Me and my boyfriend have now been together for a little over 3 weeks, and he already told me he loved me. But since I don't love him back, I didn't say it back, just smiled.
I think the reason I can't say it is because I love someone else, who has a girlfriend. He's told me he loves me and we flirt all the time together. And, I do love him.
I need help knowing how to tell my boyfriend that I don't love him yet and I would like to know how to deal with loving someone that's not my boyfriend.
IF you want to stay with your boyfriend, just tell him that you like to take things slow, and you don't want to rush into anything. tell him you love spending time with him but your not at the point yet where you can say i love you. me and my ex boyfriend didn't say i love you until three months after we were going out! also i was in a similar situation as you are in. i had a boyfriend, but i was in love with my best friend who had a girlfriend! i told my now ex boyfriend that i needed to be happy and that things were just not working out. i told him that i needed time to think right now and that it's not fair to him that im staying in this relationship because i didn't know what i wanted or exactly what i was feeling and i needed time to figure that out!! he was very sad and upset because we were going out for a year but now i am just having fun. my best friend is still going out with his girlfriend and honestly there is nothing we can do about that. don't try and interfere with this boy and his girlfriend. if you really do love him, you should be happy for him. i know it's so hard and girl im still trying to get over my best friend. it's hard realizing he loves another girl besides me but i'm not going to let it depress me. i still get to hang out with him and see him so i'm happy he can still be in my life. you could tell this boy thats not your current boyfriend that you do have feelings for him, if he already doesn't know that and see what his reaction is. maybe he likes you too, but was going out with his girlfriend because you were unavailable! i'm not sure who you were talking about when you say.. "he's told me he loves me and we flirt all the time together" but im guessing it's the guy you like who has a girlfriend. i know it's hard to resist someone who has a girlfriend, we always want what we cant have right [: if he's telling you he loves you and he flirts with you while he has a girlfriend just think of what he could be doing with other girls if you two did end up going out. there is alot to think about, if you need anything else let me know. best of luck to you! ♥ LU
& HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!
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i really want a boyfriend, but i have bad anxiety
im 17, f. and never really had a boyfriend except in elementry school.. i had 2 and i was really close with them.
i usually make guys make the first move. i would if i knew 100% that they wouldn't reject me.
i'm really, really scared of rejection. my fear kinda puts me in a box, that lets no one in.
if i find out a guy i like, likes me. i ignore him. sometimes i tend to act like a b**** to him.
but that's only because of my box.
im not just afraid of rejection, im also afraid of embarassing myself. i dont have high self esteem. and most people see me differet than the way i see me- i see myself ugly..
the only reason i had 2 boyfriends in elementry school was because we always faught all the time and they kind of broke the barrier when making up..
and highschools so different, its so hard. i cant really read guys like i use to be able to. theyre so mature and everything..haha.
if he told me i was pretty, it makes it alot easier for me.
anyways, there is a guy i like right now.
he's cute, smart, etc.. haha.
he's also nice, and he the romantic type, & is chivarous..
he also flirts with almost every girl, and cares about looks..
right now we're friends..
please help, i dont want to be alone in my box forever :[
WoAaaaaaa! i was the exact same as you girl. i had trust issues, everytime i heard someone liked me i would get freaked out and push them away. people always said i was so gorgeous and they didn't believe me when i said i never had a boyfriend before! the thing i realized is you have to take chances. i've been told that guys are intimidated by me because they feel that i will reject them because they think they're not good enough for me. you just have to learn to be friendly! [: smile alot, be outgoing and if you want something, go for it. i was sick of always being lonley, and the only one out of my friends that never had a boyfriend. i've completely changed myself over the past two years and i love who i am now. i still don't go telling guys my feelings and i definately don't ask them out but when i'm texting them i'll say little things that will make them think, make them wonder! i drops hints that will let them know im interested. talk to this guy, don't be worried. maybe go with a group of your girlies and you wont be as scared! sometimes you have to be the one to make the first move, and if you want something bad enough you'll go for it! if you need anything else let me know, i know exactly what you're going through. i know you can do it girl ♥ LU
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SORRY SO LONG, BUT I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT IF YOU COULD HELP!
