|
| |
How to send your fan mail and autograph requests to Shia LaBeouf?:
If you want to request an autograph, follow the guidelines bellow. If you just want to mail a letter with the address above, and do not want anything back, then you can stop reading! If you live in USA send a properly stamped and self addressed envelope (minimum size 8.5" x 4") with your request letter and a photo. You can include a piece of cardboard to keep the photo from bending in shipping and also add "Do Not Bend" on the envelopes. Send your letter and wait. On average, there is going to be a 3+ month wait for a response. If you do not live in USA, add several* International Reply Coupons. The International Reply Coupons (IRC) will be used by the receiver to purchase american stamps. You can only get them at your post office. Place the IRCs into the envelope, not on it. For more information on reply coupons click here. *For information on postage prices to receive a letter from USA click here.
I found these directions on a website, on how to send a celebrity a letter to get an autograph. My question is do you address one to the fan mail address and then put the same size envelope inside it with your address on it? I think that's how you do it right?
help? :? (link)
|
Yes that is how you do it. Just do the
envelope up with stamps and your address
like you were sending yourself a letter.
Send it to them in an envelope and thats it.
Saves them time. :)
|
the first guy is my boyfriend. we have been together for about almost 4 months. but we dont have a normal relationship. i have to hide him fom everyone because of our age difference and what my parents will think of him. ive been him maybe about 4 or 5 times out of the 4 months we have been dating. we say i love you and like when we are together its perfect but recently i have been having seconds thoughts about him. he is going to college in more then over a month and i told him i would stay with him and that we would just see eachother when he comes back down here. but honestly i think its not worth it. ive gone all the way with him. it was my first time. and he didnt even use a condom. shows how much he cares. i just dont have the guts to break up with him.
now the second guy. we just met and i fell for him hard... while i still have this boyfriend. im horrible, but me and this guy are dating too. hes perfect and we talk on the phone every night and he says cute things and hes realllly a great guy. the only problem is, he lives in a different state. he doesnt know about my relationship with my other boyfriend adn im really scared. i feel so quitly because he realllly likes me, but im thinking he may like me more then i do like him.
i think i just need to be single and so what i want with guys casue its wayyy easier then this. but i know once i let them go, i really will miss them. the first guy told me the only way he will break up with me is if i cheat on him. which i am technically. i know i would break his heart because he really loves me. and it would break mine too. but for the second guy. im thinking maybe we should just be like reallly close friends.
i dont know what to do. helppppppp! (link)
|
An easy way to break up with the first
guy is simply tell him you are tired of
having to hide. He isn't the only one who
calls the shots on weather or not you
break up. It isn't easy on anyone and
someone always gets hurt but it is done
all the time.
You are young and hunting for the
right guy. There is no reason why
you have to stick with just one
right now. :)
|
|
having unprotected sex...yeah I know dumb. Anyways he was going to tell me when he was gonna cum, but next thing I new he was cumming in me...me and him are both freaking out now. In on birthcontrol, but missed one day last week and took two the next day. Could I be pregnant? (link)
|
If you've been taking the pill for
a while then probably not. If you
are new to taking it then its possible.
By new I mean you have only been taking
it for 30 days or less.
Should you miss your period take a
home test, but I wouldn't worry
about it to much. :)
|
18F (virgin.. i belive in sex after marriage)
i would like to know when a girl has protected sex regularly(almost everyday) does her monthly periods stop altogether???
my bf says that he has heared that periods stop when having sex almost everyday... is it true???
or does it only happen when u get pregnant??? (link)
|
When a girl has protected sex her
periods do not change in any way.
It only stops should you get
pregnant.
Here is a great sight for information.
should you want to take a peek. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/
|
So I really need an adults help on this.
My own mother.. isn't really helping and my sister is being a jerk to her.
I am 17 years old, I will be starting my senior year in august, and after words I had talked to my sister who lives in florida (I live in michigan) about moving in with her, it was actually her idea in the first place. One day we got off the phone from a great convo, about how she will help me look for a job, because she has tons of connections and stuff. And then I was excited because we concluded it was really going to happen and it would all work out.
Then literally the next day she ignores my calls, but instead calls my mom to tell her that she feels that I'm "expecting" her to do EVERYTHING.
