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I was going out with brian but he randomly wouldnt call me and my computer was broken. so i asked him online when i was at my friends and he was like im sorry i forgot. (mostly because he smokes everyday, i hate it) we wopul hangout on sundays and it sucked, i didnt want to hangout with someone once a week when he lives down the street. but hes different, hes the only guy im shy around, i dont know why. but he called me friday and told me he couldnt hangout because he was going to his friends. he called me latr and told me he went to the mall (why couldnt he of asked me?) so he called me saturday morning and said hed call me later to hangout he did but said he couldnt because his parents were out ( why couldnt he ask me over) so i sad my mom culd pick him up and stuff and he didnt seem intrested and was like lets just hangout tomorrow so i was like no, its not working, sorry an he said alright. he goes to my friends school so he was like i really like her i dont know why she dumped me so i talked to him yesteday and h was like ell i cant ay i liked you a wicked lot because we didn really talk alot but i dontknow why im so shy around you but i definetly like you an what i know s far, so i uess we're going back out. what can i say to tell him i dont like how he smokes so muc and we need to hangout more? and how can i not be so shy and what should i say on the phone? thank you
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*first about the smoking...i tried to think about how i would feel if someone has critizised me about smoking. (they dont like it i had told one of my friends off for trying it and he got pissed) anyways here it is:
ummm well i dont mean to be rude or point fingers, but i really dont like the fact that you smoke. i love you very much but i wish i could know that your healthy. and smoking is not healthy. its only because i love you
*hanging out more:
also, i really think we should hang out more. thats the reason our relationship went down the drain in the first place. but if we work together to see eachother more, we can get it out. hanging out with eachother more often would strengthen our relationship and it would mean alot to me if you helped give an effort.
well i tried my best. hope you two work out...i hope thats the response you where looking for?
<3 kayla
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hey, about the smoking. thats his descision...ive had plenty of boyfriends that smoke. we are young...its not like its someone you are marrying dont worry about it. If you tell him you dont like it he will get pretty pissed off believe me. Yea you do need to hangout more. When i went out with this kid steven we hung out alot. Go to the movies or hangout at your house and rent a video. Theres not a remedy to not be shy...just think about it...he likes you so be yourself around him.
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You hould just straight out tell him you don't like the fact that he smokes. Then explain how you two need to hang out more or this relationship isn't going to work out. If you don't it won't. To be less shy you just have to get to know him more. This can be done by hanging out more (everything is tieing itself together). On the phone just start a topic you both are interested in. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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