im 18/f, my best friend is 17/m.
keep in mind i've never had a boyfriend...
anyways we've been best friends for about three and a half years now. its a complicated situation. we tell each other alot, and he helps me through everything and i'm always there for him. he has a girlfriend of two and a half years. i did fall for him, and never did move on, but really nobody knows that! anyways we don't really hang out at each other's houses alot. when we see each other it's at my cousins because he is their neighbor (my girl cousin is 18, boy is 16) and me and her are like best friends! and him and my boy cousin are really close too! so thats why like when im over there he will come see me and we'll all hang out! of course he's been over to my house, but it's mostly when its me and my cousins and him and my family is completely in love with him, they want me to go out with him which is not possible obviously because he has a girlfriend!! the annoying thing is that my family won't stop bugging me about him. one time he came over when my parents were at a wedding and well my brother is 21 so he is moved out with his fiancee but he came over to get something and me and him were laying in my bed just watching tv and my brother called my whole family and they were like OoOoh what were you two doing!! and i was like oh my god seriously, we're just friends. get over it, HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND! i hate having him over because my family always bugs him about me, and every time i mention him they're like ooooooh ;] and im just like wow seriously, we're just best friends and they're always like you wish he was your boyfriend. i want him to come over, just him i feel weird having my parents here. i want my privacy, but i feel like if we're in my room and i shut my door they will suspect something is going on! we flirt, im not going to lie but nothing past the limit. i just dont know what to do! i can't get it through their head. maybe they're just not use to me having a boy over because i've never had an actual boyfriend. and it gets annoying when they always ask me when i'm going to have one and they're on my case when i talk about my best friend. he wants to hang out this weekend and on saturday my parents are going to a halloween party across the street, so i could have him over but i don't want it to be awkward if they like come home and we're laying in my bed, just watching a movie or something! and he doesn't really like having people at his house because he has four other brothers and sisters so it does get hectic. what do you guys think i should do in this situtaion. anything will help, thanks [:
tell your parents that you're just best friends. i use to have this problem. but i just didn't care anymore! finally my parents realized that nothing was going on between us after he was over at my house alot. have your best friend talk to your parents [: have him tell them that your really close, but only friends. tell your parents there is no way anything could be going on between you two because he has a girlfriend and tell them to stop worrying about you getting a boyfriend. no boyfriend, no probelms right [: need anything else drop one in the inbox! ♥ LU
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I have a really good guy friend that i've been fairly close to for the past few years (we're juniors in high school right now) and its always been really nice because neither of us liked each other and we just got along super well. Well... now I like him. which is NOT GOOD. He's really caught up on another girl he's liked for a couple years. I highly, highly doubt that its gonna change anytime soon.
what do I do??? I can't jeopardize our friendship, and i know if i told him it would get BEYOND awkward and screw things up. there is honestly no hope of an actual relationship between us. advice?
hey hunni! i went through the same thing and slowly things are finally falling into place after THREE years. we've been best friends for about three and a half years and of course i fell for him, he's the one im most comfortable with, the one i can trust, the one who makes me smile. the problem, he has a girlfriend of two and a half years which really does kill. don't give up hope, i mean don't stop everything just for him but don't EVER give up on something you want. i thought it would be impossible for me and my best friend to be more than just friends, and i never actually told him i just dropped hints when we would text and talk, and i think he got the hint. i didn't try to interfere with him and his girlfriend's realtionship because that would just be a bitch move, right? so i decided i needed to move on, because after two and a half years i was done waiting for him, waiting for them to break up. but just last weekend he texted me after two months of us not talking and we talked for two days straight just about everything possible. him and his girlfriend didn't break up yet, but he knows that it's not going to last much longer. i don't want to get my hopes up, and i'm not going to. right now i'm just going to see what happens. whatever happens, happens [: if you really really like him, don't ever forget about your best friend. i understand that it's hard to be around him and hang out with him, thinking that you two could never be anything more but you NEVER KNOW! you could also tell him how you feel, or you could just drop hints like i did! if your absoultely positive you want to move on, focus on what you have. focus on the things you love such as your family and friends. focus on school for right now. don't go looking for a guy, the guy will come to you. have fun, always smile and do whatever makes you happy! if you need anything else drop one in the inbox. good luck ♥ LU [:
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Any song suggestions would be great.
