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okay i dont know if this goes under illnesses, but i couldnt find anything else.. Alright I have a metal allergy, and so I'm allergic to the metal in my belts and I get like a rash, but I can't not wear belts b/c i have to keep my pants up, lol (i'm in between sizes, so the 7's are too tight and the 9's are too big) and I don't know is there anything I could use so my belts like, wouldn't touch my skin or something.. and don't say just stop wearing them, cause I'm trying but theres still that rash.. :-/ ty if you can help me

It's a nickel allergy, I know because I have it myself. What you need to do is buy some clear nail polish and put that on all your belt buckles. Honestly, it really works. There's no point trying to put something between your skin and the buckle because it never works, I've tried. Your best bet is the nail polish.

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How do you REALLY make out.... I need to know...and dont say "oh its easy theres really no way to explain it just go for it...go with the flow" thats stupid and doenst help... say what you actually do...i need help!!!!!

The people who say to go with the flow are right. You will understand when you make out with someone, there is no real way. Anyhow, I like the idea of being a make out tutor:

Find somewhere comfortable where you and your partner can be alone together. Start with little kisses, no tongue, and work your way up to using your tongues. If you are a girl, and I have this feeling that you are, stroke his/her face as you kiss him, maybe run your hands through his hair. If you are a boy, then gently place your hands just up the end of your partner's top, don't go too far up straight away, just stroke around that area for a while. DO NOT USE YOUR TONGUES LIKE A WASHING MACHINE ON SPIN CYCLE. It will ruin the experience for both of you. Just go gently. Once you've got used to making out, maybe you could start to experiment a bit. If you are a girl then start to place your hands in other places, wherever feels good. If you are boy, start to take you hands a little further up his/her top, explore a little. Just do whatever is best for you and the person you are with.

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EVERYONE i know always says that your first love will always stay in your heart no matter what, etc.. Do you guys think this is true? Even after a year or longer after breaking up and gotten with new ppl and not talking at all, you think that those feelings for your first love are still there?

Well, I guess it depends on who you are. I think it's definatly possible if you were really in love with them. If you didn't really love them then maybe the feelings will fade away. I'm only 13 and I know that the feelings I have now for my boyfriend will always be there. I have had other boyfriends but I have never loved them, I don't think I'll ever think of them again.

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I am a girl and 13 and i'm obsessed with a 41 year old actor, (Johnny Depp). Is this a bad thing to want to be with a man that much older than I am?

No, that's normal as long as you keep a hold of what's reality and what's fantisy. It's okay to dream and imagine being with him but you don't start thinking that these dreams might come true. If it starts to get a hold on your life and you can't think about anything except him then maybe you need to just cut yourself off from him. Take any posters of him down, stop watching any movies he's in etc, until you stop obsessing.

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i have a new booyfriend and we are sleeping together but he always comes really quickly. is there anyway i can help him so i can enjoy sex aswel? im over 16 and at first i thought it was because it was because he was just with someone new but its all the time. help!

I heard somewhere that if you try changing positions then it can make it last longer. It's just a case of finding out which position works best for you.

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do you think its better to fit in and go agianst yur own beliefs OR to be a little ""less popular"" and do what you want to do? i am stuck in between.

It depends on whether you want to be popular or not. If you're okay with having maybe less friends than the popular people then fine, do what you want to do. If you think you are suited better to being part of a big crowd and you think that you do better with lots of friends, then maybe it's best to fit in.

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me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 9 months now and we havent had sex... it'll be 9 months on Jan.9th, and i was over his house yesterday when his parents werent home and he tryed to have sex with me, which he does all the time, and he got pretty far until i said no because his little sister was home and i didnt want her 2 walk in on us... but anyways getting to my point, should i have sex with him? plz help me im so confused, and i really dont no what i want to do either... oh just so you know im not a virgin either... and neither is he.
Love always,
*Court~*

You just answered your own question. You are confused about whether you should do it or not, so you obviously shouldn't go through with it just yet. If you really did want to then you would know for sure and you wouldn't need to post a question on it. Wait for a while until you feel completely ready and you don't have any doubts at all.

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what makes a guy get an erection and when can they start getting them?

Most guys start to get erections when they reach puberty. When they are young, they can get them at any time but most guys get them when they are turned on.

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Ok, well, I weigh 120 lbs. and I'm only 13, female. Well, I want to start all new this year, so how do I lose weight fast! I want to lose 3 pounds a day! please help me. thnx for the tips



xoxox luv always Chelsey

Ok. I hate questions like this, not to mention you don't even need to lose weight. However, I think I have an answer so what the hell I'll answer it.

Whatever you do, don't go on some crazy starvation diet. It really won't help at all, it'll make things worse. Start eating more healthily, cut back on sweets, chocolate and fatty foods. Snack on those healthy fruit and nut bars instead. Walk places instead of catching a bus or whatever. If you absolutely have to catch a bus to somewhere, then get off one or two stops earlier so you can walk the rest of the way. If you can, start going for a run once or twice a week. It doesn't have to be a long cross country type thing, just try going for a ten minute jog around your area in the morning or evening.

