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well theres this guy that ive been dating for like the past 2 months or so and we both really like each other and we liked that we were dating but not officially b/f and g/f.. well ive decided that i like him enough to be with him but he says he still doesnt want a g/f and see im 14 and hes about to turn 18 ( tomorrow actually ) and about to graduate so i mean for one im jailbate or whatever you wanna call it and hes about to move on and i can kinda understand why he doesnt want a g/f but then at the same time he always says he doesnt care if i go on a date with another guy but whenever he even thinks i might like a diff guy he gets jealous and he calls me his baby and everyone associates us together so i dont know what to do -- ive talked to him about it before and hes just said he doesnt have the answers.. all he knows is that hes really grown to care for me and trust me but he isnt sure he wants a g/f right now.. what should i do? wait around or give up?
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I think that because of the age difference, there's not a lot of hope for the relationship. That's just what I got from your question, though. I might be wrong. But I would guess that he doesn't want to officially "go out with you" because he know's he'll be graduating and knows he's gonna' wanna' move on and date college girls his age.
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confront him n tell him that you want a straight answer and to stop giving you mixed signals *hope i helped!* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is appreciated!*
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hey sweetheart~ i look at this and 2 things come to mind. i see that 1. he is too old and is just with you to get what he wants and will move on and be an ass. bc most guys are. but then im one to talk.. thats where the other thought comes in. 2. i myself was involved with someone who was 5 and a half years older than me when i was 14. hell i was 13 when we really started to get close. we too never had the "labels" but we both knew we were kind of eachothers. the thing is, noone really new and when they started to find out he kind of backed off.(where i say ass) lol. but it was bc he didnt want either of us to get into trouble bc i was jailbait. we are still great friends and still have a thing, but not like it was.(he wants to get back together but i dont!) i should say that your too young and that you need to find someone your own age, but im not like that- i understand and believe that you can truely care about someone that much older and i know that that they can care for you! but heres the thing- you can get into alot of serious trouble and i just want to make sure that you're aware of that. but i do however think that if you do truely think that this could work with the 2 of you, then yes i would wait. i did. he always said he didnt want a girlfriend so i waited. BUT if you do start to like another guy dont feel guilty and back off. go for the other guy if the guy your dating is still in his "i dont want a girlfriend" stage. dont just give up, but dont just wait and not allow yourself to have feelings for other guys. i really hope that things work out for you for the better hun! if you have anything you want to ask me or talk to me about this subject feel free to Im me on AIM. my screen name is (BeautEful WithN). good luck- xoxo Jena
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have u ever seen bring it on? because hes an Aaron. ur only fun until he can get away and find bettter booty. tell him to get goin
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I think hes a little old for you but who am i to say that just when hes ready then he will go to you just dont wait over 7 months!! If he likes you a lot then he'll make his move. i had that same problem with my boyfirned and he asked me out 5 months later!!!and we are really close so maybe its meant to be like this but i was patient and got what i wanted!! lol GOOD LUCK!!!!
**kristen**
(netsirk07)
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i would talk to him and tell him that he needs to stop playing mind games with you...and that hes either with you or hes not and if he says he doesnt wanna a g/f then just move on and find someone else...there are other guys out there just wateing to find someone who will care for them and treat them right so if and when you talk to him if you take my advice into consideration then if he wants to be with you then good luck to the both of you but if not then tell him you really like him and everything and you wanna be with him and he needs to tell you what he wants insted of playing mind games with you!...well i hope i helped!-Nikki
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