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So i have been dating this guy for about two weeks now...
And things have been soo amazing, i don't think i could ask for anything better then having him in my life right now. But before we started going out, this girl told him that she wanted to meet up with him and hook up. He told me she was being all flirty and then he asked me if i would be comfortable with it because we have been talking so much...
I told him ofcoarse i wouldn't be comfortable with it but we werent going out so he could do whatever he wants. He chose not to go because he said he cared about me too much to loose me. Then about 3 weeks later he asked me to be his girlfriend. Things are going fine until i see his facebook status 'Cant get this out of my mind, and i know it wont be worth it and ill screw things up but something tells me to go for it...'
So were in the mall together and he tells me this same girl has told him that if things dont work out with 'that girl' that she'll always be here. He told me he said 'alrite cool'.
The he told me she was a giant creeper and started making fun of her...
I dont know what that means but i am really worried he's gonna dump me for her.
Is there anything i could do? (link)
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If he keeps bringing this up, not only is he considering it, but he has absolutly no respect for you or your relationship. Ask yourself if you would rather have a bf with wondering eyes, or one who's so focused on you that he doesn't even see other girls (and I promise that one is out there somewhere). If your comfortable with him considering the other girls than do nothing. If not, ask him how important you are to him. If he gets up tight or angry, than he's obviously not ready for a real relationship. If he tells you, and you're ok with his answer, then let him know that you don't like the fact that he's flirting with the idea of another girl. Lastly, should you two come to an agreement that you're his girl and there are no others as long as you two are together, talk to the other girl. I'm not suggesting a fight...just a calm and rational converstion where you let her know that he is YOUR bf and you don't appreciate her flirting with him.
Chances are, she'll continue to do so, but now the ball is in your bf's court. It's up to him to let her know that as long as he's with you, it's not gonna happen. And if he doesn't care enough about you to tell her that, then he's not worth your time. You could find and you deserve someone WAY better.
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I recently started looking into becoming a marine biologist, but my grades in math and bio aren't that good. Plus i'm not that fond of being away from home for months on end. I also dont think i could handle being a vet because I couldnt have the heart to put animals to sleep etc..
So what would be a good job for me that has to do with helping all types of animals?
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Hey!
well there are plenty of jobs available to you :)
I also love working with animals and a few years ago i found this website very useful (however i'm not sure how good it is now)
http://www.workwithanimals.com/
You could help train dogs, my sister helps to train dogs for the blind!
I've always wanted to work in a zoo :) all those animals would be so much fun.
Charity work is also a good way to start... they can help put you in place for another job.
Since i have far too much time on my hands here's a list for you!
Working in a pet shop
Animal assisted therapist
Animal photographer
Farm manager
Dog groomer
hopefully some of this helped... you know where i am if you need more! xxx
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where can i buy caution tape? (link)
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There are tonnes of places where you can get hold of stuff like this.
Over the internet is probably the best place to look. Have you tried ebay?
I had a look for you...
http://shop.ebay.com/items/_W0QQ_nkwZcautionQ20tapeQQ_armrsZ1QQ_fromZR40QQ_mdoZ
there are loads of 'lots' up at the moment :)
however if you're from the UK try the link below
http://shop.ebay.co.uk/items/_W0QQ_nkwZcautionQ20tapeQQ_armrsZ1QQ_fromZR40QQ_mdoZ
like the other answer, you can try fancy dress shops... party shops....
http://www.sillyjokes.co.uk/party/hen-night/caution-tape.html
hope this helps :)
if you need anything else don't hesitate to ask!! xxx
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18/f
so i met this boy mark last summer at one of my friends graduation parties. for some reason, ever since then i've had a crush on him. my friend caitlin told me that he liked me towards the end of the summer. well of course, we both went off to college. we were always flirty when we came home on breaks though and during winter break i thought that he liked me still/again, but you can never be sure with him..towards the end of winter break things got weird and i think he liked a girl that went to his school. turns out he hated his school so now he's at community college for this semester. my question is should i tell him that i like him? i'm afraid it will make things awkward which i don't want at all, but i want him to know. it's just very difficult for me to tell him i don't know how or what to say to him. can anyone help? thank you! (link)
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The relationship will get awkward if YOU let it get awkward. Let me explain:
I have problems telling guys how I feel for the exact same reason. But I've been on both sides. Belive it or not, guys have the same fear when they wanna preserve the friendship. The ones who took that chance with me are still friends of mine. Very close friends, in fact. When I told them I wasn't interested, I made sure to treat them no differently than before. And of course they were embarrassed and things were a little weird but I always made sure not just through words, but through actions, that I wasn't going to let a little embarrasment trash our whole friendship. And one guy in particular, I kick myself constantly for not giving a chance, but he still is a great bud.