I'm not entirely sure if this will make you lose 3lbs a day but it will probably benefit you in the long run and is generally a healthier, better lifestyle.

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What are some really good movies to watch with friends..im 14/F?? Thanks

Titanic, School Of Rock, A Cinderella Story, Notting Hill, Mona Lisa Smile, Sweet Home Alabama, Shallow Hal, Love Actually, Bridget Jones' Diary, How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days, The Ring.

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sometimes i get forget to put deoderant on n i get mad bo so i just dont lift my arms.
any solutions?

Always keep your deodrant with you in a bag or something. That way, if you forget then you can put in on at school or wherever you are.

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hey, I'm 13/f and i might have a four or five friends over for a slumber party soon. What are some things we can do?? We LOVE comedy and we aren't very into make-up. What are some good movies we could watch?? And what activities could we do??

Get everyone to bring one or two movies and then have a movie marathon, or you could just have a vote and choose a couple to watch. If none of you have any good ones then you could rent one. Also, make sure you have lots of food, chocolate and popcorn are always good. Good movies: Love Actually, Bridget Jones' Diary 1, Notting Hill, Shallow Hal, A Cinderella Story, School Of Rock. I also have to back futurelimabean up on the hide and seek in the dark thing, it really is alot of fun.

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I'm 13/f in the 8th grade
There's this guy at my school, he's smart, funny, good looking, and mature. His friend told my friend that he liked me and I'm pretty sure he does since he treats me special and flirts with me a lot. Now I'm not really sure if I want to go out with him (I like guys with a more goth character), or I should just wait until highschool since maybe we're going to different ones. Well I believe he wont ask me out because he thinks I like this other kid (who I dont like anymore). What should I do?

Ok, I don't usually answer this type of question anymore but I'm bored so yeah. I know this is going to be hard but you're going to have to give it to him straight. Call him up/talk to him face to face/online and be totally honest with him. Tell him that you think you like him and you want to know if he feels the same. If he does, then think long and hard about whether it's worth the effort. If he knocks you back, then that's fine. You're 13 years old, it's very unlikely you're going to end up marrying this guy. I do know what it's like to be a 13 year old girl, on account that I am one. I know how you feel. So go after the guy, then move on and forget him, because the beauty of being a teenager, you can forget people that easily.

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what are signs that you are pregnant?

Here are some general signs, but it is possible to be pregnant and not have all of them: A missed period, swelling in your breasts, stomach pains, sickness, headaches and you may also get mood swings.

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MY lips get really chapped over night. What's a way to keep them smooth? dont say chap stick cuz that doesn't work for me. Thanks!

Every morning, gently brush your lips with a soft toothbrush until they are smooth. Then put some chapstick or vaseline on.

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My brother recently kissed a lesbian, and disgusting thoughts came up in my mind, so I thought I'd just ask this question...

IF A REGULAR GUY KISSES A LESBIAN, WHAT DOES THAT MAKE THE GUY?

Please answer, don't leave me in suspense!

He's still straight cause he is a boy and usually, lesbians are girls.

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I want to do more than just make out with my boyfriend, but we've just been goin to the movies so it's kinda hard to do anythin else when so many people are around. So any ideas on what we could do or what i could say that would turn him on?

Go to a movie that's been out for a while at a time when not many people will be there. Like, a movie that's been out for a month or so and go after school in the middle of the week. It's unlikely that there will be alot of people there. Also, sit in the far corner on the back row so you go pretty much unnoticed. Make sure you sit really close with him and put your head on his chest and stuff. Also, play with his hair, I do that to my boyfriend and even though he pretends he doesn't like it, it always make him get a little closer. Kiss or GENTLY nibble his neck and stroke him, guys usually love that. If you can't go to the movies, then go to either his or your house when the parents will definatly be out.

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what is a birthday suit?

Being naked. Like, when you were born I doubt you had clothes on, you were naked so that is your birthday suit.

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wat are love handles?

It is fat around your waist, woman tend to have problems with there being too much of it.

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my bf isnt excactly the cutest person in the world but i love him so much. alot of the time some of my friends that i'm not that close to always ask me questions about why im going out with him. and this girls in one of my classes always says how she would only go out with a guy if he was cute. and my bf sits right behind me in that class. he's not like ugly or anything but he's not hot either. i don't know what 2 do about it when pple tell me that i shouldnt go out with him or ask me why i am going out with him. please help........

It's great that you're not shallow. My boyfriend isn't really that hot and it doesn't bother me at all. When my friends ask why I'm with him I tell them that I like his personality. Tell the girl in your class that looks really aren't everything. And that it's much better to be treated well by a person who isn't that hot rather than be treated badly by some good looking guy. If she doesn't listen then ignore her and always reassure your boyfriend that you like him for who he is.

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