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I Think My Friend is GaY
Ok HeReS HoW It StArTeD:
I WaS OvEr At My FrIeNdS HoUsE(aka person) AnD ThIs iS OuR CoNvO.
Person: Ummm I need To Tell you Sumin Serious But you Cant Tell AnYbOdY!!!
Me: Ok You Can TrUsT Me
Person: I think I mite Be bi
Me: Bi as in Bisexual
Person: Duh
Me: Wow
PersOn: I kno
Me: So r you atrracted to any of our friends?
Person: yea
ME: Are you attracted to me?
Person: Maybe
So Thats It. So Im confused cuz it kinda grosses me out cuz what if she invites me to sleepover and since i cant tell anybody about it she'll get invited to sleepoers nd stuff so she could try to make a move on me nd my friends i need help
ill rate!!
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u can still b friendz. u likes her b 4 so y should dat change. not being frienz w. sumone who is bi is lyl racism. good luc
xoxo
brunettebeauti
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Ok u need to sit down and talk to her. she may be bisexual but she is still ur friend. if she has feelings for u let her down gently. just remember that she is goin thorught a difficult time right now and needs ALL of her friends.
..*Cassandra*..
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there is nothing wrong wid being bi. just talk to her about how you feel. and be honest about it. that's all that you can do. but don't be bitchy about it just talk to her like your best friend.
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make sure she knows your not like that and that u only like her as a friend and noting more
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well i'd jsut let your friends figure it out.. n if i were u id just ignore her.. if she comes up to u at school walk away or if she invites u to her house then make up an excuse!!
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Well, it takes a lot of guts to come out. I'd be honoured that she chose you are the person she could trust with one of the biggest issues in her life.
I'd let her know that you support her, but you are not interested in pursuing a relationship. Then I'd treat her normally.
Just because she's bi doesn't mean she'll be all over people at sleepovers; she could just want to hang out and have fun with her friends, like anyone else would.
Be as honest with her as she's been with you, and your friendship will only get stronger.
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RESEPCT HER EVEN THOUGH SHE IS BI..SHE IS STILL YOUR FRIEND.... YOUR FRIEND IS GONNA BE LIKE THAT NO MATTER WHAT..AND YOU LIKED HER AS A FRIEND BEFORE SO WHATS THE DIFFERENCE.. I NO THERE IS SOME DIFERENCE WELL ALOT BUT STILL APPERICATE HER FOR WHO SHE IS NOT BY WHO SHE LIKES...WELL I HOPED I HELPED
MORGAN
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Tell her that you want to be just friends with her and nothing more, that way she doesnt get the wrong idea when you are hanging out and just trying to be nice and stuff
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well i think u should just tell her ur into guys and not girls and ur not gonna stop being her friend bc of how she is. but even if she does like you... u need to sit down with her and tell it how it is and that u arent into girls and u want to be friends and nothing more. cause if u dont tell her this.. im pretty sure she will come on to you. n she shouldnt get mad.. she has to be able to deal with this stuff.
Manda
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since u said u could be trusted, why did u post this question here? arent u afraid that she might find out about this??
it okay to be confused. if she asks u for a sleepover, kindly say u cant make it. if she continously asks u the same questions, maybe u should get it out straight wit her. of course theres nothing wrong in being Bi.. ur reaction about wanting to "protect" ur pals from her might make her feel 'different' and unwanted. that shouldnt be the way. accept her for the way she is, as friends try her out through this period. hoped i helped! good luck -Rei
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No no if she was really your friend and valued the friend ship then she wouldnt hit on you if she knew thaqt you didnt like her in that way. If she wanted anyone else to know then she would hit on your friends. But i dont think you have to worry about anything because she doesnt want anyone to know so most likely she wont hit on you or your other friends. And if you dont want her hittin on you just tell her that your not like that and you dont wana be more than friends. Hope iv helped dont be afraid to write back.
Signed
Short N Punky
Ps. Good luck i had a friend like that to!
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tell her since your not bi, you are not really interested in her like that. You want to still be her friend, but you dont want to worry about you making a move on anybody whos not this way. It will kinda freak you out. Also, the cosmo girl for september has an article on when they tell you that!Hope i helped.
XoxO Alissa-marie
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You need to support your friend during this difficult time. She won't try to make a move on you and your friends- she respects you and knows you're not bi. Bisexual actually mean that you're attracted to both girls and boys. Many people, including celebrities like Angelina Jolie, are like this- it's perfectly normal! Your friend is exactly the same still- think of it as if she likes a different kind of guy (like preppy instead of skater) than you do.
I hope I helped! If you think I did a good job please feel free to rate me.
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