When I finally got to speak with her I asked her what she meant by that and she told me she thinks I expect her to help me find a job and stuff, when she is the one WHO OFFERED.
Then she told me in the beginning that I wouldn't have to pay full rent for the room, I would just pay part since I'd be going to school. (shes going to be living in a 4 bed room apartment) And my part time job, probably wouldn't cut 800-900 dollars a month in the first place.
Then out of nowhere, she decides shes going to pay for my rent completely, because since I'm going to be in school full time (she's making me for insurance reasons for health you know..) that I cant work a full time job and go to school full time. The school I plan on going to is like kind of a tech center.. so full time there is different than a normal 'college'.
Which sounded okay, but with my sister there is always strings attached. She sprung on me yesterday that if I want to live with her, I have to see a therapist. I will be 18 years old, and I feel that is infringing just on.. my FREEDOM. She said if I didn't do it, I couldn't live with her. So the obvious choice you'd say is don't do it.. but I told her fine, its obviously too much to be living with her. BUT she insists if I dont live with her I will amount to nothing. Because in her opinion I am far too young, and immature to ever make it on my own. She tells me stuff like "well I'm not trying to hurt your feelings, but I dont see you getting anywhere in life if you just stay home, you'll just end up living with mom forever ( like my brother )" and that is hurtful. Because it feels like shes telling me I'm incompetent and that clearly without her I can do nothing.
I told her she was hurting my feelings, and she said she wasn't trying to. She said I was hurting her feelings by.. my attitude and my lack of interest in coming because of therapy.
As you probably can tell, my sister is a control freak. She told me she wouldn't be "motherly" to me, but this is over the top. Making me go to therapy with NO date of which therapy would end! She says "as long as you're living with me you have to see therapy".
She tells me that I will be her huge responsibility. I am not a child! I was willing to maybe do the therapy thing because I want to live in florida SO bad. But I wonder if its worth putting up with all her "rules" which she hasn't given me all of yet. With her there are always strings attatched. She kept telling me over and over that there will be rules, because it is HER house/apartment. WHICH I understand, but when I asked her like..what specifically they were. She said.. I'm still thinking of them.
I WILL be 18 YEARS old, I'm a christian person, I don't believe in doing drugs, smoking, drinking to get drunk, sex before marriage, and stuff like that. All of which she has exposed herself to. I am not at all like that. She tells me if I'm such a good person that I dont need to worry about the rules since I wouldn't be intending to break them.
But I know if I just go, not knowing the rules, she will spring crap on me, and I will be stuck there. I dont have a problem with rules, but its just its not fair if I'm of age. She keeps saying the rules are to protect me, but if she keeps calling me immature and naive, how am I supposed to ever learn? And how am I such a responsibility to her? She makes well enough money that it shouldn't be a problem. But thats besides the point,. she claimed that we wouldn't be fighting all the time ( i had told her that when I decided I didnt want to come anymore) but she says "we would hardly see each other because I work a lot.) SO.. technically shes just providing financially for me. NOT emotionally, NOT as a friend, NOT as family. Its just strictly money, she says that I'm not adult enough because I cant afford my own apartment. She says because I cannot support myself that I am not an adult, and that I cannot make my own decisions.
I just dont know what to do, because I really do want to move down there. But she would be my guaranteed best bet, to be SURE that I'd have somewhere to live. But her rules and standards are a bit much, and I could craigslist an apartment to share with someone.. but thats iffy because it would be a stranger, you know? And also its not until the summer of 09. And I like to have solid, stable plans made. Not just .. hoping I find something.
I'm SO sorry this is so.. confusing but I spent all night crying about this. Because something very serious was said, and I cannot say it on here, but maybe I could email you possibly?
I dont know I just don't know what to do.
Well I guess I can try to tell you it without completely giving out details.
She told me a reason why she was trying to protect me.. she told me about something that happened to her.. which was very serious and it was a crime, and she laid that on me while I was clearly upset and in an emotional state about her just shoving therapy in my face. I felt like she was trying to guilt me by telling me bad thigns that happened to her ( which is horrible , but not my fault) to obey her rules. By this point I had already decided I didnt want to live with her because she is just too much of a hassle. But she goes and tells me that personal thing.. whilst I'm already upset, and I cant take that, so I say "WHAT are you trying to do GUILT ME?" and she goes " icannot believe I confided in my own sister, and she thinks I'm doing this to her? - you have no heart." SHE is the one who CLEARLY stated I need to see a therapist if I live there because she feels I have emotional problems.. so if thats true. HER telling me something this heavy while I'm already upset,.. helps HOW?!