Now for your situation, we flip the script. You should tell him. If he's into it than GREAT! If he's not, then you be the one to not let it get weird. At least if it gets that way, you know it's because of him, not you. And you know that if he would let something like that screw up a perfectly good friendship, then he wasn't much of a friend anyway.
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What's the ultimate way to strate to an ex friend that you are completely over them, and dont care about anything they say or do? Like.. how would someone act? I want this person to feel like im the bigger person for not caring about the stupid gossip they start about me. (link)
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Simple...do exactly what it is you want them to see. I'm assuming that a rumor is involved and the best way to kill those is not to dignify it with a response...TO ANYONE. As for your ex-friend, I know I usually got the idea after about a week of them not talking to me. That ensures that you come out the better person. By not responding and not retaliating, you show that you're not moved by what people say about you, and you're WAY too mature to stoop to the level of gossip. And rumors die quick without someone to feed on. People are going to talk about you your whole life.
Remember:
"It's not what people call you. It's what you answer to."
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:[ okay so long story short.. this guy i liked, who said he liked me started going out with his ex girlfriend. [he basically played me i guess..] and like SOOO much stuff has happened since then [they've been going out for a little over 2 months now..] but he like flirts with me.. sometimes. but i haven't talked to him in a little over a week because im done. IM SO DONE. he has a girlfriend. and it's never gonna happen. like, he used to text e everyday around the same time [on weekdays] late at night... i think that's when his gf and him would stop talking. and he would flirt a little bit, but sometimes he wouldn't, and i never knew what to expect it's like i was always just hanging on. yuh know? so anyways, since i haven't talked to him [he's in one of my classes, i ignore him.] he texted me late last night and said... "hey." then i didnt answer because i was so tired and fell asleep. and he texted me saying, "just outta curiousity why were we like cool and now you seem mad at me again"
i woke up at 10:30 p.m to find that message, and i didn't answer him. i think me not talking to him anymore is eating him alive, but i don't know. I don't know what to think anymore. I like him, I know i do. but i have to get over him, right? i don't want to... but i've exhausted all of my options, yuh know? and like in my class i have with him, a coupl guys flirt with me in that class [they are friends with him] and one of my best guy friends is in that class. well. one of the guys always pokes me and tickles me and im like ahhhh noooo. and when i like walk away the guy i like will be like, "duuuude, don't poke her." and then they'll start "play fighting" i dont get it. why does he do this? is he jealous.
I also saw him at a hockey game and he saw me and i dont know. him and his girlfriend didnt liek meet up until like 3 minutes left in the game. then i left and saw his parents [who love me, we are family friends] and they were talking to me and stuff.
I just don't know what to do or think or ANYTHING. someone help ?! with anything ?! thanks. sorry for the length, i appreciate those who take the time to read and answer this. (link)
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This has happened to me so many times that I could write a book about it. You pretty much answered your own question. You do need to get over him...and there is a very easy way to do that. First of all, stop ignoring him. That only gives him reason to think you're immature and probably more into him than he thought. And besides...it's very possible for guys and girls to be friends. My best friend of 6 years is a guy and we've never dated. Second, look at your situation from this angle. He had every opportunity to date you and he didn't. You are way to important to let HIS LOSS make you upset. Go out and find someone else who deserves you. Chances are, he'll kick himself once he realizes that you've moved on and he lost his chance, and that's the best way to get back.
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There's a girl in one of my classes that I like. We always talk and she smiles and laughs a lot. We say hi and talk in the halls all the time.
BUT...sometimes I'll message her on facebook and we don't really talk that much. I also heard her say to another girl she doesn't want a relationship at the moment (she just broke up with her bf not that long ago.) So does she like me? Should I ask her out?
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She either likes you, thinks you're a good friend, or has no idea how she feels about you herself. The best thing to do in a situation like this is to talk to her. And I mean it when I say TALK TO HER! No facebook messages...no text messages...no notes in her locker (I think you've got the idea). It's scary, I know, but what's the worst that's going to happen? She'll say that she's not interested. It sucks, but it doesn't hurt NEAR as much as you would expect it to. And should that happen, you don't avoid her...you accept her answer, and move on...she's still an awesome friend (am I right?). I'm sure there are other girls who would love to go out with you, so if this one doesn't work...lose the tunnel vision, and go for a widescreen view. In other words, look around for other girls. She's not the only one in your class...or school for that matter.
That's the worst case...the upside...she very well may say yes. Just remember...with girls..it's not always about what you say, but being bold enough to say something.