I'm having way too many emotions running through my head.
Thanks so much!
leona lewis- best you never had
paula deAnda- walk away
leona lewis- better in time
beyonce- if i were a boy
chris brown- superhuman
jordin sparks- this is my now
jessica simpson- still dont stop me
mila j- no more complaining
if you need more let me know! ♥ LU
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Well I have been married once, it was nothing special really got married in shorts at a court house LOL
However I am getting married again, my dream is to get married near somekind of cool waterfall somewhere out in the open. What I need some help with is I have never really traveled anywhere. I have not seen or been to alot of states. So I really need some cool ideas or neat places that have waterfalls, that might be ideal for a wedding. Looking for something really beautiful, so I can have some unforgetable pictures.
So any help or suggestions would be great, I also plan to buy like a case of bug spray LOL for me, my soon to be hubby and the guests.
thanks for your help :P
im not sure how much you plan on spending but HAWAII is the most beautiful place you will ever see. it has amazing waterfalls, and also the nicest beaches. it's truly a fantasy once your there. its speechless and unforgetable. i would suggest maui, it's not a packed island unlike honolulu. it's peaceful and quiet. they also have BEAUTIFUL gardens, at hotels that many people get married at. but i know your dream is the waterfall and i know there are so many of those there. if you need any more ideas let me know!
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Hi!
many people cant believe it, but i use to be shy! when i was around people i didn't know, i wouldn't talk very much and i would feel very uncomfortable. then my junior year, i decided its time for a change. i opened up, i just didn't care what ANYONE thought about me, except the one's i loved of course. i would be nice to everyone because really, what good is it to be a bitch and just grouchy all the time? i smile all the time, just for the simple fact that i hope it will make someone's horrible day, better [: it will also be easier for someone to approach you, knowing that your friendly and very easy to get along with! i know it will take time to open up and not care what people think, it really will. but say hi to someone that you haven't talked to before, but maybe have seen around! try to get back in touch with your best friends! then go places with them, maybe meet some of their friends. it's also so much easier to just be yourself when your with your girls! i hope i helped girl if you need anything else let me know! i know you can do it ♥ LU
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15/f,
hiiiiiiiiiiiii, theres this boy I've liked for little over 4 years now.
he've never dated and WE use to talk as in flirting ect I was told awhile ago he liked me which is what made me like him.
any way to make a long story short.
it's been four years and I still can't get over this kidd, and he's inlove with his girlfriend.
It's like i don't know why or what it is i like about him, one day he isnt cute to me but I still have my strong deep feelings for him and another day i think hes the cuest thing I DON'T EVEN LIKE HIM BECAUSE OF HIS LOOKS AND THATS ACTUALLY A REALLY BIG THING FOR ME!!
nothing i do helps when i hear is voice it makes my day, when i see him or even am in the same room as him everythings better.
my best friend says I'm 'inlove' with him
could this be true or no? & any advice on getting over him?
