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i heard that if u stop eating u will acctually gain weight. is that true?

Yeah. If you start dieting like crazy and stop eating, then you get thin to start with but once you start eating again your body really needs all the nutrients and stuff so you put on alot of weight.

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Ok, I am 14 and turning 15 in a couple of months. I have not started my period and I wear a size B bra so I'm not sure why i haven't started yet. My sister and mom started when they were 12-13 years old, is there something wrong? Thanks Alot!

No, there's nothing wrong. Some girls start as late as 19. Yeah, seeing as your mum and sister started at a certain age, you would expect you to be the same but that doesn't matter. My mum started at a different age to me, there isn't anything wrong. Everyone is different. If you are still concerned, then go to your doctor to check there's nothing wrong.

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I'm 14. A day or two before my period, I tend to get this dark stain on my panties...the front of my panties, not where I would get a normal period stain. It's dark and kind of brown, and sort of thick. Do I have a disease or something?

Also, every single time in my period, I have a normal flow for maybe three days, then it stops for one or two days, then it starts again for only about half a day. Is this abnormal?

No you do not have a disease. The dark stain is probably just discharge that is darker because your period is due soon. It is perfectly natural to get this and alot of girls and women do. As for the second question, that's normal too. Everyone's period flows are different, it's okay for it to stop and start near the end. If you are still worried, then go to your doctor so he can reassure you.

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Well, my brother told me that if you put up blue christmas lights it meant that you were Jewish. So does anyone know if this is true or is my brother smoking something? Thanks!!

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Yes, some Jewish people decorate their houses with blue lights. However, if you are not Jewish and you put up blue lights, it doesn't make you Jewish.

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My bf is 15 and his penis is not real big and he's a bit insecure about it what is the average size for a 15 yr old?

I read somewhere that the average male's penis size is 2-3 inches normally and 5-6 inches when it is erect.

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I have a pretty big emergancy...
My boyfriend gave me a hicky like 30 minutes ago and I was wondering if theres ANYWAY to help speed the process of it disapearing?
please help if my parents see this then i'll get killed!

Whatever you do, don't start wearing things like scarves and turtle necks, they will just draw attention to it. The chances are, your parents will guess if you wear them because they probably did exactly the same thing. Put a spoon in the freezer for a while then press it against the hickey, it doesn't make it go away completely but it makes it fade and go away quicker. Then put concealer over it and wear your hair down.

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When you look at the view feedback, what does the number mean?

The number is your rating. When you answer a question, there will be a thing where the person who asked for advice can rate the people who gave him/her advice. 1 is the lowest and 5 is the highest, so if the person rating thought the advice was bad then they would give it a one and if it was good, then a 5.

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(Sorry lame queation everyone hates answering BUT...)Well I just started going out with this guy, "Greg" and I really like him and he really likes me. But the problem is, neither of us are very touchy-feely people, and so my friends are constantly yelling at me for not holding his hand, giving him a kiss, etc. Well I think that I should, so what should i do to just be a little bit more physical, I guess...

The exact same thing happened to me and they didn't stop going on at me until I acted a little more physical. So I wont answer with the corny cliche: Oh you shouldn't listen to what other people say, it's your relationship bla bla bla. What you need to do, is act touchy feely for a few days and then gradually stop. The chances are, after your friends are satisfied that you and your boyfriend are acting how they want, then they'll forget about it.

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is it true that after 16 a girl stops growing?? if this is not true then what age it is?

The age varies. For some it is fairly young, for some it isn't until their early twenties. The average age is around 16-18 but that doesn't mean that as soon as you hit 16 you will stop growing.

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OK... I just wanted to see if anyone else has heard of this or knows what it is...
On my upper inner left thigh ther are these really strange marks. They look liek branches and kind of like scars. they are indented into my leg and pruple-ish. I never scarped my leg there or cut it but they look a lot like scars. By indented I mean if you run your finger along it it's like carved into my skin. Does anyone knows what they are, or how they might have got there? They just came up this past 3 months. thanks for ANY comments

They're most probably stretch marks. Nearly all girls get them at some stage, I don't know if boys do or not. They happen because when you are growing, the skin stretches quickly, leaving silvery purple marks. It often happens during pregnancy too. There is no real cure but using body lotion will make them fade quicker. They will fade over time until they are almost invisible.

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does anyone know any websites that you can go to to make your own website? or do you no how to make your own website?? please answer asap
THANKS TONS!

