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best friend...
I have a really good guy friend that i've been fairly close to for the past few years (we're juniors in high school right now) and its always been really nice because neither of us liked each other and we just got along super well. Well... now I like him. which is NOT GOOD. He's really caught up on another girl he's liked for a couple years. I highly, highly doubt that its gonna change anytime soon.
what do I do??? I can't jeopardize our friendship, and i know if i told him it would get BEYOND awkward and screw things up. there is honestly no hope of an actual relationship between us. advice?
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flirt with him like crazy, do things that show you like him, but don't say anything. plus act normal too. maybe he will get the hint, and if he looks like he is uncomfortable or he is enjoying you flirting with him, then you will proabbly get him to the point where he starts liking you and stuff, then that way you will get him...i hope this hleped..gooodluck!
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hey hunni! i went through the same thing and slowly things are finally falling into place after THREE years. we've been best friends for about three and a half years and of course i fell for him, he's the one im most comfortable with, the one i can trust, the one who makes me smile. the problem, he has a girlfriend of two and a half years which really does kill. don't give up hope, i mean don't stop everything just for him but don't EVER give up on something you want. i thought it would be impossible for me and my best friend to be more than just friends, and i never actually told him i just dropped hints when we would text and talk, and i think he got the hint. i didn't try to interfere with him and his girlfriend's realtionship because that would just be a bitch move, right? so i decided i needed to move on, because after two and a half years i was done waiting for him, waiting for them to break up. but just last weekend he texted me after two months of us not talking and we talked for two days straight just about everything possible. him and his girlfriend didn't break up yet, but he knows that it's not going to last much longer. i don't want to get my hopes up, and i'm not going to. right now i'm just going to see what happens. whatever happens, happens [: if you really really like him, don't ever forget about your best friend. i understand that it's hard to be around him and hang out with him, thinking that you two could never be anything more but you NEVER KNOW! you could also tell him how you feel, or you could just drop hints like i did! if your absoultely positive you want to move on, focus on what you have. focus on the things you love such as your family and friends. focus on school for right now. don't go looking for a guy, the guy will come to you. have fun, always smile and do whatever makes you happy! if you need anything else drop one in the inbox. good luck ♥ LU [:
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