_xoxox
wow i was in the EXACT same situation as you are in. thats so weird! but anyways i think you can be in love with him. my friends say that i was in love with the boy that i liked. we have been best friends for four years now! and he has been going out with his girlfriend for about two and a half years. it is hard for me to deal with and really, im not completely over him no matter what i try. even when im having fun, every once in a while i'll wonder what he's doing or if he's with his girlfriend (he usually always is) it's just hard for me because i do love him even if we're not going out. i just have to face the fact that he is just always gonna be, my best friend. after i haven't talked to him for awhile, my feelings start to fade even though i know i'll NEVER be able to forget about him. it's like you want to hang out with him and have him in your life, but it just makes it so much harder right? i always have the urge to text him and say "i miss you..." but i think that would just make things even harder. it really is hard to get over someone that you have liked, maybe even loved for so long. what i'm doing right now is focusing on school, friends and family. i stay busy and go out and have fun. don't find yourself sitting at home because that will just make it worse. if he's not going to sit around, why should you? i just realized that i am waiting around for something that may never happen. even though i went out with my ex boyfriend for a year, it just wasn't the same. he wasn't my best friend. my ex boyfriend doesn't treat me like my best friend does. maybe i did fall in love with our friendship. moving on is something thats necessary, but it truly is one of the hardest things you'll have to do in your life. im always here sweetie, and i am in the same boat as you so if you need to talk some more, leave one in the inbox! ♥ LU
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Well, this guy and i have been messing around for about 3 years now. And hes 5 years older than me, but its become more intense. Like, now he wants me to sleep over and all that. But he has a girlfriend of two years, but he says he doesnt care about her. He basically just needs her for now because of work. Well, we are on the level of more than good friends and less than a couple, its confusing. I really have strong feelings about him, and i go over his house everynight and its not always about sex. I dont know if he is using me, and i really doubt it just because of how he acts towards me. I know he cares, but its like we cant be together right now because of our age difference and because i am 16. Am i a booty call? or is this all that can be at the moment? and until i become 18 this is all that can happen?
PLus, i stay over and we cuddle and all that.
idk, please any advice?
hiiii :)
well i was in a similar situation.
i have a best friend, we've been friends for about four years now. he's a year and a half younger than me and to be honest it doesn't bother me one bit. we use to like each other awhile back but then he ended up getting a girlfriend and they've been going out for two and a half years now. it's honestly one of the hardest things i've had to deal with so far in my life. he still tries to get with me and i really really want to be with him too, but i had to say NO. i told him that i just can't because he has a girlfriend and that would just be wrong. he said that his girlfriend would never find out which was true but i still said, im sorry but i just cant let you do that, i know your better than that. as hard as it was for me to say no i knew that we were both better than that, and i had a sense that he was physically attracted to me, so he just wanted to get with me knowing that he could get away with it. right now i haven't talked to him for about a month because we're both so busy and he is always playing sports or with his girlfriend (one or the other) that now we barely get to spend time with each other which breaks my heart but i think it's best for me to keep my distance for awhile. we are still best friends, don't get me wrong but now that i told him i couldn't do anything with him while he has his girlfriend he doesn't try to pull anything on me anymore when we're together which helps ALOT. so in your situation i would say he is using you, and that you need to keep your distance for awhile. if you guys are good friends, tell him thats ALL you can ever be for as long as he has a girlfriend because your better than that, you better than being #2. find someone who loves you and only you! good luck sweetie, if you need anything else im always here! ♥ LU
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i am a 17 year old girl. i go to boarding school in connecticut. ive known my boyfriend, j, for almost 4 years and we've been together for a few months. i really care about him as a friend and im attracted to him, but i dont think we are a good couple. we rarely get to hang out because were both really busy and i feel like we dont have that much fun when we do hang out. weve always had a lot of fun as friends so it seems strange. but i think if i broke up with him it would be completely out of the blue for him.
also, there is a guy, w, i have been hanging out with a little lately. i have a lot of fun with him and i feel like we are really compatible. i find myself thinking about him a lot. but, his best friend, c, is also one of my closest friends. c's friends always tell me that c is "in love" with me. he really doesnt like my current boyfriend and he was really upset when we got together. i dont know if w and i could ever be more than friends because he probably values his friendship more than any feelings he may or may not have for me.
soo my question is..should i break up with my boyfriend?
pros:
something could happen with w
c and i will be closer again
i would have more free time
cons:
his mom is my college advisor and has to write a letter of recommendation for me!!
he would be really upset and we may never be friends again
his friends would hate me
what do you think?
