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Hey, I met a guy online and I talked to him for about a week and I thought everything was going great! but I was always the one to say "Hi" first. So I decided to wait for him to start the conversation. Well, it's been almost 3 days and nothing yet...
Should I take this as "not interested"
P.S. We exchanged phone numbers last conversation and he was the first to give me his, so I thought he was interested.... idk
What do you think I should do?
18/F (link)
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well i talk to guys all the time its not a good thing you dont know if there rapist or kidnappers they could lie meet or date someone you know and like and leave him alone if he wont start the converstation with you then forget about him he doesnt deserve you just go with someone you know hope my advice works :P
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SORRY SO LONG, BUT I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT IF YOU COULD HELP!
im 18/f, my best friend is 17/m.
keep in mind i've never had a boyfriend...
anyways we've been best friends for about three and a half years now. its a complicated situation. we tell each other alot, and he helps me through everything and i'm always there for him. he has a girlfriend of two and a half years. i did fall for him, and never did move on, but really nobody knows that! anyways we don't really hang out at each other's houses alot. when we see each other it's at my cousins because he is their neighbor (my girl cousin is 18, boy is 16) and me and her are like best friends! and him and my boy cousin are really close too! so thats why like when im over there he will come see me and we'll all hang out! of course he's been over to my house, but it's mostly when its me and my cousins and him and my family is completely in love with him, they want me to go out with him which is not possible obviously because he has a girlfriend!! the annoying thing is that my family won't stop bugging me about him. one time he came over when my parents were at a wedding and well my brother is 21 so he is moved out with his fiancee but he came over to get something and me and him were laying in my bed just watching tv and my brother called my whole family and they were like OoOoh what were you two doing!! and i was like oh my god seriously, we're just friends. get over it, HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND! i hate having him over because my family always bugs him about me, and every time i mention him they're like ooooooh ;] and im just like wow seriously, we're just best friends and they're always like you wish he was your boyfriend. i want him to come over, just him i feel weird having my parents here. i want my privacy, but i feel like if we're in my room and i shut my door they will suspect something is going on! we flirt, im not going to lie but nothing past the limit. i just dont know what to do! i can't get it through their head. maybe they're just not use to me having a boy over because i've never had an actual boyfriend. and it gets annoying when they always ask me when i'm going to have one and they're on my case when i talk about my best friend. he wants to hang out this weekend and on saturday my parents are going to a halloween party across the street, so i could have him over but i don't want it to be awkward if they like come home and we're laying in my bed, just watching a movie or something! and he doesn't really like having people at his house because he has four other brothers and sisters so it does get hectic. there is nothing to do anyways besides go to someones house and he has no money. he doesnt have a job because he plays baseball football and hockey so his parents want him to concentrate on that and school!! what do you guys think i should do in this situtaion. anything will help, thanks [: (link)
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ok ya dont feel bad i have a best guy friend to his name is logan hes 14 and im 14 and well just tell your parents over and over again maybe theyll understand like ask your mom if shes ever had a guy best friend then tease her about that and ask your dad if hes had a best girl friend tease them then they might get the message and maybe when hes single you can date him then your parents wont have anyhting to say and tell your bestest guy friend whats going on and that you like him the whole thing is to be honest and stick up for yourself well i hope things work out :)
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Me and my boyfriend have now been together for a little over 3 weeks, and he already told me he loved me. But since I don't love him back, I didn't say it back, just smiled.
I think the reason I can't say it is because I love someone else, who has a girlfriend. He's told me he loves me and we flirt all the time together. And, I do love him.
I need help knowing how to tell my boyfriend that I don't love him yet and I would like to know how to deal with loving someone that's not my boyfriend. (link)
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ok if you dont love him then break up with him and go to the guy you really love and have him dump his girlfriend to and maybe it will work out and tell him the truth so he doesnt feel as bad and hate you for like ever and he might understand if your just honest to him and go with the guy you really truley love since you guys were ment to be together
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Ok.. so im not very good at like dating or with love. it seems everytime i get close to someone, i always end up hurt. well i had 2 loves in my life they were about 5 years apart. well i finally moved on and i found someone new. Im falling so deeply in love, i mean i never felt this way before ever!! this is like i think about this person all the time and i can see myself being with them, everyone thinks were so good togther. but i always have this feeling that things aren't so great. Now am i just feeling that way cause im just afraid to get hurt? i think this relationship is amazing, and its gonna work, but then i feel like it wont. im just so confused??
if you could help me..i'd be gratefull (link)
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ok.. ya i've been in the situation lots of times all you have to do is if you have a gut feeling that its not going to work talk to the person ask him or her if he wants it to work and a if he or her says yes then it will and follow your gut whatever it tells you to do then do it if you think the person is the best thing stay with them and when you have the feeling just breathe and calm down and see what your instinct is telling you to do
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