was like 2 months ago and i still cry like at night and even somtimes if i start thinking about him during the day i go to the bathroom and cry during school... i'm just really confused. i mean, i don't know if i want to ask him for a second chance cuse i dont think i can stand never being able to see him all over agagin :-/ but i really want him back, and i still love him :( what should i do?
You'll never know until you ask.
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It's only been about a week but my boyfriend and I never talk. We only talk online and hes usually joking around about how he wants me to give him head. I wont, and hes ok with that but he still jokes. I know im young, but hes one of my first real boyfriends. With xmas coming up, i dont wanna break up and not be able to give him his gift. i dont no wat to do to get him to actually talk to me in school and stuff like that. what should i do?
It's really immature of him to be rude like that online and then be too shy to talk to you in person. I know you want to make it last because he's one of your first "real" boyfriends, but this one doesn't sound so great. Keep in mind that there are plenty of fish in the sea. If you really want this one to stick around though, talk to him in person. It'll give him a reality check. Tell him that if he wants to start having girlfriends, he needs to start acting decent.
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love his family to death. Since he's away at college they invite me to visit them alot and I stop to see his mom at work whenever I go to the mall. I have a problem, though- I got his Christmas gift and everything, but should I get something for his family? His mom seems like the kind of person that would get something for me, but I would feel really bad if she did and I didn't get them anything, and I bet she would vice versa. He has an older brother, a younger brother, a sister, dog, and mom and dad. They're really nice to me, but I'm lost on the dating/present etiquette here. Should I get them something, and if so, what?
I think you should get them something. Just think about all of their personalities and what you think they'd appreciate most. For instance...Does his younger brother play any sports or have any hobbies? You could get something related to that. And does his sister really like shopping or music or a sport/hobby? You could get her a gift certificate or CD(The brother might like a CD too, actually. You could ask them which ones they want.). For the parents, Bath and Body Works stuff is great for moms, and something sport/hobby related is great for dads. And for the dog...Wally World (Wal*Mart) has these cute little Santa sleigh-shaped bones with dog toys in it. Good luck & Merry Christmas!:P
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14/female Okay well this is going to be long, so I'm just going to warn you ahead of time, but please help. Well, a friend of mines mother has tumors in her head. Well about a month ago they were removed and there was this tube thing that the doctors put in her. Well less than a week ago the tumors came back and she had to go to the hospital for surgeory. I was pretty close w/ my friends mom and it's hard for me and one of my other friends to deal with it, and so were thinking about how our friend who's going through it is feeling. Well the girl who's mother is in the hostpital (Brittany) is being checked for tumors, and we just found out that she has one and will be getting her head shaved. Well a few of us girls (about 5) and a few close guy friends (about 10) were thinking of shaving our heads/cutting our hair really short. If you were the girl Brittany, how would you react to that? Would you think it's kind of mean/too hard to handle, or do you think it's a good gesture? I am so willing to do it because it's such a great friend, but I want some other opinions, the guys are defninitley doing it, and I got her a bunch of x-mas gifts and we've talked a lot. Brittany is very sensative when it come to her mom and her own problems and we think she'll either be sooo happy that she'll shed some tears of joy, or sooo sad that she won't be able to face us 'bald'. I know you guys don't know her, but if it were you, how do you think you'd respond. Again, I apologize for the lenght, I just wanted to add some detail, and sorry if it's confusing I tried to make it not confusing, but it still sounds that way to me. Thanks in advance for any help.
Gosh, it's awesome that you guys are willing to do that. I don't know if I could. I've actually heard of a group of kids in I think the fourth grade doing it when their friend had to get his head shaved, and the little boy with cancer was really happy about it. If it were me.....I would probably think it was really awesome too. It would make me realize how great my friends are. I think Brittany would feel the same. And it might also make her not so embarrassed when you go out places together. She won't stand out. You'll all just look crazy together. I think she'll like it. Again, it's awesome that you'd do that, and good luck! :)
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I don't understand this. I've been studying Psycology for years, yet I don't get why I can't fall asleep. I was diagnosed with Insomnia when I was 8. This isn't Insomnia. When I lay down to goto sleep, I get scared. As if something is in the room with me. Last night I went to sleep and I felt something behind me. I've been having this problem for 3 months. My doctor said it's normal, that it's just Anxiety, but I CAN'T goto sleep. What should I do?
You've probably already thought of tbis, and it's probably not the reason why you can't sleep, but maybe you're subconsciously afraid of the dark. I don't know...Just a suggestion!!!