this is a really hard situation, but it's similar with what i had to go through with my ex boyfriend. i would suggest that you do break up with your boyfriend because it really doesn't seem like your very happy right now. i was with my ex boyfriend for a year and i just wasn't the same after we started having problems. i no longer was the same girl who was always smiling who made everyone laugh and who could brighten anyone's day. i was the girl was not happy with what she had, i was the girl who couldn't even smile worth anything because i was staying with the one who i thought i loved, but just made things even worse for me. if you are having doubts i suggest you break it off with him. even though you have been friends for 4 years, tell him that you would just rather be friends because you feel that you had SO much more fun being friends and then you don't have to worry about the whole relationship thing. on the other hand i wouldn't exactly try to get with "w" right away because if you still want to be friends with the boy your with now you have to show respect to him and if you went out with someone new right away it really would break his heart even more. even though i really do miss my ex boyfriend, right now im the happiest i've EVER been because im living my life with the one's i need, who make me happy and those are my girls! just take some time, hang out with your girls and enjoy the single life. the longer you stay with your boyfriend now the harder it will be on him if you decide to break up. do what your heart tells you sweetie. you deserve the best and you deserve to be happy :) good luck and if you need any more advice let me know! ♥ LU
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15/m
theres this girl shes 13 almost 14 i've been talking to her for 2 months like as a friend until now she would always talk to me first, she tells me everything now i think i like her we literally talk everyday but sunday i talked to her she said she had a boyfriend which i didn't really care about anyway but since sunday i haven't talked to her and im freaking out i miss her A LOT idk whats going on tuesday i didn't wanna talk to any of my friends i've become attached to her in some way its weird and idk if she really does like me even though she has a boyfriend
woaaaah i went through the same thing back in the day. you miss her even more, and are freaking out because you know that you can't have her anymore because she is now taken. you realized that she may care for someone else, more than she cares for you. im not sure if you want to hear this but i think she just thinks of you as a friend. she may even think of you as a best friend if she is comfortable talking to you about everything. i made the mistake of falling for my best guy friend, and he ended up going out with another girl and i thought that he liked me too and i waited to see if anything was going to happen between us, and NOTHING happened. we're not that close anymore because he is always with his girlfriend and it does make me really upset. try to talk to this girl about it! see what's going on with her and her boyfriend and tell her that you miss her! see what her take is on all of this. you will never know if you don't talk to her about it! good luck boy ♥ LU
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okay. so what are some good songs that like say thata you met this really great guy and you like him but you don't think it's ever even a possibility for him to like you like that. so you're afraid to tell him.
hahaha.
also, when i like read the lyrics to a a song, i can't put my mind around it as well as i can when i'm listening to it and reading it at the same time.
does anyone know why that is?
don't forget the songs though!
avant- 4 minutes
tim mcgraw- i need you
donnie j- you make me feel
kc and jojo- all my life
brian mcknight- anytime
lax- stop drop roll
avant- i want to be close
natasha bedingfield- angel
babyface and usher- bedtime (dirty song)
rihanna- hate how much i love you
ne-yo- because of you
rascal flatts- bless the broken road
chris brown- with you & forever
carrie underwood- i just cant live a lie
day 26- got me going
LEONA LEWIS- THE BEST YOU NEVER HAD (my fav!)
and to the second part of your question. that happens to me too and i think its because you can actually hear the beat and how it's sounding so it has more meaning! ♥ LU
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Hi I am a 16 year old female, well I don't really have a problem but my style is very sporty, I am tomboyish and mostly everyday I wear like tshirts and jeans, and hoodies. I have never been interested in like dresses or skirts, but I really would like to be a little more fashionable, not because of popularity issues or anything, but just because since I am getting older I want to look a little more mature and not look like I am hiding myself. Of course I still am myself, I dont want to change that, but what would you suggest to help boost my confidence and where would be a good start to being a little more fashionable? I don't like to be really glitzy or catch EVERYONE's attention walking down the halls. Just a small change... for example what types of stores should i look at? (online preferably). and anything else you think would help...
by the way I dont have much money for like abercrombie and hollister and anyways I don't really want to wear their stuff, not that I dont like their clothing but I don't really like the whole brand name thing that EVERYONE wears.