After that she cried on the phone for like five minutes then told me "why don't you find a better sister then" and she hung up. Then I was freaking out and crying because the things she told me were VERY heavy nothing a 17 year old can handle. And I cannot tell my mom, because that would be breaking my sisters trust. And I've already hurt her by thinking she was trying to guilt me. But you see. . .. my sister and I are close, but not CLOSE CLOSE, she doesn't really tell me anything, its kind of like I Don't know her as a person that well, shes my family, and I love her, but as person we aren't super close. And then you may ask why are you moving in with her? Because I've stayed with her for a couple weeks each summer, and I absolutely love it. We get a long most of the time, despite a couple fights.
But she's really mad at me now, probably more hurt. But.. in the end of all our fights she always blames it on me, or makes me feel like its my fault. I just dont understand how I'm supposed to grow up and fix myself when she is constantly putting me down.
I tried calling her all night and she didnt answer, I called her boyfriends phone because he lives with her and he answered and said she didnt want to talk to me, and she didnt even want to talk tohim. And he said he hated to see us both like this, and he didnt even know what it was about. But... I just DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO..
about the living situation because as much as a hassle it may be, I want to live in florida so much, but I know if I moved in with some stranger, my sister would be waiting for me to fail.
Thank you so much,
and sorry this is so long. (link)
|
I don't think I would go. She just has to
many strings attached and to many rules.
She may see you as a child yet but as you
say, you will be 18 and ready to make your
own rules. Not to mention that you don't
need all the stress this is going to cause
while trying to go to school.
I'm afraid that when you actually do move
in with her she is going to be even worse
than she is on the phone. She will tell
who you can be friends with, who you can
or can't date, what time to be home...things
you are old enough to do for yourself.
I suggest you find a school close to home.
Get a job, and when you have enough to make
the bills on your own, move out on your own.
If you are in a hurry to be on your own find
a friend to have as a roommate. Even that I
would only make temporary.
You have plenty of time to move to Florida.
I know you want to go now, but you'd be
miserable. :)
|
|
is the contraceptive pill the same as "The Pill"(Birth control) (link)
|
Yes they are the same thing.
"The pill" is just, like Elcee
mentioned the generic term for
all birth control pills, as is
the term "contraceptive pill".
There are literally hundreds
of birth control pill "brand
names". :)
|
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month, and he's already trying to do sexual things with me. Yesterday, he fingered me. And today he tried going up my shirt. I didn't really care, except he like, stuck my hand down his pants. For some reason, it made me feel like hes using me or something. I really love him, and I hope he's not. But I need other opinions.
Is he using me just to do stuff to me or get stuff done to him? (link)
|
Probably.
Fingering is supposed to be pleasurable
for you.If it isn't then tell him you
don't want to do it anymore, or tell
him what he's doing wrong so he can be
a better partner.
If you get enjoyment from it, then
touching him and giving him pleasure
in return is only fair. If you don't
feel comfortable giving in return, then
don't take. There is nothing wrong with
saying NO. I am not comfortable doing
this.
You don't give an age, but the reality
is that when MOST teen relationships
get sexual, that becomes the main focus
of the relationship. Not all, but most.
So, if you don't feel comfortable or
just want to wait until you are ready
for that kind of relationship just
tell him so. If he loves you he will
respect your feelings. :)
|
Hi i'm a guy and me and my gf have decided that we are comfortable and ready for sex.
however I have been hearing a lot of theories of when a women can get pregnant.
1)I know that condoms are good,I am planning to use them,but just for extra precaution...
2)some ppl told me that the girl can least likely get pregnant during her period,,cause the blood comes out and stops the sperm from getting in.
