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Naw I am NOT inlove w/you.
15/f,
hiiiiiiiiiiiii, theres this boy I've liked for little over 4 years now.
he've never dated and WE use to talk as in flirting ect I was told awhile ago he liked me which is what made me like him.
any way to make a long story short.
it's been four years and I still can't get over this kidd, and he's inlove with his girlfriend.
It's like i don't know why or what it is i like about him, one day he isnt cute to me but I still have my strong deep feelings for him and another day i think hes the cuest thing I DON'T EVEN LIKE HIM BECAUSE OF HIS LOOKS AND THATS ACTUALLY A REALLY BIG THING FOR ME!!
nothing i do helps when i hear is voice it makes my day, when i see him or even am in the same room as him everythings better.
my best friend says I'm 'inlove' with him
could this be true or no? & any advice on getting over him?
_xoxox
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wow i was in the EXACT same situation as you are in. thats so weird! but anyways i think you can be in love with him. my friends say that i was in love with the boy that i liked. we have been best friends for four years now! and he has been going out with his girlfriend for about two and a half years. it is hard for me to deal with and really, im not completely over him no matter what i try. even when im having fun, every once in a while i'll wonder what he's doing or if he's with his girlfriend (he usually always is) it's just hard for me because i do love him even if we're not going out. i just have to face the fact that he is just always gonna be, my best friend. after i haven't talked to him for awhile, my feelings start to fade even though i know i'll NEVER be able to forget about him. it's like you want to hang out with him and have him in your life, but it just makes it so much harder right? i always have the urge to text him and say "i miss you..." but i think that would just make things even harder. it really is hard to get over someone that you have liked, maybe even loved for so long. what i'm doing right now is focusing on school, friends and family. i stay busy and go out and have fun. don't find yourself sitting at home because that will just make it worse. if he's not going to sit around, why should you? i just realized that i am waiting around for something that may never happen. even though i went out with my ex boyfriend for a year, it just wasn't the same. he wasn't my best friend. my ex boyfriend doesn't treat me like my best friend does. maybe i did fall in love with our friendship. moving on is something thats necessary, but it truly is one of the hardest things you'll have to do in your life. im always here sweetie, and i am in the same boat as you so if you need to talk some more, leave one in the inbox! ♥ LU
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You're not in love with anyone at this point, you may like him A LOT. Trust me, I liked my ex-boyfriend a lot even before we dated... and once we did the relationship was great, after six months it was just plain boring to me and he was really clingy... and on top of that we were thinking about having sex but I just didn't have the feelings for him so we didn't, although he thinks we almost did, which either way I said no... but you may like him now and may love him eventually but you can't be in love with someone you've never kissed, had sex with, or anything like that.
And I'm not saying that in a mean way whatsoever. And the main thing was in my relationship, I loved the idea of him, I just didn't love him... and that might be the same way but we don't know. But I would back off and play hard to get and stuff but don't do anything crazy since he's got that girlfriend... just pretend he's just a friend and he might turn his head, or possibly break his neck towards you. lol jk.
But good luck with him sweetie. :]
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