Question Posted Saturday February 21 2009, 12:57 pm
i have this really perverted teacher who is hitting on my friend and making really disgusting remarks to me and mt friends and its really starting to freak me out. should i go to a guidence counslor about it so she can do somthing about it? if i do than the problem is i went there last year about a teacher and she might think i have teacher problems.
Disconnected answered Sunday February 22 2009, 5:37 am: Here's a wild idea, go talk to the teacher.
Ask him/her to control their behavior and tell him/her that you feel uncomfortable.
If s/he's decent teacher, they'll understand, however if it doesn't stop, then you should get your parents involved, because the school will listen to them more. [ Disconnected's advice column | Ask Disconnected A Question ]
orphans answered Saturday February 21 2009, 9:44 pm: Umm yeah... don't go to the police... the school has to handle the problem and if charges are going to be made then the law gets involved. What you should do is first tell your parents and go to the Principal, not guidance counselor with your parents together. The guidance counselor won't do anything but get your principal involved so you might as well skip that step. Just make sure you get your parents involved because things will get accomplished better that way. After things get taken care of whether it be get the teacher fired or whatever they decide, you and your friend along with your parents will have the option to press charges. The Principal of the school needs to know first though. Also, have specific phrases that he has said to either of you so you can tell everyone exactly what he has said. And try to find other students who have had the same problem. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
Lynn_lushh answered Saturday February 21 2009, 8:48 pm: i agree with the other adviser, dont go to the counselor because they aren't supposed to go against other teachers, and they definitely will not do anything about it. report it to the police instead. [ Lynn_lushh's advice column | Ask Lynn_lushh A Question ]
Myrrha answered Saturday February 21 2009, 8:04 pm: You should NOT go to your guidance counselor, you SHOULD go straight to the police. If he is hitting on girls, there is a good chance he may be having relationships with them too. He is a sick person, you need to turn him in right away. [ Myrrha's advice column | Ask Myrrha A Question ]
sjack2 answered Saturday February 21 2009, 7:18 pm: GO TO YOUR GUIDENCE COUNSLOR!!!!! No ifs and or buts! GO GO GO. If your guidence couslor dosn't do anything about it then go to someone else. Get it taken care of! [ sjack2's advice column | Ask sjack2 A Question ]
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