um hey one of my friends is having a party at this place where our friends go for dances. i love going there, but (the dances are held twice a month) i have no beat and no rythem and usually i dont dance because im afraid people will laugh at my poor skills. i also dont know what to wear. im pretty much broke and my mom is pretty srict about what i wear. if anyone could help me. that would be great! thanx!
Well. Don't be afraid of what people will think, just get out there and do what everyone else is doing. Seriously, watch your friends dance and then go and join in. you'll pick it up fine. As for clothing, wear a skirt or some jeans with a cute top and whatever shoes match.
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My friend and I used to cut together. I don't anymore, but she does. And she rubs it in my face, and I get really annoyed by it. I tell her to "Piss off!" but she continues to do it. I don't care if she cuts or not, but it annoys me how she takes it as a joke (it wasn't a joke to me...). And honestly, she has NOTHING to cut over! She has the happiest FUCKING like of anyone I KNOW!!! What should I tell her? What should I do to change the situation?
Look. I cut and so does my friend. I have things to cut over and so does she but not all of my friends know the reasons why I do it. You never know, she could have a pefectly good reason for cutting herself but it's most likely it's just attention seeking. Try talking with her and asking if she has any problems with family or something and if she says she does then be there for her. If that doesn't work then try and stay away from her. If she carries on cutting there is a risk that she could start you doing it again and it's not good, I know from experience.
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OMG! i dont knoe why..but my teeth are yellow!! i brush 3 times a day..and i dont smoke!!..whats wrong?!
Some teeth are just yellow. It doesn't matter how hard or long you brush them, they are naturally like that. I think you can get them professionally bleached, but I'm 13 and my dentist said I had to wait until I was an adult. There are various home whitening kits that you could try if your teeth are really causing you trouble. Also, make sure you carry on brushing three times a day and avoid things like coke and coke as they contain cafeen which will help make your teeth yellow.
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QUICK!! does anyone know what the two little theater masks are called?
Comedy and Tradgedy
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Hey, i think i can write this here, do any of you guys know a good website to download MSN Messenger 7 from? All my friends got it from all these different places, and their laptops have all slowed down. But chatting is a crucial part of a teenagers life, and i need to get the latest version!! HELP!!!
Umm...there isn't a version 7 yet, it only goes up to 6.2. If you want that then I wouldn't download it from any where except msn.com. Other wise it could contain viruses and stuff.
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ive had a shag b4 and everyone said it wuz sexy then my mom made me cut it and i got pissed should i try to grow it again???
Yeah, you should try and grow it again. Long hair is much better on guys than short hair.
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ok so recently, in the past few months, ive turned into a bit of a bitch. i honestly dont know why. i get annoyed a lot easier. most of the time, i get jealous really easy. like for example, my friend found out that i had a advice column, so he decided he wanted one. well i got really mad because its my "thing" and i wanted it to myself. im selfish and im whiney. i dont know why im starting to be like this. i also started doing drugs, becoming more "sexual", looking at porn, being belemic, and a lot of stuff that i know will ruin my life. i cant stop. im losing all my friends, and ive already lost a lot of them. i just dont know what to do.
I am in almost the same situation. I got a new boyfriend and spent all my time with him which resulted in me losing my best friends. Next, I started cutting myself firstly for attention, then because my home life isn't too great right now. I used to be popular, smart and well liked. Now I'm a bitch. I know exactly how you feel. What you have to do, is fix things. You know that this is mainly your fault and the only way you can get out is by undoing all the bad things you've done. Start with your friends, APOLOGISE. Yeah, sure it'll be hard to swallow your pride and yeah, sure they might reject you but the only way you'll even have a chance of getting them back is by saying you're sorry. Try your best to quit the drugs, there are loads of helplines and websites to get you back on track. Talk to your doctor about the belemia, it will honestly ruin your life if you don't. As for being 'sexual' and looking at porn, there's nothing wrong with that. You're 14 and you're turning into an adult. It's totally normal to start becoming more interested in sex. Don't say you can't stop. If you honestly want to, then you can. If you want to talk about this more, then email me or talk to me on MSN. My address is yellowmelon37@hotmail.com I really do know how you feel.
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I have the lead role in a play, and i need advice on how to memorize my lines! any ideas? Thanks soo much!
