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Q: hey,
Well, here's the deal I'm almost 17 and my boyfirend is almost 21. My mom thinks he's only 18, she hasn't met him before becuase we both are in job corp.He just left for the army and I'm going to have a baby now. I'm onlt 2 1/2 months. We have been together for 8 months. Well, this is my Question how do I tell my mom when she thinks I'm still a virgin?
loca
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Well she is gunna find out sooner or later because of course you will start to show. It is a VERY tough situation just sit down with her and explain calmly what u did. Hopefully that works, or i hate this situation..Abortion but i think that is the worst way to deal with it hope i helped a little.
..*Cassie*..
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Q: my best friend likes me but she keeps thinking that i like her and that is not the case i have a girlfriend and i love her how should i tell my friend
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hey let her down gently. she will let go sometime in the future. believe me i've been there.
..*Cassie*..
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Q: Recently, i found my dad constantly going to chatrooms and talking to random ppl like he likes them better than my mom. every day he would be doing this but once my mom got home, he would close out of them. i dont know what to do. my brother knows about it too, but i dont know if i should tell my mom. please help....:(
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Well if you think it's bad..like cheating and shit tell her. if u hate to see your mom get hurt spare her the lies and tell her...if u dont it could make things worse hoped i helped a little!
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!!
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Cutting is when a person slices their skin with sharp objects..cutters tend to think that inflicting pain on themselves makes thme feel good about themselves..it's a very complicated subject.
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: Ok HeReS HoW It StArTeD:
I WaS OvEr At My FrIeNdS HoUsE(aka person) AnD ThIs iS OuR CoNvO.
Person: Ummm I need To Tell you Sumin Serious But you Cant Tell AnYbOdY!!!
Me: Ok You Can TrUsT Me
Person: I think I mite Be bi
Me: Bi as in Bisexual
Person: Duh
Me: Wow
PersOn: I kno
Me: So r you atrracted to any of our friends?
Person: yea
ME: Are you attracted to me?
Person: Maybe
So Thats It. So Im confused cuz it kinda grosses me out cuz what if she invites me to sleepover and since i cant tell anybody about it she'll get invited to sleepoers nd stuff so she could try to make a move on me nd my friends i need help
ill rate!!
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Ok u need to sit down and talk to her. she may be bisexual but she is still ur friend. if she has feelings for u let her down gently. just remember that she is goin thorught a difficult time right now and needs ALL of her friends.
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: I love my bf but im in love with my best friend.. I wanna stay with my bf and i cant have my best friend.. i dont even know how he feels about me... but i cant stand it what do i DO?!
you know I think i can answer this myself... if i love my bf i'd stay with him right.. well Im gunna of course... but i just wanna know how to just stop and forget about the love and just be his best friend and stay in love with my bf.. cuz my bf means the world to me
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Ah..the classic love triangle! and ur exactly rite stay with ur boyfriend and god forbid if u break up then maybe u could try dating ue best friend. Good Luck!!
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: I am sick of guys treating me badly or not being right for me. I'm going back to school soon and I want to meet someone new who makes me laugh etc, what qualities do guys look for in a girl and how should I go about meeting people?
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First of all you should just be urself. don't lie to u or ur man. and if a guy doesn't like u for who u are he's not worth ur time. now what guys are lookin for in a woman depends on the type of guy. u need to make that descision for urself.
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: wut r u supposed to do when everything is going rite in a relationship then all of a sudden it just dies... like we werent going out but we acted like it and we havnt talked bout a week but i miss him cuz i like him alot.. i know hes not cheatin or wutever cuz not too many girls like him cuz hes not really a *stud* but hes amazing and even my ex is happy for me and says wed be great together...wut should i do i wanna at least be friends but id like to be sumthing more... that was a like a book in a nutshell cuz it would take me forever to tell me bout this amazing guy... so if u could plz help me out i miss him alot... thanx
kristi
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Maybe he knows you want to take ur relationship to the next level. he is probably avoiding you because he is afraid of commitment. it's probably nothing towards you. he is probably nervous because like you said not a lot of girls like him, so he is probably not used to being in a serious relationship.
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: where do u think is a good place 4 a ffirst date?? ( romantic)
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The beach.. I mean who wouldn't just wanna lay in the sand and make out!! ;) lol the relaxing sounds of the waves give it a romantic vibe too.. and a nice moonlight walk is very romantic and I for one am a huge fan of the beach....
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: i don't like myself. is that normal? like are there other people out there who don't like themselves either? i dunno, i just am having a really tough time and i'm liking myself less and less and less. please help me. i just feel so out there and wierd.
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Don't worry u are talkin to the right person..there is a stage in one's life when they feel like an outcast, they dont like themselves. dont get discouraged if ppl dont like u for who u are then screw them!! o and by the way being unique isnt a bad thing. i know;)lol
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: okay see my boyfriend lives in georgia and i live in new jersey he so far away... im 13 and he turning15 ... we like each other so much but no one really aproves since we met on the computer and he lives in georgia .. we wanna meet but its a lil hassle ... wat should i do... should i stay with him and meet him or wat?
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Well its always good to meet ur boyfriend in time but if ur only 13 and their is no possible way to meet him maybe u should end it because it wouldnt be fair to either of you well n e wayz give it some thought..