Thanks!!
this is definately my question :)
i am one of the girliest girls you will ever meet.like the person said below me, abercrombie and hollister is what teenagers wear nowadays! including me. but i also like express, even though their stuff is expensive. you can go to places like charlotte russe or vanity (if you have one in your area) just wear some cute jeans and a cute long sleeve top, even target has cute things sometimes! other places that arent very expensive but have cute clothes is khols and jcpenney. im sorry if im not much help, but i like to shop at places that are pretty expensive, but that's me! its totally acceptable that you dont want to spend that much on clothes. if you need any more idea's let me know and also let me know how much you are willing to spend so i have more of an idea! leave one in the inbox if you need anything ♥ LU
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What are some good songs about missing your ex boyfriend? He's in jail right now..but he was my first real relationship. I prefer any slow songs, rap, rock, etc.
Thanks so much :/
im sorry hun!
here are some i like, hope you enjoy :)
brandy- right here (departed)
ne-yo- mad
josh gracin- unbelieveable
tim mcgraw- i need you
LAX- stop drop roll
donnie j- you make me feel
usher- trading places
lloyd- i can change your life
plies- number one fan
shontelle- tshirt
avant- i want to be close
chris brown- flying solo
cherish- only one
gary allen- best i ever had
ne-yo- make it work
day 26- since you've been gone
rascal flatts- you
sophia- very first time
jordin sparks- this is my now
leona lewis- better in time
akon- right now (na na na)
jesse mccartney- relapse
natasha bedingfield- angel
let me know if you need more! ♥ LU
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well my friend's parents are getting a divorce because her mom cheated and she is leaving her current husband for the man she cheated and my friend doesn't know what to do and she's asked me for advice...but i don't know what advice to give her...the only thing that i told her is that things like that is a part of life...but i don't think it's good enough so if anyone else has better advice out there could you please help me??? thanx in advance
XOXOXO
im answering this kind of late but i thought i would still answer because my friend is going through this also except her dad cheated on her mom with another woman. this is what my friend is doing. she moved in with her mother (since her mother obviously moved out of the house) and she doesn't talk to her father because she said she can't even look him in the eyes anymore. she has an older brother who lives with the dad, and he comes to visit them often. she feels horrible for her mom, she always feels like she should stay home with her other than going out with her friends. Dont get me wrong, i think its awesome she does that, but she ALSO does go out with her friends often. her friends are VERY VERY supportive. "to every end, there's a new beginning..." if she wants to talk about it, make sure your there for her and listen to her but if she doesn't want to talk about it, let it go. hope everything goes well and i wish the best of luck for your friend and her father ♥ LU
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So I'm a senior in high school this year and I want to apply early for colleges. I'm trying to figure out what to write for my essay and I'm stumped. For a particular college I'm asked to "Write an essay or personal statement of atleast 250 words". Help! What should I write about? I don't want to be the same old student who writes a boring paper, shouldn't it be original? Thank you!
ohhhh college essay's they are a pain!
write what makes you unique such as places you have traveled to, things you are interested in, clubs that you were involved with in highschool. thing's that you have been through in your life that shows your a strong, independent and smart person. show them that you're ready for anything that comes your way and that your very very hard working and you get thing's done. show them that college is something your confident about and something that you know will benefit you. show them that your excited. is there a certain reason you want to go there? tell them. need any more idea's let me know and good luck! ♥ LU
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17/m
I just lost this $50 bet to a girl friend of mine, and I wanted an objective female opinion on what went wrong and how I lost, because I can't believe I did.
My friend is really sweet, and she was telling me how mean she could be while we were goofing off w/ a sticky film camera...and so I said "you're not really that mean...I'll bet you $50 that you wouldn't take a sticker pic of me and stick it to your toilet paper. If you were mean, you'd be able to do that."
