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:[ okay so long story short.. this guy i liked, who said he liked me started going out with his ex girlfriend. [he basically played me i guess..] and like SOOO much stuff has happened since then [they've been going out for a little over 2 months now..] but he like flirts with me.. sometimes. but i haven't talked to him in a little over a week because im done. IM SO DONE. he has a girlfriend. and it's never gonna happen. like, he used to text e everyday around the same time [on weekdays] late at night... i think that's when his gf and him would stop talking. and he would flirt a little bit, but sometimes he wouldn't, and i never knew what to expect it's like i was always just hanging on. yuh know? so anyways, since i haven't talked to him [he's in one of my classes, i ignore him.] he texted me late last night and said... "hey." then i didnt answer because i was so tired and fell asleep. and he texted me saying, "just outta curiousity why were we like cool and now you seem mad at me again"
i woke up at 10:30 p.m to find that message, and i didn't answer him. i think me not talking to him anymore is eating him alive, but i don't know. I don't know what to think anymore. I like him, I know i do. but i have to get over him, right? i don't want to... but i've exhausted all of my options, yuh know? and like in my class i have with him, a coupl guys flirt with me in that class [they are friends with him] and one of my best guy friends is in that class. well. one of the guys always pokes me and tickles me and im like ahhhh noooo. and when i like walk away the guy i like will be like, "duuuude, don't poke her." and then they'll start "play fighting" i dont get it. why does he do this? is he jealous.
I also saw him at a hockey game and he saw me and i dont know. him and his girlfriend didnt liek meet up until like 3 minutes left in the game. then i left and saw his parents [who love me, we are family friends] and they were talking to me and stuff.
I just don't know what to do or think or ANYTHING. someone help ?! with anything ?! thanks. sorry for the length, i appreciate those who take the time to read and answer this.
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:(i'm sorry that happened to you i mean i can't really talk cause im only 14 and i go through the same things.Usually on a day to day basis.So my advice to you would be just ignore him and tell him to back off he has a girl and you dont want to be the reason they brake up,Well at least i dont think you want to but im just saying cuz i never want to be.So ok tell him that and if he acts like you did wrong then just tell him no i didnt you were the one tryin to get me wen ur girl wasnt around and thats messed.So we can still be frends but if you do that again and you have a girl im gonna feel uncomfortable.So yeah wow that was gud advice dont you think i think ill start sayin that to guys
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I think it's good you've stopped talking to him like that. He should know that he can't have both of you. You should tell him that he needs too chose between you and her. Don't be shocked if he chooses her because trust me he might but you also need too let him know that you don't want to be that kinda girl. He prolly is jealous but it doesn't matter since he has a girlfriend. Your single and hes not thats simple and thats just how it is going to be unless he wants to work with you to change it.
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You're doing the right thing, hunni.
He has a girlfriend. If he wanted to be with you, he wouldn't be with another girl.
Be friends by all means if it's not hurting you inside, but anything more at this current time isn't going to happen while he has a girlfriend.
and if they happen to break up, don't be a fool and let him play you again.
It just sounds like he enjoyed you liking him. People like to feel wanted.
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This has happened to me so many times that I could write a book about it. You pretty much answered your own question. You do need to get over him...and there is a very easy way to do that. First of all, stop ignoring him. That only gives him reason to think you're immature and probably more into him than he thought. And besides...it's very possible for guys and girls to be friends. My best friend of 6 years is a guy and we've never dated. Second, look at your situation from this angle. He had every opportunity to date you and he didn't. You are way to important to let HIS LOSS make you upset. Go out and find someone else who deserves you. Chances are, he'll kick himself once he realizes that you've moved on and he lost his chance, and that's the best way to get back.
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hey hunn,
this is extremely upsetting,
i have been in this situation ..
what i did was ,
well i know you probably really like him and all but if he is being a jerk and is flirting
while he has a girlfriend etcc.
then you really should just move on
and get over him , trust me in the end it will be worth it .
i promise (L)
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