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a player or true this time?
ok so im talking to this guy. he is known to be a player some what. not really a player but like he will talk to girls and jus drop em and go to the next one. i have talked to him before and he did that to me and we are now talking again. but this time it seems like he's changed. like at first he acted the same way but now he seems really genuine and wants to hang out all the time and tells me he likes me and cares about me which he has never told me before.
should i believe him or still believe hes player?
i know thats not much decription but .....
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personally i wouldn't go back to him, there is a reason you guys stopped talking in the first place right? even though people can change, they have to really want to do it and sometimes it takes alot. he could have changed but i doubt it and sorry if im being a complete downer about this but im just trying to tell you the truth. i just really dont want you to get hurt. i broke up with my ex boyfriend after a year of going out, and it was one of the worst feelings in the world because i not only lost the love of my life but also one of my best friends. he said he changed and wanted to get back together.. he told me he cant see himself with anyone other than me. he told me i mean so much to him and he promised that this time its going to be right. he said he wanted me to be happpy and he wants me to have a smile on all the time and he will make sure that happens and you wanna know what i said to him? your my best friend. i'd never look down on you or lose respect for you but i will never lose my smile and if things arent different, there wont be an us, i told him he has a lot to think about and as dumb as i was i told him we could try it again and thats when i realized it is never going to work out, things were never going to be the same. i needed to be happy and if that meant moving on, thats what i was going to do and now im the happiest ive ever been. so as you can see, if you give this guy another chance, it could be the best thing that ever happened to you but it could also be one of the worst. i just thought i'd share my story with you to see that i kinda went through a similar situation, and i dont want you to go through what i went through. let me know if you need anything else girl, stay strong ♥ LU
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Well, you say he seems genuine so i would give it another try only if you really like him. I would be prepared just in case he tries the same thing. yeah, you can hang out with him and stuff, but just dont get too attached, kinda distance yourself until you know for sure.
Good luck!
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Well time changes and so do people. Maybe he's changed for the better, or maybe he hasn't. It really depends on if you like him enough to go through what he put you through last time. Not saying he will, Just saying that you should do what you think will be better for you. Hope I helped :)
- Ellie
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