3)other say it's 2 or 3 days before her period
4)another lot said,it's 2 or 3 days after her period
5)another said it's two weeks after her period
6)another said 20 days after her period
I'm really pissed to be honest,all my friends are giving me different opinions.I know that a girl can get pregnant any time of the month,there is no 100 percent CORRECT time where a girl can never get pregnant.I just want a clear answer to as when a girl can LEAST likely get pregnant,LEAST likely. and yeah i will still use a condom,but i just wanna know this for extra precaution. (link)
|
The reason there is so much conflicting
information is because the only really
"safe" time for women is abstinence.
According to medical sites...Females
are least likely to become pregnant
two days before their period starts
and the first two days of their period.
If a girl has sex on day 5 of her period
and then ovulates early, say on day 10,
there's a chance some sperm could still
be alive and able to fertilize that egg.
So, no, there is no 100% "safe time" of
the month. It is much safer to use both
condoms and contraceptives like the Pill.
The problem is most girls do not have
their periods right on time every time.
Even if they keep a calender perfectly
for months trying to track it.
Keep in mind too that sperm can live for
3 to 5 days swimming around in there. So
even if you had sex on a "safe" day she
could still get pregnant.
Using a condom is good. Condom and
birth control for her is even better.
Do those things and don't worry about
trying to find "safe days". There really
and truly are none. :)
|
Of course..it will be fine if it's meant to be.
We waited it out for months..and became friends again..and it is seems to meant to be. The friendship is amazing...well till they broke up. -_-
And of course I will tell you how the party goes. =] (link)
| |
Can't wait to hear!
|
|
Thank you! i called my doctor and spoke to a nurse saying it should take another two weeks or so to heal. Really long time though! i feel like it will never heal!ahh (link)
|
Ah, it will. Glad you got the info you
needed. It always is a relief to know
its nothing serious. :)
|
sooo i went to the movie today..and we went to go see sex and the city..except it was sold out..so we got our an hour early.
so killing time, we went into waldbaums and walked around..then we went down the card aisle. now i already planned that i should get him a card to cheer him up, and i just happened to remember. so we search for the perfect one..i was looking for a song one. so we found the PERFECT one..something about sand and getting away..and the whole bit, and when you opened it up it played Kokomo by the beach boys. and so we got it..we searched for a card that didnt have anything to do with the card we got, so he didnt know it was a music card (since u know those enevlopes have the music bars on them..i asked my dad to take a detour home to double check his house number..and im like wait thats a waste of a stamp..we wrote it out..well my friend did so, since he isnt fimilar with her hand writing and we wrote in her purple pen. "you love purple and we love you, smile because we care" and i sealed it and put it his name on the front..i get out of the car and my dad pulled up right to the mailbox where my door was..and there wasnt enough room to open the mailbox with the door right there..so i had to close the door..i put the card in far in..and close the mailbox..i turn around..and my father locked me out.
and they laughed. then my friend was like "we should have slowly drove" im like "i woulda ran down the street" i didnt care if i was in flip flops. i get home..and his away message says "Outside bb by 11" and im liek "oh shit" because i was at his house at like 11:25. =] (link)
|
Oh well, nothing wrong with giving him card.
I'm sure it will make him feel better. :)
|
just because i feel myself imploding at the mere thought of this--
what do you say to a coworker that lets them kindly know that they've overstepped the boundries of badgering you about your religion? i don't mean asking you questions. i mean "the devil is in you and i will drive it out!" at this point the only thing i want to drive in is my spork i used for lunch, twist 90 to the right, and 180 to the left. it's seriously frustrating because if i use to much force to make them back off, i face disciplinary action. (hooray for being at the bottom of the totem pole.) (link)
|
You shouldn't be being harassed at
work about anything. Go to your
supervisor or boss, explain what
is going on, and ask them what they
feel the best way to handle it is.
If nothing else it alerts them
that there is a problem.
I will also suggest you tell your
co-worker that they have their
beliefs and you have yours. You
don't mean to sound rude but you
just prefer if they didn't discuss
religion with you at work. It
probably won't work, but I will
suggest it. :)
|
today my parents wet out for awhile
so i had my boyfriend comeover
and we he ate me out, and fingered me
and i gave him a bj and a hj
and me being stupid, let him have sex with me
without a condom.
that was my first time having sex and he says he didnt cum and i dont think he did eitehr
and my cherry didnt pop. but im not sure if that matters and plus i dont usually wear tampons cause tehre uncomfortable but the tampon could of popped my chery
and also im sore down there
we had sex fo maybe 7 minutes all together so i dont think its that big of a deal
but im freaking out cuase i dont wanna be pregant.
oh and im 15. (link)
|
First teen boys can ejaculate very quickly.