When I was in my school play, I used to read through a section of the script every night before I went to sleep. The next night, I would read the next bit of the script AND the section I had read the previous night, and so on and so on. Eventually I would be reading through the entire script every night and I knew all the lines off by heart. Trust me, this works.
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I have a bf but it seems like all he wants to do is hug,kiss,and hold hands, and cudle. I am just scared bc my last relationship didint workout and all my ex wanted 2 do was hug,kiss,hold hands ,and cudle. so i just dont want 2 hurt anyone or even get hurt wat do i do?
Well, your boyfriend could just be a very affectionate person. OR, he could just be using you. Try talking to him more and do fun things with him and if he isn't willing to spend less time being touchy feely then talk to him. Explain that you want more out of a relationship than just the passion. If he doesn't want to spend more time getting to know each other more, talking, having fun and stuff then maybe you too aren't meant to be.
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I'm starting to make a collage on my one wall, with like band pics and my concert tickets and all that. I don't have much stuff yet. All I have are my tickets, Taking Back Sunday picture, a Something Corporate picture, and a My Chemical Romance picture. Does anyone know any good magazines to get like full-size pictures of those types of bands? Or anywhere else, like internet addresses? Thanks so much!
www.allposters.com
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wat is eye candy?
i rate very high.
It's a slang phrase for a fit/attractive/cute person. For example, if you saw a guy you found sexually attractive then he would be 'eye candy.'
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I am a fourten year old female.
How many times a week is it healthy to mastrubate? If you do it everyday, is it unhealthy then?
Thanks for listening
XxLostxAndxConfusedxX
It doesn't matter how much you masturbate as long as it hasn't started to keep you from doing other things. If it's obstructing everyday life then maybe you need to cut down.
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Hi, im a sixteen year old girl. Im madly in love with this guy whoz like 18, but i just found out that he was a transexual. i really dont know what i should do. Should i stay with him, or should i dump him? please help me _ ? ¿ write bak quickly
If you really are in love with him then it shouldn't matter to you that he's a transexual. If you find it that much of a problem then end things.
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How do you get rid of freckles?
Well if they're really that much of a problem then you can try using foundation but that could leave you looking fake cause you would have to use a lot. I have freckles and they're not so bad really, loads of guys find them cute.
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sry i didnt know what category to put this under..but what really is cutting? i know you like cut urself but is it to let out anger? or do you do it to actually try to kill urself?? plz i need to know this my friend does it and im scared!
Well I kind of cut but I think the reasons why people do it vary. It's mostly to let out anger or because you feel that it's your fault. Sometimes people do it for attention, a cry for help kind of thing. I don't think you always have the goal of killing yourself though.
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hey gurlz,
how can i make time to change my tampon at school? i never have time in between classes, and i dont like to leave the class w/ my purse b/c everbody would know. i usually don't put stuff in mypurse b/c all my friends go through it. i usually ut stuff in my lunch box, and change during lunch. can any of u give me advice on how to manage it?
i will rate high
Get tampax compact and keep one in your pocket. They are very small and descreet so nobody will notice. That way, you can leave classes without anyone batting an eyelid.
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I've recently become very much in love with Five Iron Frenzy and think that ska music on the whole is the greatest type of music ever. I've been meaning to look around for other great ska bands, but I don't know where to look! Does anyone know of any good ones that have cds I could check out?
Bob Marley. His music is all different cause it changed through the ages but some of his music is ska.
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Ok, i found this tube of lip gloss from when i moved about a year and a half ago. Do u think it's ok to use it?
Yeah, lipgloss never expires. However, if it has dramatically changed colour or texture then it might be better if you got a new one.
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is it weird for a grl to ask out a guy?
Not at all. This is the bloody 21st century...it isn't weird for a girl to ask out a cat anymore.
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I went to google and looked EVERYWHERE to get music codes for my Advice Column just to jazz it up some. Im a weirdo i like things to be cool. Also, interesting and wanting people to come back too. I tryed some many sites. So many codes. It just not working. Im so sad. Why wont they work? Any suggestions on sites? please help! Which ever site works. Ill rate the highest. Thanks, so very much.
It wont work because Advicenators banned music codes on columns.
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