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ok me and my best friend have been friends for like a year. she transferred to our skool 2months into the school year during our freshman year. well when she first moved here she still dated her this guy from her old town which is only like 20miles away...maybe less. well they broke up and no its been like 9months since they broke up and lately she has been sayin that i should go out with him. from what she has told me about him he sounds like the kind of guy i would date and i think we could be good together but she is my best friend and i dont kno whether i should date him or not. i mean there is the best friend rule..no dating ur best friends ex...idk i have brought it up to her and how im afraid if i date him it will hurt out friendship but she insists that it would be fine bc she wasnt in love with him and she thinks he and i would be good for eachother and stuff. i just dont kno wut to do....plz i need sum serious advice on this one... ~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~
Hey, your best friend is TRYING to hook you up! Of course it won't hurt the friendship! You said he seems like a nice guy, so go for it!
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OK listen boy friends brother told me that my boy friend says that i never call him or any thing and he was mad at me for leaving his house to be with my friend this one time and his brother said people were tellin him that im a big hoe and before i went with him i sucked alot of guys a yeah ok so i went home and called him to get it all straightin out and his sister picked up and i asked for him and she sed hold on and i heard her call him and he told her that he'll call me back well he never did i just don't know what to do with that i mean he says i never call but when i do he says he'll call back and he never does! can some one please help on this?? thanks
Does he always not call you back when you call him? Or was it just that one time? Either way, I suggest talking to him in person and straightening things out. Forget the phone, since that's the root of the problem to begin with. Apologize for not calling him often enough, and squash all the rumors that aren't true (the thing about being a hoe and all that). Because that could be another reason he isn't calling back. He might be avoiding you because of those rumors. Good luck with this relationship, I know rumors suck. Hope I helped!
Berri :)
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I'm a 24 yr old girl...and I met this great guy at a bar a few weeks ago and since then everytime I'm out, no matter where I am, he seems to be there. (Like it's meant to be?) Well, I went over to his house after leaving the bars twice. The first time we just hung out, we didn't even kiss... and then the second time we went a lot farther then that. I think he's wonderful and I want him to like me for me even though everytime I see him I'm pretty wasted.. I want to keep talking to him and I don't want to ruin things because I feel wierd and don't know how to act because I went too far with someone new.. but I really like him, I think he's so perfect... what should I do?? How should I act???
He's everywhere you go? It sounds a little like stalking...And if you're always wasted when you're around him, how can you be sure that he's "perfect"? You don't exactly have the best judgment when you're drunk...Don't get yourself in trouble. You've already done something you seem to regret with the guy. My advice would be to NOT get drunk one night, see if he appears at the same place you go, and then decide if he's really that great or not. You have to watch out for psycho freaks, cuz' they're everywhere.
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i am not going to track u down put were do u live? I live in AZ. (arizona)
Georgia!
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I like this guy who is a musician...actually he's in three different bands. So, every weekend he has shows that he plays. Being supportive, I come to see him play, but since he's playing we hardly get to talk, and when we do he's worn out and tired. Our conversations are pretty much meaningless online , and I don't like to call guys- I wait for them to call me.
Lately he's seemed pretty distant. Is this a sign for me to back off, or is he waiting for me to make the first move?
Three bands! Geez! Now are you guys a couple, or is he just a guy that you like? Either way, just be supportive! Even if you're not a couple, being supportive will earn you brownie points. And yes, make a move and see how he responds. But keep in mind...Normally a guy who's really into you will at least try to apologize for not being able to hang out with you a whole lot. And I like to wait for guys to call me too!!! Luck! :)
-Berri
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hello! i was wondering how do you get rid of stretch(growing) marks on your breasts or hip/thighs area?
For hips/thighs, I'd say treat them like scars. There's this stuff called Merderma/Mederma, I'm not sure how to spell it, but it's great for scars, which is pretty much what those marks look like. Or there are lotions at the grocery store that work for evening out the tone. I can't think of a brand off the top of my head, though. And for up top, I don't know if you can use anything. I think they might disappear or get smaller as you become completely developed. If it's really really bothering you, though, ask a doctor, cuz' I know stuff like that's common, and they can probably provide more info.
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Hey! Ok: so I have hundreds of pictures in my a box in my room. I take a roll at every other week. My question is: How can I display them in my room (without frames) I have some along my mirror. But what is a cool way of hahging them up? Thanks so much!
You could make a collage. That might require cutting, though, and I know a lot of people don't like cutting up pics. Just an idea!
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I have this bump on my armpit and my mom says its a razor burn, and i looked it up & it says the bumps can stay for 6 months-1 year. What can I use to try and get rid of it?
No no no. I don't think they last that long (that is, if it is razor burn, which it most likely is if you shave your armpits.). Did they appear right after you shaved? If it's razor burn, it usually goes away in about...a week? Two at the most? Just be more gentle when you shave, and use a shaving cream that's specifically for shaving under your arms or that says "sensitive skin/moisturizing/something like that." They also have deodorants that help with that. I think Ban makes it?
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Hi I am christian, and I have a friend who is jewish. I want to get her a "holiday" present, but I am not sure what to call it, or if she would think it was rude. I am also not sure when i should give it to her. I don't know when haunaka is. What do you think?
