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OMG I soo totally Love hard rock!..my favorite band in the whole world is Dirturbed and I love every one of their songs and i know the words to all of them and i listen to them 24/7...but i am a christian i like other music too but hard rocks my favorite....is listening to it a sin?? and do they worship the devil??? thnx for any help

I do not believe they worship the devil and I do not believe it is a sin. It is only a sin if YOU start worshiping the devil. This is just music. God will still love you no matter what you listen to. However, if you feel this music is drawing you away from God stop listening to it. But it doesn't sound like it is so don't worry. Besides, God forgives all. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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ok this might sound weird so brace yourself! lol anyways... ok so whenever i shave my legs (like the half below the knee) when i'm done i have like these dots all over them. My legs will be smooth but they still have these dots. I think they get more notice-able when i put lotion on afterwards too. Its nothing like razor burn tho... i dont know what it is! its like the hair underneath my skin?? but its still silky smooth!
what should i do to get rid of it?

It is new hair starting to grow. Like you said it will feel silky smooth. However, as you probably know once you shave your hair grows back thicker. So your hair is probably starting to form. Don't be alarmed this is normal. There really isn't any way around this, sorry. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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i know this is probly stupid, but i dont know what emo means. everyone always says it and all, but i dont know what it means. does anyone know what it means? i rate high!!

EMOtional. It is a type of music/style.

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were can you find really cute bedsets for a teenage girl? ((bedsets as in comforters?)) please help!

JCpenney's. They have a ton of catolouges (sp?) to look through to see if you find something you like.

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Hey, I believe in God and pray to him a ot when I need help. I don't go to church though, but I still believe. Is it bad I don't go to church?? Am I gonna go to Hell????

No! It doesn't matter where you pray. You still have faith and believe in God. And He loves you for that. God loves everyone.

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My BFF told me that when you feel someone in watching you (you know that feeling??) it means demons are in the room with you. I'm so scared now!! Whenever I get that feeling I scream and get really scared

That's not true. Don't believe that crap. Did she tell you if you didn't believe they would come and get you? Don't freak out. Tell your parents why you're scared and ask them to comfort you. But think about it. In all horror movies you can see the demans. So why can't you see the demans now? Because they're not their. Don't worry it's just a crazy myth. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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if 2 people who are virgins have sex, is it still possible for an std to be transmitted?

Yes. If they have gotten it from their parents and it was never diagonsed (sp?) they could pass it on. So be safe.

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does any1 know where i can get cute skirts for under 30$$ ? abercrombie's or cute but like 80$

Pacsun.

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My best friend is 16 now but she has been getting abused by her dad since she was old enough to walk. I saw him punch her in the face one time and bang her head against a wall. I am really scared for and her sister because I have seen him hit her too. She's asked me not to tell but Im scared that if I keep quiet that one day he might really hurt her. We tryed calling the police on him one time but they wanted to press charges against us and not him. I dont know what I should do and I dont know how I can help her.

You really should tell. He may danger her life. here is a poem about child abuse but it is about a three year old not a 16 year old:

My name is Sarah
. I am but three,
. My eyes are swollen
. I cannot see,
. I must be stupid
. I must be bad,
. What else could have made
. My daddy so mad?

. I wish I were better
. I wish I weren't ugly,
. Then maybe my mommy
. Would still want to hug me.

. I can't speak at all
. I can't do a wrong
. Or else I'm locked up
. All the day long.

. When I awake I'm all alone
. The house is dark
. My folks aren't home.
. When my mommy does come
. I'll try and be nice,
. So maybe I'll get just
. One whipping tonight

. Don't make a sound!
. I just heard a car
. My daddy is back
. From Charlie's Bar.

. I hear him curse
. My name he calls
. I press myself
. Against the wall.

. I try and hide
. From his evil eyes
. I'm so afraid now
. I'm starting to cry.

. He finds me weeping
. He shouts ugly words,
. He says its my fault
. That he suffers at work.

. He slaps me and hits me
. And yells at me more,
. I finally get free
. And I run for the door.

. He's already locked it
. And I start to bawl,
. He takes me and throws me
. Against the hard wall.

. I fall to the floor
. With my bones nearly broken,
. And my daddy continues
. With more bad words spoken.

