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Have a boyfriend, but love someone else?
Me and my boyfriend have now been together for a little over 3 weeks, and he already told me he loved me. But since I don't love him back, I didn't say it back, just smiled.
I think the reason I can't say it is because I love someone else, who has a girlfriend. He's told me he loves me and we flirt all the time together. And, I do love him.
I need help knowing how to tell my boyfriend that I don't love him yet and I would like to know how to deal with loving someone that's not my boyfriend.
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ok if you dont love him then break up with him and go to the guy you really love and have him dump his girlfriend to and maybe it will work out and tell him the truth so he doesnt feel as bad and hate you for like ever and he might understand if your just honest to him and go with the guy you really truley love since you guys were ment to be together
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You have to ask your self certain questions because once your boyfriend finds out you are in love with one else i am sure he will leave you. it's just common sense and keeping it from him is like leading him on. as for the other guy im sure you dont want to ruin his current relationship. so i would just stay single if i was you until he is out of his relationship or move on. or focus on your current relationship if you want it to work.
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IF you want to stay with your boyfriend, just tell him that you like to take things slow, and you don't want to rush into anything. tell him you love spending time with him but your not at the point yet where you can say i love you. me and my ex boyfriend didn't say i love you until three months after we were going out! also i was in a similar situation as you are in. i had a boyfriend, but i was in love with my best friend who had a girlfriend! i told my now ex boyfriend that i needed to be happy and that things were just not working out. i told him that i needed time to think right now and that it's not fair to him that im staying in this relationship because i didn't know what i wanted or exactly what i was feeling and i needed time to figure that out!! he was very sad and upset because we were going out for a year but now i am just having fun. my best friend is still going out with his girlfriend and honestly there is nothing we can do about that. don't try and interfere with this boy and his girlfriend. if you really do love him, you should be happy for him. i know it's so hard and girl im still trying to get over my best friend. it's hard realizing he loves another girl besides me but i'm not going to let it depress me. i still get to hang out with him and see him so i'm happy he can still be in my life. you could tell this boy thats not your current boyfriend that you do have feelings for him, if he already doesn't know that and see what his reaction is. maybe he likes you too, but was going out with his girlfriend because you were unavailable! i'm not sure who you were talking about when you say.. "he's told me he loves me and we flirt all the time together" but im guessing it's the guy you like who has a girlfriend. i know it's hard to resist someone who has a girlfriend, we always want what we cant have right [: if he's telling you he loves you and he flirts with you while he has a girlfriend just think of what he could be doing with other girls if you two did end up going out. there is alot to think about, if you need anything else let me know. best of luck to you! ♥ LU
& HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!
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