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: is it a good way to make money
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Sometimes it can be and sometimes it sux it depeds on how much the person u are babysitting for
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: My boyfriend and I just had sex for the first time..He took my virginity. It was unprotected and Im not sure if he pulled out or not. We were both a little drunk. I dont regret it. Anyway, I was told that you shouldn't have unprotected sex for 15 days after your last period ended. Its only been 10 days. Im a little worried that, well basically, I could become pregnant. Im not sure if the 15 day thing is true. Im going to the health clinic in a couple days to get on birth control and they always give you a pregnancy test. I want to know if I should be worried about this or not and if the 15 day thing is true. Hurry..this has me scared. Thanks.
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Yes. U should be worried not only could u become pregnant u could contract HIV the #1 killer in the world be careful next time good luck and use a condom!!
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: OK When I was about 14 my mom told me that when I wanted to go on birth control that all I had to do was ask her about it. Well its been over a year and I dont know how to bring it up. We're not really that cloce. She meant when I'm 'in love' and I want to do it with that special person. Well thats kinda not the deal rite now I'm not in love at all. I dont even have a bf. But I want to go on it .. how do I ask her ? I cant just bring it up out of nowhere..
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its a very sensitive subject.. SEX there we've sad it ..well even though u dont want to have sex and if u are single then why do u want to go on the pill? talk about it with ur mom remember parents are there for u...
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: okei well my left boob hurts rele bad my mom says its just gittign bigger but it hurts to run n jump n im very athletic.. n ther is a lumpin there i was wonderin if that happens to everyone.. and i was wonderin if ppl can notice if on boob is bigger cuz i can tell one is but idk if others can
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If there is a lump on ur breast get it checked by a physician!!
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: Hi well Im jj15 and i need ur help and fast!
I am going out with a guy named rocky , well everytime I go and talk to him he just says Hi and then says that he has to go, Im afraid that he's cheating on me.
I tried asking him if he was and he would just stare and say no then he gose off somewhere.
I am really afraid!!!!!
Help me plz what do I do?
please dont erase this ?!!
and I got my pic on my coulmn now
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Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but this Rocky guy proabably creepin around..Those are the classic signs of cheating if he wont talk about it then something isnt right.. i suggest u find someone who respects you
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: Im 13 years old and im very scared. This summer my boyfriend who wasnt my boyfriend then got out of jail for drugs. He said he would change for me and I believe him. We've been goin out now and Last night he called me crying sayin he thinks he is going back to jail. All I know is that his dad and him got into an arguement and that he wants to move in with his grandparents. And He wouldnt answer me why He thought he was going to jail again. Then he said he had to go and that he loved me and he never called back. I dont know if he went to school today or not, but Im really scared and I dont know what to do about it. Should I call him and ask him about it or what? Last night I cried all night long. I tried calling 2 times and nobody answered. I dont want to loose him. What do I do?
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Dont get mixed up with him no offense this seems like bad news.. if he has a drug problem let him sort out his priorities it if he seems mature enough..then try goin out with him right now just stay away from him..its a painful subject but u will find someone so0o much better with a better life,,thats all i can do hope i helped ya!!
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: yes, i know this is wierd subject but belive me by the time i explain this, if your a girl at least, you can see why i'm pissed. My best friend just so happens to be one of the girls with, well, big breasts. Well i'm starting to "catch up" to her, and every tiem i tell her my size she laughs and says with sarcasm and disbelief in her voice, "thats not your size, that's almost MY size!" And for some reason alot of times we'll get in a conversation, and she'll bring up her boobs! it's so annoying how do i show her that what she's saying is really bitchy w/o her freaking out because belive me this girl is a huge drama queen
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Well if it bothers u that much then just sit down with her and calmly explain to her that it hurts ur feelings when she says that..and if it continues just dont hang out with her anymore..oh we can all be huge drama queens at time ;) lol hope i helped
..*Cassandra*..
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Q: im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!!
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First of all u are an average weight if u wanna fell comfortable in ur body DO NOT take drastic measures.. i am overweight and it pains me to see average or under-weight ppl kill themselves over this type of problem.. if u wanna lose weight do it the HEALTHY way not by starving urself not crash dieting. balance the food groups becuz if u starve urself..and u lose the weight and u start to eat again u could develop a serious eating disorder..**(and if u starve urself u could kill ur muscles**) well thats all i can do for u rite now...oh and if u eat properly and exercise u could probably lose 10 pounds in 2 weeks who knows maybe even more just stay healthy!! hoped i helped ya!!
..*Cassandra*..
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Q:
okay.. I really like this one guy.. and hes not only jus a guy but hes like my best friend too.. and he has a girlfriend right now and no1 knows that i like him.. i kept it inside myself for a while and im afraid to let him know how i feel becauz i dont kno how he's gunna react.. its not only that but he lost his virginity to me too so its kinda weird.. what do i do???????
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Well i used to like a guy who has a girlfriend..i know it sux ass but u will find someone better..and im sorry but i cant help u about the virginity part..hoped i helped u though
..*Cassandra*..
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Hey guys! I've been off the site for a while but I'm back! So you can feel free to ask me anything you want. I give the best advice I can to any question asked. I try to answer each question truthfully, honestly, and straight up. My advice can be good or bad, it all depends on how YOU take it. Feedback and ratings from questions answered help me out on how well I'm helping you guys out.♥
xOxOxCassandraxOxOx
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Info
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Dracut,Mass Occupation: Student Age: 14 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: August 30, 2004 Answers: 142 Last Update: October 2, 2005 Visitors: 11026
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