Well, not to be too gross, but I lost...and now I am really scratching my head, because I don't see how!! Can you explain to me where I went so wrong?
im not too sure on the question, or how to really answer this but i'll try my best!
girls like to prove people wrong, especially boys. if im told i wont or cant do something you better believe im gonna do it. i mean it's $50, of course she is going to do it but deep down i know she doesn't mean it, she just wants to prove you wrong! dont take offense to what she did because i would do the exact same thing for $50 :) but i would NEVER do it to try and make someone upset. maybe next time you should think twice before telling a girl she wont do somethin boy! if ya need some more clarification or i totally answered your question wrong, let me know by leaving it in my inbox! ♥ LU
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ok so im talking to this guy. he is known to be a player some what. not really a player but like he will talk to girls and jus drop em and go to the next one. i have talked to him before and he did that to me and we are now talking again. but this time it seems like he's changed. like at first he acted the same way but now he seems really genuine and wants to hang out all the time and tells me he likes me and cares about me which he has never told me before.
should i believe him or still believe hes player?
i know thats not much decription but .....
personally i wouldn't go back to him, there is a reason you guys stopped talking in the first place right? even though people can change, they have to really want to do it and sometimes it takes alot. he could have changed but i doubt it and sorry if im being a complete downer about this but im just trying to tell you the truth. i just really dont want you to get hurt. i broke up with my ex boyfriend after a year of going out, and it was one of the worst feelings in the world because i not only lost the love of my life but also one of my best friends. he said he changed and wanted to get back together.. he told me he cant see himself with anyone other than me. he told me i mean so much to him and he promised that this time its going to be right. he said he wanted me to be happpy and he wants me to have a smile on all the time and he will make sure that happens and you wanna know what i said to him? your my best friend. i'd never look down on you or lose respect for you but i will never lose my smile and if things arent different, there wont be an us, i told him he has a lot to think about and as dumb as i was i told him we could try it again and thats when i realized it is never going to work out, things were never going to be the same. i needed to be happy and if that meant moving on, thats what i was going to do and now im the happiest ive ever been. so as you can see, if you give this guy another chance, it could be the best thing that ever happened to you but it could also be one of the worst. i just thought i'd share my story with you to see that i kinda went through a similar situation, and i dont want you to go through what i went through. let me know if you need anything else girl, stay strong ♥ LU
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so, i just graduated high school this year. most of my friends are still senior in high school, but now that im graduated, i swear it feels like IVE DIED. they hardly talk to me anymore, and that depresses me. i love them so much. also, i cant get over the fact that not only did i graduate and leave HIGH SCHOOL, but i also left the drama club, cheerleading, and show choir behind as well.. im just seriously so depressed about this. graduating and leaving high school is supposed to be the happiest time of your life.... its not. a have a couple questions here... :
is it normal to honestly still miss high school and all the things it comes with this much??
how do i cope with this?
i feel like ive been riped out of my comfort zone, torn away from the people i grew up with, and forced to leave the things i love doing. does ANYONE feel this way after graduating???
OMG! i totally feel the same way girl.
i just graduated too, and now going to college.
i have alot of friends who are seniors and i get very sad and kind of jealous when i hear they're homecoming is coming up, or doing things school realated like i miss the football games, dances and everything else in high school. i feel so alone right now, trying to find myself but i wish i was back in high school.. i miss it so much. they say that college is suppose to be the best years of your life, but right now i dont see how that is. i feel like im drifting away from my close friends that are seniors because now they are all doing things and going to school events with each other and im not going to them anymore. as much as i'd like to go i feel like i shouldnt be stuck in the high school days anymore because i feel as if everyone else has moved on. if you EVER need to talk, hun im always here and going through the same thing! ♥ LU
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18/f;
im startin to notice patches of little white spots on my arms, back, and stomach. they kinda look like little scars, where the skin is like bleached-looking & whiter than the rest of your skin. they're not raised or anything, and they just kinda appeared a few weeks ago. anyone have any idea what this could be?
do you go tanning at all?
let me know ♥ LU
im pretty sure it has to do with going tanning too because i go, and i have the same spots but i get them on like my cheek and my arms. im not sure what its called, or why its caused but i know that i get the same thing. sorry if i wasn't much help
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