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i need your guys advice on this..so this is like the millionth time hes "blown me off" he doesn't really blow me off but he has this list of chores his dad makes him do and he knows that if he doesnt do them he can't go out or anything. hes basically lazy and its starting to get to me because he always makes plans with me and then cant last minute because he didnt do his chores..what do you guys think i should do? i texted him telling him i had to talk to him...what should i say? and what do i do? i need advice thankss
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Theory One:
It sounds like he's not much of a pre-planner. In other words, he may think of things he wants to do with you, but doesn't factor in the time it takes to do his chores. If that be the case, he needs to learn to manage his time, and apparently you gotta be the one to tell him that.
Theory Two (worst case scenario):
It could be that he's not as into the relationship as you are. In my expirience, if a guy is REALLY into his girlfriend, nothing comes in the way of him finding a chance to spend every free second with her. He wouldn't wait til the last minute to do his chores if he knew it would cut into his "you time". But that's the worst case scenario.
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its going to be our 6th month anniversery on tuesday.
what should i get for him?!
for his birthday, i got him a 60 dollar gift card and i got him the borat movie.
for christmas, i got him a cursing parrot. becuase it said something we used to say to eachother haha.
valentines day i didnt get him anything.. but i made him an amazing card!
now its our 6th month. and i need to get him something, but i dont have any money but i feel bad not getting him anything -- i am not expecting anything from him.
he was on the football team, he loves jeeps (he loves to fix them and race and stuff haha), he is going to college next year (so he is 18, im 16), he loves to watch movies, but i cant get him another movie... :/ he likes food. and he likes to sleep alot... ugh.
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You said that you made him an amazing card for valentines day, right? Here's an idea. Make a whole bunch of little arts and crafts projects referring to the number 6. Maybe a collage with 6 of your favorite pictures of the two of you, surrounded by six hearts, six pictures of his favorite kind of jeep, and a football jersey with a number 6 on it.
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i have this really perverted teacher who is hitting on my friend and making really disgusting remarks to me and mt friends and its really starting to freak me out. should i go to a guidence counslor about it so she can do somthing about it? if i do than the problem is i went there last year about a teacher and she might think i have teacher problems. (link)
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Umm yeah... don't go to the police... the school has to handle the problem and if charges are going to be made then the law gets involved. What you should do is first tell your parents and go to the Principal, not guidance counselor with your parents together. The guidance counselor won't do anything but get your principal involved so you might as well skip that step. Just make sure you get your parents involved because things will get accomplished better that way. After things get taken care of whether it be get the teacher fired or whatever they decide, you and your friend along with your parents will have the option to press charges. The Principal of the school needs to know first though. Also, have specific phrases that he has said to either of you so you can tell everyone exactly what he has said. And try to find other students who have had the same problem.
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hi.. thanks for advice. I want to know what are the best brand in lingerie category for women? what are the stuffs women would like generally?
Also, i would like to know should i ask my women to shave her pu*** zone while giving oral? i am quite concerned about hygeine? (link)
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As long as you like it, she'll probably wear it. Not all women like the same things so it' up to you and her. As for your other question, you can ask her to do that if you don't think she'll get offended..but chances are that she might. It should really be what shes comfortable with. And just because she isn't shaved doesn't mean she isnt clean.
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Am a 25 yr old guy, i recently met a girl during a chat & want to present a valentine gift as we have planned to meet on same day. I thought i could present her with nice pair of lingerie as it would b sexy, however when i asked her about her vital stats she refused to give it...she said herself is clue of what she wears(prob XL)...i know it cant be the case... what do you advise me in this case? what is the best way to know her vital stats & suggest me some best brands i could gift her.
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Well..if she is refusing to give you her sizes, then i don't recommend buying her lingerie. Specially if its the first time you're going to see her. Opt for something less..personal for now.
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Im a virgin, my boyfriend isnt. What are ways to make it good in bed for him? he knows im inexperienced but i dont want to come off as a complete noob. (link)
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Why does it matter? If he knows you're a virgin, he should know you won't have any porn star moves that will make sex mind-blowing. And if you do have awesome moves, he might think it's weird and question your virginity. That might not be completely true but seriously, he'll know that you won't have any super moves since youre a virgin and that's really okay. It'll still be good for him, trust me. Over time you'll come up with your own stuff when you find out what he likes and whatnot.
