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Question Posted Tuesday August 31 2004, 8:07 am

I love my bf but im in love with my best friend.. I wanna stay with my bf and i cant have my best friend.. i dont even know how he feels about me... but i cant stand it what do i DO?!
you know I think i can answer this myself... if i love my bf i'd stay with him right.. well Im gunna of course... but i just wanna know how to just stop and forget about the love and just be his best friend and stay in love with my bf.. cuz my bf means the world to me


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BrunetteBeauti answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 10:47 pm:
wow thts hard. well hun jus try 2 stay friends w. ur best friend not more.

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jesikuh977 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 3:01 pm:
yeah juss do that, cuz as u said urself, u dont kno how ur best friend feels about you...hmm or u could live life taking chances and see what ur bff thinks of youu I DONT KNOW!! stay with the bf. since u love him =D

*jesikuh

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alisonmarie answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 12:40 pm:
Well, you can't help who you love. And if you really love one person, then you won't be able to fall in love with someone else.

You can't forget about people you care about, but you can make choices.

If your boyfriend was really right for you, you wouldn't be thinking about other guys. It seems like staying with your boyfriend could be seen by you as the safest thing - you already know he likes you, and you have no idea how your best friend feels.

I think it's only fair to your boyfriend AND to you to end that relationship - you totally deserve to be with someone so great that the idea of another guy wouldn't even enter your head!

Good luck.

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c_assi_e_x_12 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 12:21 pm:
Ah..the classic love triangle! and ur exactly rite stay with ur boyfriend and god forbid if u break up then maybe u could try dating ue best friend. Good Luck!!



..*Cassandra*..

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Roxybabii922 answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 12:12 pm:
Maybe try taking a break so that you can clear your head and really see what you want

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sxyxbabii answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 9:52 am:
if you like someone else--even if its your best friend you should break up with your boyfriend because your just hurting him every day that your not breaking up with him!! eventually hes going to find out and get upset. you should just tell him n get it over with! =/ i don't think you LOVE them. but i think you really like them a lot but theres not really any way you can just stop even though you'd like to.. sorry!

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Laura answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 9:14 am:
If he really means the world to you, why are you thinking about other guys? If you REALLY love him you wouldn't love anyone else, you have to stay true to him. That's what love is. Faithful, committed people.

~Laura~

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mshonest4eva answered Tuesday August 31 2004, 9:12 am:
Be honest with yourself... if you really love your bf, then you have to keep the promise you made to stay true. Your best friend should stay just that. If you try to break up with your bf to go out with your friend, then everything can get really messed up. You have to make sacrifices in every relationship- if you want to be faithfull, that is.

XoxO Alissa-Marie

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