. "I'm sorry!", I scream
. But its now much too late
. His face has been twisted
. Into unimaginable hate.

. The hurt and the pain
. Again and again
. Oh please God, have mercy!
. Oh please let it end!

. And he finally stops
. And heads for the door,
. While I lay there motionless
. Sprawled on the floor.
. My name is Sarah
. And I am but three,
. Tonight my daddy
. Murdered me.

Now that you have read that poem think: Do you really want your best friend to be Sarah? I hope you don't. Call the police. If you explain this they won't press charges on you they will press charges on him. By getting her help you may be saving her life. Remember that. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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I was going out with brian but he randomly wouldnt call me and my computer was broken. so i asked him online when i was at my friends and he was like im sorry i forgot. (mostly because he smokes everyday, i hate it) we wopul hangout on sundays and it sucked, i didnt want to hangout with someone once a week when he lives down the street. but hes different, hes the only guy im shy around, i dont know why. but he called me friday and told me he couldnt hangout because he was going to his friends. he called me latr and told me he went to the mall (why couldnt he of asked me?) so he called me saturday morning and said hed call me later to hangout he did but said he couldnt because his parents were out ( why couldnt he ask me over) so i sad my mom culd pick him up and stuff and he didnt seem intrested and was like lets just hangout tomorrow so i was like no, its not working, sorry an he said alright. he goes to my friends school so he was like i really like her i dont know why she dumped me so i talked to him yesteday and h was like ell i cant ay i liked you a wicked lot because we didn really talk alot but i dontknow why im so shy around you but i definetly like you an what i know s far, so i uess we're going back out. what can i say to tell him i dont like how he smokes so muc and we need to hangout more? and how can i not be so shy and what should i say on the phone? thank you

You hould just straight out tell him you don't like the fact that he smokes. Then explain how you two need to hang out more or this relationship isn't going to work out. If you don't it won't. To be less shy you just have to get to know him more. This can be done by hanging out more (everything is tieing itself together). On the phone just start a topic you both are interested in. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Alright, this isn't a serious question or anything but I need some help.

I have this friend, Bryce, who I absolutly adore. What I mostly adore is the pranks we play on each other. Sometimes we're mean about them but that's just how we are.

He has football off season while I have volleyball off season which is during the same period, 6th. Well, today I guess our coaches were being lazy and just made all the volleyball players and football players go out side and run for an hour together. Well, I was running along side Bryce and a few of our friends when he tripped me, on purpose and I fell flat on my face. It was in grass so it's not like I was hurt or anything but you can imagine how embarrassing it was!!!

Well, I need to get him back...GOOD. But I've run out of ideas and I need more. Any ideas?

My friend and I just played an extremely funny pratical joke (or what we thought was extremely funny) on our other friend. What happened was everyday at our table during lunch we through chips and stuff at each other. So today while the friend that had the joke played on was throwing yogurt at another friend and the friend that helped me with this and I thought it was mean. So we stole everything off her lunch tray took a bite of everything and then drank the milk. And then here's the best part.....we put it all back on her tray. It was really funny. And yes I have been bragging about this all day and it wasn't long until I posted it on the world wibe web. But I hope this is useful to you! ♥ good luck

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http://www.geocities.com/oberstxx/mrbrightside.asx

^that's the link i want to use for music in my myspace....

will someone help me activate it into my page?

You can try coping it to your page. Or go to musicvideocodes.com to get the video. If you do not want the video just sound go to starlightmks.com. This may not be the best but I know these two sites work. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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see i have this friend that is like bulimic & i tell her to stop but she never listens to me. i tell her that she is skinney but she doesn`t believe me. we have known eachother since we were small. she also talks painkillers & i kno its dangerous but she told me not to tell anyone...but i think she might die..she is already in rehab & is very sneaky..

You need to tell someone. Even if she says not to. By not telling someone you are hurting her even more. She needs serious help. If you think she might die, why hesitate? You will be saving her life. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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im 23 and have had pretty bad teeth for a while . pretty large gap aand they stick out, apart from that I am really happy with my looks, but it is getting worse and worse as the days go by , not smling etc , should I confront my fear at 23??? what other options do I have?