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me and my boyfriend have been dating a year and four months. it's our second valentines day together and we're sixteen. i'm not really sure what to get him. i was thinking like getting all of his favortie types of candy and a card with something really heart felt written in it (he like loves candy haha). i'm not sure if thats good though. any suggestions?
he loves guitar, plays it very well, he loves candy (obviously), the bright eyes band, and yeah he likes lots of things so maybe if someone has any cute ideas with those things or just any cute ideas in general would be great!
p.s. nothing involving pictures please because we don't have a lot together which is weird i guess but yeah okay ha thanks (link)
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Buy some of his favorite candy, a stuffed animal, and a shirt from a store he likes. Get some sort of basket, put the stuffed animal in a corner or it and fill the rest of it with the candy and the shirt. Roll the shirt up and put it between the candy.
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What can you do to have a successful relationship with a narcissist? Is it possible for them to change? How do you differentiate between someone who is arrogant and one who is a narcissist? ANY information regarding the subject would be much appreciated. Thank you very much. (link)
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Arrogance is being self-centered but in just an annoying cocky way. Someone that is a narcissist cannot show empathy. It is someone that is so self-centered and so that they actually cant show love to others. There's many other factors to it..many have very high expectations of everything from love and beauty to power and success.
And honestly, I'm not sure about your relationship. I believe it is possible for some people to change but it's a hard thing to do. And I know that I wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with someone like that. Narcissism isn't very healthy and people who are genuiely narcissist probably don't know they are but I'll bet that they are not truly completely happy with themselves.
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what do people usually do after their done like getting fingered or giving a hand or blow job? lets say if it was just a boy you were hooking up with, but are good friends with tooo. like if your hanging out and then in the spur of the moment something happens, what should you do after so its not all awkward and be like welll okay....
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I have one rule for you: If it's awkward after, you shouldn't be doing it.
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18/f
I have side swept bangs and am sick of having to get them cut all the time. If I don't cut my hair it grows way too quickly and end up with bangs that flop down in my face and have absolutey no shape.
I need a change of hairstyle, I definately want bangs. How should I get them cut?
Here's a bit of info on me to help you:
- I have dark brown hair, dark brown eyes and a fair complexion.
- My face is a little squarish. (I think its fat looking)
- I have a wide nose which I'd like to hide.
- I have long hair (to my boobs).
- I have to wash my hair every second day of it looks like I dipped my bangs in a bucket of oil.
Any pictures would be fantastic. Thanks to everyone who contributes.
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Don't hide your nose, I'm sure you're beautiful with it showing :p. Plus, there isn't much you can do with your hair to hide your nose unless you want it all over your face.
When you get your bangs cut, get side bangs but not ones that cover your whole forehead...if that makes sense. Make them a tad long so that you can part your hair on the side with your bangs.
http://images.teamsugar.com/files/users/2/20652/35_2007/HairTeenChoice2007.jpg
It more of an extremely short layer with a side part. This way, you don't have to constantly cut them because it won't look bad or get all over your face when they grow out a little.
Use a clarifying shampoo or one that says :for oily hair". Also, make sure you're shampooing your scalp, more so than your actual hair. Your scalp is what produces the oil and is what you actually need to clean. And Don't put conditioner on your roots.
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so my hair is naturally curly. but i've been straightening it 95% of the time for about the last 5 years. so it's gotten straighterish, and now just looks like a poof ball with some random uneven curls. i have to actually take my time with mousse and such now to make it look good curly. i'd love to have those loose, beachy waves all the time so i dont have to straighten it as much and such. if i were to get a loose perm, but it do that and look good? or would it look bad trying to curl over natural curls? has anyone done this before? (link)
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You can try to do that but you might end up with very curly hair instead of light ones that you want. What I would do is invest in some hot rollers. Get the bigger sized ones for very loose curls. They are very easy to use and so much easier than straightening. When I use them, I shower before bed, roll my dry hair right when i wake up, and then get ready. By the time I'm ready, its time to take the rollers out. Very simple and pretty hair :)
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I have small eyes since I'm Chinese. I'm nervous...what do they do when you get their and ask you want to have contacts. They do the measurements and stuff and then they try to put it in your eye. Then you have to do it yourself. I'm really nervous and I don't know if I'll be able to take it out even! (link)
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Don't worry, you'll be able to take them out :) They are made for all types of eyes so there is really no need to worry about it. All they do is give you an eye exam and look at the health and curvature of your eye. They have different shaped contacts for eyes with astigmatisms and things like that. Once you get your contacts in, one of the nurses will teach you how to put them in and take them out. Its really easy once you get used to them, no matter what size your eyes are.
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ok ive used tampons for about 3 years now, so i dont need to worry about bleeding when i have sex for the first time right? cuz the poppin has already been done.. (link)
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Tampons don't necessarily always break your hymen. My friend has always used tampons and she still bled the first time a guy fingered her because her tampons never broke it. So it really depends because tampons don't always break them.
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