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Q: In the summer of 2008, I bought an adorable Be-Bop dress at TJ Maxx. This is what the dress looks like, only mine is a soft yellow:

http://i56.photobucket.com/albums/g164/risingloafer/dress.jpg

Well, my mom threw it in the wash and now it is shrunken down to virtually a mini dress. The band that is supposed to be around my ribcage now barely goes below my breasts. I feel awful, because if I were to put on 5 pounds it might not fit anymore.

The main problem is that the dress is now so tight that you can see the outline of my bra (straps and all, in the front and back) bulging through the fabric. It looks very unappealing, and you can see through especially because it is such a light-colored dress, even if the bra is yellow. Is there anything I can do about it? I've tried a strapless/pushup bra, but I have small breasts... I'm 32A. Strapless bras are always sliding down because I have nothing to hold up.

i would suggest not wearing a bra at all, if the dress is very tight you simply will not need one.

Q: What's the ultimate way to strate to an ex friend that you are completely over them, and dont care about anything they say or do? Like.. how would someone act? I want this person to feel like im the bigger person for not caring about the stupid gossip they start about me.

In order to show your the bigger person and you dont care. You need to ignore the person act like they dont exist to you and never did. You have to act like the things they say about you behind your back are not even about you. Then they will leave you alone. the only reason people talk about people is because they are either jealous or they want your attention so they can hurt you. Dont let them you are stronger than that.

Q: Okay so i really like this guy..he's so sweet and funny and everything is perfect! except when we hooked up..he was a bad kisser. he didn't use his tongue at all like it was boring! but i like him a lot and i don't want it to like end cause of that...how can i change his like kissing and make it better? what do i do!?

I had this problem once. I just grabbed his face with my hands and kissed him the way i liked to be kissed. and eventually he will get the point and start kissing you that way. Never tell him he is a bad kisser though.They dont like to know when they are bad at something.

Q:
I'm depressed, I don't know what to do and I need help.

I'm 23 years old, I'm pregnant with my first child. I have my own apartment and I'm in a committed relationship but here is the problem...

I'm on social security and I'm not working at this time, My boyfriend who is 24 is also unemployed. I recieve food stamps to support myself and help me make it through. I have a learning disability and I'm hard of hearing. I'm scared and I don't know how I will support my child. I do not believe in abortions so don't even suggest that, I do not want to give my child up because well...Apart of me is scared to death but the other part of me is lucky to be pregnant and know that I was able to even exsperience getting pregnant and I don't want to give my child up I want to raise it into a good loving home and I want to see my little one grow up. I don't know what to do...I live in a one bedroom apartment.

Please do not judge me, Say anything mean, I'm here to get help

Im sorry that you are feeling so low. And you are right about pregnancy it is a wonderful gift and I understand how you feel about not wanting to give it up.I am going to suggest to you an open adoption. It is yes still adoption but being an open one you will be permitted to choose the family who will take care of your child and you will also get to see your child and visit them pretty frequently depending on the paper work and the family. But an open adoption will allow you to see your child grow up and it will give you the satisfaction of knowing that your child is in a loving home. I hope this helped. And I hope the best for you.

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