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Ex Friend
What's the ultimate way to strate to an ex friend that you are completely over them, and dont care about anything they say or do? Like.. how would someone act? I want this person to feel like im the bigger person for not caring about the stupid gossip they start about me.
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In order to show your the bigger person and you dont care. You need to ignore the person act like they dont exist to you and never did. You have to act like the things they say about you behind your back are not even about you. Then they will leave you alone. the only reason people talk about people is because they are either jealous or they want your attention so they can hurt you. Dont let them you are stronger than that.
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Simple...do exactly what it is you want them to see. I'm assuming that a rumor is involved and the best way to kill those is not to dignify it with a response...TO ANYONE. As for your ex-friend, I know I usually got the idea after about a week of them not talking to me. That ensures that you come out the better person. By not responding and not retaliating, you show that you're not moved by what people say about you, and you're WAY too mature to stoop to the level of gossip. And rumors die quick without someone to feed on. People are going to talk about you your whole life.
Remember:
"It's not what people call you. It's what you answer to."
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