First you need to get yourself a domain. I wouldn't bother paying for your own one (like: www.yourname.com) Go to a free website builder and choose the advanced option. A good one is http://www.freewebs.com. Now, go to http://www.shorturl.com and get your url shortened so that instead of say: www.websitename.com/members/yourname you can have something like: www.yourname.vze.com. Now you need to add content. There are lots of sites that teach html, one of the best is http://www.lissaexplains.com. You can also get free extras for your site, like guest books, counters and forms by signing up to http://www.bravenet.com.

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a month now. We dont get to see each other that much because we go to different schools, but im going to his school next month so things will get better. Well this weekend he wants to do somthin, but its up to me to find out somewhere for us to go on our date. We went to the movies last weekend so i want to go somewhere new. So if you have any good date ideas, please help.

You could go bowling then have a pizza or something after. It's a great opportunity to talk and have fun at the same time and it isn't really that expensive.It also doesn't matter if neither of you are that good at bowling because it makes it more fun that way. If that's not really your thing, then you could go shopping, to a restaurant or for a pizza and ice cream.

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Hi I am christian, and I have a friend who is jewish. I want to get her a "holiday" present, but I am not sure what to call it, or if she would think it was rude. I am also not sure when i should give it to her. I don't know when haunaka is. What do you think?

Just get her the present and wrap it in normal wrapping paper, not christmas paper, and on the gift tag write: To (insert name) Happy holidays! From (insert name.) I'm sure she wouldn't be offended by that.

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Well, tomorrow afternoon we get out of school at 10:30 a.m. because of exams...me and my friends were going to walk to an ice-cream shop and eat. The thing is, we have invited guys to go with us. I dont want to look like a complete slob when we go. Do you have any adivce on how to dress and do makeup? Its supposed to be around 56 degrees tomorrow, so I want to look cute, but still stay warm. THank you so much.

Wear jeans and a nice top with a jacket and a colourful scarf. Then, make-up wise, just go for black/brown eyeliner and mascara with pink or clear lipgloss.

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what would you do if a 16 year old guy asked you out and you were 13?

Say no. I know that there are only three years between the two people but you are likely to want very different things. A 16 year, especially a guy, is more likely to want a more sexual relationship and could pressure the thirteen year old into something that they don't want. I'm not saying that all 16 year old guys are sex craving perverts but it just wouldn't be safe. Plus, in two years the 16 year old will be a legal adult and the 13 year old will still only be 15. That would be breaking the law.

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Hey! Ok: so I have hundreds of pictures in my a box in my room. I take a roll at every other week. My question is: How can I display them in my room (without frames) I have some along my mirror. But what is a cool way of hahging them up? Thanks so much!

You can get really cheap pin boards from loads of places. Get two or three of them, hang them up around your room and pin the photos on. If the pin boards are a bit boring, then you could try decorating them with glitter, paint or you could stick things on them. I think you can also get them in different shapes.

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is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance!

NO WAY. Why would it be bad? The only thing different is the skin colour and it takes all colours to make a rainbow. There is totally nothing wrong with that. Nothing at all.

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ok so i am 13 years old and i have been since november 16. I am really self concious about my breasts because like all my friends are a size A and i dont even think if i am a size AA (i've never tried one though) I mean when you read this you might think that i actually have breasts but they are small. But i acutally really dont. I have only 2 small like bumps when i look at myself in the mirror. and when i look at myself from the side in a mirror it is literally flat. nothing sticking out. And i have had my period since July. please help!

Everyone develops at different rates, you're just a little behind. Don't worry, you will start growing breasts soon. In the mean time, if it is really getting you down then you could try getting a padded bra. If you are still worried, then go and see your doctor just to make sure there is nothing wrong.

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Ok this is a random question but i got my period friday morning and it wasnt heavy at all throguh friday and saturday and sunday. Its monday and when i took out my tampon there was close to nothing on it. is it normal to only have your period for like 4 days? ( its not my first )

Yeah that is totally normal. The length of your period can vary from 2-8 days. Anywhere in between is fine. Check with your doctor if you are still worried.

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Everybody I've asked has said different things about it but when is the best time to have sex so you wont get pregnate, alot of people say to do it when your on your period because its less likely, is that true? thanks a ton!!

It's all a myth. It doesn't matter when you have sex, there is still a chance that you will get pregnant.

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