Hannakuh (sp.) is over, my dear friend. But if you still want to give her something for CHRISTMAS, I don't think it would be rude to. You can just say..."Hey! Happy Christmukkah!!!" Don't make a big deal out of it. Just tell her that you couldn't just NOT get her something. I don't think she'd mind. I mean hey, who doesn't like presents??? :P
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I was wondering if anyone knew what to do for those slam books on when you rate guys and like pass them to your friends and everyone writes something or something like that. Can anyone tell me how they work and how to start one and stuff. Please don't delete. Thanx!
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-KrIsSy*
Welllllll....First, really think over whether or not you want to do that. It's not a good idea to put anything down on paper (especially something about another person) that you wouldn't want the wrong person to see. I mean you NEVER know. What if you get in a fight with a friend that has access to the book and they go and make copies of a page and give it to the guy it's about? Disaster.
Watch the movie Mean Girls, lol. And even if you don't get the good moral lesson out of the movie, you can get ideas on how to make your slambook from that...haha.
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ok. There's a girl in my school named Shay. I don't hate anyone, but she's as close as it gets. I mean it. I can't stand her. she sits next to me in one of my classes, and i can't beilieve i've gone this long without yelling at her, much less punching her! I'm normally very calm about things, but she makes me so mad, i can't concentrate on ANYTHING. She always makes really embarassing comments about... i don't really want to say it. Today I finally told her she's a pain in the butt and it's amazing that she thinks she has friends. She cussed me out. then she made another embarrassing comment! I'm so sick of this. I can't think about anything but how much i dislike her. please help me!! thanks!
Instead of calling her a pain in the butt, see if you can talk to her nicely, if possible. And ya' know, sometimes, we just have to deal with annoying people in the world. You'll have to do it with co-workers when you're older...Might as well get practice now. And hey, it's just one class period! Just focus on the work and not her.
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I don't believe in anything but still feel I need a spiritual playground to frolic in... What should I do???
Go to church with a friend, especially at a time when they're doing some kind of fun thing (ski trip, scavenger hunt, whatever...). That way you can ease into it. It won't be awkward. You can have fun but get the spiritual part of it too. And then if you decide you like the church and the people, start going regularly!
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What's the step below going out? This guy said he likes me and wants to be the step below going out, because he doesn't think "going out" at this age is a good idea. We're more than friends though, I know that.. Any ideas on what it could be?
A lot of people think that "dating" and "going out" are two different things. They say that dating is where you..well, go on dates, but you can also date other people. I guess it's more for people who don't want the commitment. And then "going out" is where you only with each other, and going on a date with someone else would be cheating. So I guess dating would be the step under.
But then you said he's not into the holding hands thing. I guess you could just go on dates and not touch each other...I think that's more like just being friends, though.
Sorry if my answer was confusing. That's a tricky one. Just thought I'd offer what I could.
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Okay, I'm goin out w/ this guy we'll call hi "John" John is a very sweet guy who I used to be friends w/ up until a few days ago. He found out I had liked him all year and I also found this out about him so we decided to go out. I can tell he still really likes me b/c of what he says and how we're always around each other but I have 3 questions! 1) he's really shy. his ex said it takes him a few weeks but how can i make him feel more comfortable till then. 2) How can I get him to hold my hand or kiss me or anything! 3) How do we make it last over x-mas break. we never see each other when we're not in school!
1.)Flirt with him. Let him know that YOU'RE really into him, and that'll make him loosen up.
2.)Just grab his hand and hold it!! And surprise him with a kiss. Sometimes ya' just gotta' make the first move yourself. ;)
3.)Talk to him over the phone or AIM. It might also be easier for him to loosen up on the phone or internet because it's not so direct, so he won't feel as nervous and shy.
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well theres this guy that ive been dating for like the past 2 months or so and we both really like each other and we liked that we were dating but not officially b/f and g/f.. well ive decided that i like him enough to be with him but he says he still doesnt want a g/f and see im 14 and hes about to turn 18 ( tomorrow actually ) and about to graduate so i mean for one im jailbate or whatever you wanna call it and hes about to move on and i can kinda understand why he doesnt want a g/f but then at the same time he always says he doesnt care if i go on a date with another guy but whenever he even thinks i might like a diff guy he gets jealous and he calls me his baby and everyone associates us together so i dont know what to do -- ive talked to him about it before and hes just said he doesnt have the answers.. all he knows is that hes really grown to care for me and trust me but he isnt sure he wants a g/f right now.. what should i do? wait around or give up?
I think that because of the age difference, there's not a lot of hope for the relationship. That's just what I got from your question, though. I might be wrong. But I would guess that he doesn't want to officially "go out with you" because he know's he'll be graduating and knows he's gonna' wanna' move on and date college girls his age.
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