Yes, I really think you should confront you're fear. Go to the dentist. Your dentist may recomend some sort of treatment or braces. Don't be afarid of braces. You can get the clear kind so they sren't noticable. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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I'm 15 years old, and 2 months ago, I was involved in a serious car accident. My friends and I were out having fun, the car that I was in had 5 people in it, and I was in the back, there was 3 people in the other car. It was about 11 at night so there wasnt really anyone on the roads so they decided to race. We were going about 80+ side by side on these curvy roads and it was icy because it was after a snow storm. After a couple minutes it started to get really scary and I was just getting really nervous because my parents had no idea where I was, and I kept screaming Slow down. They wouldnt slow down. The next thing I knew I woke up on the ground next to my boyfriend in a lot of pain and crying. I realized that we had gotten in an accident, I laid there trying to wake my boyfriend up. I heard sirens after what seemed to be an hour later, but was really only a couple minutes. I got rushed to the hospital with minor injuries, and after I got taken care of, I got the worst news of my life. The only survivors of the crash, were me and my best friend who was the driver of the other car, and my boyfriend but he was in a coma. I stayed with my boyfriend everyday and just cried and cried, he didnt wake up, he never woke up. His parents decided to just let him go because they wanted him to go peacefully and not have to deal with any pain. It is soo hard dealing with this, I look at pictures of the accident everyday just reliving that whole night, I'm sorry this is long but I was just wondering if anyone has had an experience like this and wondering how you dealt with it..? Please and thank you..

I've delt with many deathes. But the most recent of a young one was a person everyone knew in my town. It was so hard at first. But then you start to think about what is wrong with the world. And then you realize its a good thing he's not in the world. If the world did this to him then maybe it's better that he is out of it. Now I'm not saying commit suidice I'm just saying it may be better for him. Just remember he's not gone....he's still in your heart and still in memory. I don't know if you believe in heaven and all that stuff but if you do you know you will see him again. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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Do braces affect making out in any way?

No. If you both have braces there is a very small posibility of getting stuck together. But its really small.

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Ok for my birthdya this year(14) im going to have it at a theme park. I was only invite 5 friends intill my whole class some how found out.Should I tell them im not having one then invite only the ones i was gonan invite or ininvite all the girls, it really expensive and for sure we are going

HELP

You should just invite the people you were going to. They don't need to go. You don't have to tell the other girls anything just have your friends go. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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My sister at a young age died of luekemia. I dont really uderstand where she got it from. But lately I've been finding random bruises on my boyd and i know my sister had random bruises and ashe was always tired and im always tired. Is there a possiblity that i could have it too?

It is possible that you could have it. But it is impossible to have gotten it from your sister.You probably don't have it. However, just to make sure get it checked out by a doctor. I hope I helped! ♥ godd luck

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My mom is the biggest blabbermouth of all time. She can't keep her secrets to herself. She can't keep MY secrets to herself. She tells everyone the details about my life. She humiliates me infront of everyone. She makes up lies to exaggerate the truth. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stop telling her things? I can't stand the way my life is out there and availible to anyone that wants to hear about it.

Tell your mom this is annoying you. Ask her to stop. Tell her that this is making you feel uncomfortable. If she still tells everyone about your secrets then tell her you will stop telling her stuff if she keeps this up. But you should still tell her some things no matter what. I hope I hepled! ♥ good luck

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Since I was five and up until I was ten, there was a man that used to abuse me and my bedridden mother. Finally when I was ten years old, my mother kicked him out. A few years after that, I was taken out of my mother's house, and am now living with my 30 year old sister, and her fiance. Anyway, off of the background. a couple years ago, I had a dream that I would run into the abuser guy, and then I did! Nothing bad happened to me that time, but now I'm having nightmares about him again! I'm afraid, because the nightmares are worse than last time, and I'm afraid something really bad might happen. What should I do??? I know dreams don't always mean something, but it's been happening for three nights now. I'm really frightened. :O

Try getting this checked out. Go to a psygolosit or something. You should maybe alret the police so they can protect you. Warn your sister and/or her fiance as well. Make sure you use the "buddy system" when walking around bad neighborhoods. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck

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