For your own protection its best not to
believe the "I didn't cum" line.
Your hymen is not a solid piece of skin.
Blood gets through it when you have your
period after all. Semen can get through
it too. So cherry or no cherry...it doesn't
matter. If a penis is anywhere near your
vagina, pregnancy is a possibility.
Time doesn't matter. Sex is sex. The best
pregnancy prevention is not to have it.
If you do ALWAYS use protection.
Here is a great site you should do some
reading on if you plan to become sexually
active. It has everything you need to know
on it. Birth control methods, STD chart,
pregnancy symptoms, the works! :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/
|
yeh.. i suppose..and ive been having trouble sleeping this week..its been on my mind..
im soo happy i dont have any tests..id so screw them up... la de da...ooooo party in 9 days. 0_0 bahh...mmmmm....i just have to find some way to take this slow..not to act awkward around him.
it was kinda hard last week in school..i was acting kinda strange around him..ever since my mom asked me if i loved him -_-
eeeek. but its now summer.
we are getting jobs soon,
we'll be busy. heh and yeah. (link)
|
It will work out fine if its meant to be.
Email me about how the party goes.
|
mmm...maybe..but he was single all last summer too..
like he was taking from mid-last september..ytto early october.. then started to be around her..and then finally asked her out the last day of november and last till last monday...
though he held off asking her out since august..
(it makes no sense if he went out with someone between august and november and then says he held her off because of me..)
heh i dont know.
he was single the whole time i knew him last year. besides memorial day weekend to 3 weeks into june.
then mid-last sept to early october
then the last day of nov to this week.
heh dunno -_-
and ive known him since january '07
and liked him since march/april '07 heh -_- (link)
|
With all the drama you've been through
with him over this last part of the year
though...He been on your mind.
|
yep..that may be a while..but yeah..slowly and slowly thats what it seems to be..
his newest away message was
"I can't take it anymore.
I can't handle it anymore.
---------Total System Malfunction.
--------------System Shut Down."
i can say that it will be a while till he gets over her -_-
but i love how after an year of this all going on..im just now wanting to be in a relationship with him JUST AS he is starting to and breaks up with his gf..and i have no clue what the issues was with that.. -_-
i like how this all turns out. (link)
|
Well, it is probably that you
now realize its a possibility.
He is now available when he wasn't
before. Makes you see him in a
different light!
|
I got my hymen removed after it breaking having intercourse. My gyno said it would take about a week to heal. It has been two weeks and my boyfriend was just fingering me and it started to spot a little brownish red blood i think. Is this because it is not healed? or what?
(link)
|
Thats possible. What you should do is
call your doctors office and ask to speak
to his nurse. Tell her what happened and
she will have some advice or info for you.
Its not a bother to them its just not
something most people think to do. :)
|
|
I'm on Prozac, which is medication for my depression. I have a friend who is into taking prescription pills to sort of get "high". Well, he wants to try my prozac...and im most likely not going to let him. But, I was just wondering what would happen to someone who DIDNT NEED depression medication, and they overdosed or something. Would it make them really happy, or give them a "high", or what? thanks! (link)
|
Don't do it please. It might kill her.
Prescription meds should NEVER be shared
or given to anyone else.
Symptoms of a Prozac overdose may include nausea, vomiting, fever, sleepiness, rapid or uneven heartbeat, confusion, fainting, seizures, or coma.
If taken with some other medications the symptoms would be worse.
|
|
What is a handjob? and what is fingering? and how can i be agressive while having sex? what should i do? and also what should i say when im having sex? (link)
|
I realize this is your first question on
the site. That is the only reason it is being allowed.
Handjobs...
fingring...
aggressive..
Most people don't do a lot of chatting during sex
but if thats your thing...
|
|
i'm pregnant what should i do. (link)
|
Hard to answer with no details
such as age, etc. but will do
my best.
See a doctor for prenatal care.
Tell your mom if you are a teen.
Been there, done that, wasn't as
bad as I thought it would be.
|
|
