about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

hey, how did you make your background like that?..they dont have things like that on here right?

i didnt get it from here i got it from a different website. you dont have to get your background from her you can actually get it form almost anywhere. you can get it from these sites

http://www.starlightmks.com/main.html


http://www.diamondrains.com/main.php

the site that i got mine off of has been shut down so it wouldnt do you any good if i gave you the link 4 it. sorry. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hey! Well my parents are out for the day and there is absolutely NOTHING to eat. Were going on vacation tomorrow so thats why. We cleaned out our fridge. So theres nothing for lunch ! im 13 and I think I could get a pizza, but I dont know how. =/ So, can someone please answer my q's.? Thanks a ton.

- How much will it cost?
- Do I have to tip the deliverer? If so, how much?
- Can I just hand them cash ?
- How long will it take to get the pizza here?
- I have 25 dollars, is that enough for a small pizza do you think?

Please tell me everything you know. Thanks again !

it cost 7-10 dollars
yes you should tip the deliver guy like just a cople of dollars.
yes you can hand him cash
it should be there in 30-45 minutes
yes 25 dollars is enough 4 small pizza.
*~Stephanie~*

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er... well. here goes.

theres a guy I like. He goes to my school. Is in my grade, two of my classes, ect. ect.

I talk to him on AIM, we kinda talk at school, and best of all, he doesn't think I'm fat. (long story. Let's just say I wasn't eating anything and my friends are odd)

But, he knows I like him, and doesn't like me back. He's told me multiple times. (again, my friends are odd) But lately, he's been acting like I'm okay. Usually he acts like he hates me. He even IMed me first on AIM (I know its odd, but hey, I guess I blend in with my friends) which is like, a first. Ever. We've been able to talk more, and we're getting along pretty well.

The bad side is, well, I've liked him for so long, now that he's finally maybe liking me, I don't feel exactly the same. I'm in this odd stage where, I do and don't like him. I mean, he's hurt me so much, but I feel like I love him. I can't control my feelings.

So what I want to know is:
Do you think he likes me?
What should I do if he asks me out?
and
Should I take action?(ME asking him out)

I have NO idea what to do.
(13/f)

guys are weird on showing there feeling tords another girl. they sometimes try hiding it or denying it.i think he might like you but maybe he just wants to be friends wit you or i can be wrong and he wants to get to know you better be4 going out wit you. since you dont noe if you should or shouldnt go out with him then you might want to think about it. like think about the reasons of why you like him and why you dont like him. my opinon is i wouldnt go out wit a guy if he hurt so much. because if you go out with him and he breaks up with you you will be going through more pain and get hurt more then he is worth. you get me?? hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok...how the hell can i get stress out. When it is caused by my family...and im grounded for a while, so im stuck here? PLEASE help...im going crazy!

well do soemthing to get ur mind off of being stressed out. calm down relix dont rush stuff think that everything is going to be ok and that ur going to ghet through it. think positive things and positive things will happen. try this site and see if anythign it says helps you out.
http://www.mindspring.com/~wholistic/teens_stress.html

*~Stephanie~*

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whaT DO you do if u hear your parents ummm..... doing it. they're like 48 and i think its wrong. They were both making sounds and i don't want to confront either one. please help me i dont no y but it bothers me.




ill rate high for good answers

i hate that to but there sint much you can do. what i do is distract myself by doing somethign else to let me 4get about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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I am 115 lbs and 5'5'' i would like to loose 10 lbs as soon as possible without anorexia or bulimia. i hardly have anytime to go to the gym. please give me advice on how to accomplish my goal.

well if you want to lose some weight what you can do and i do this to. it doesnt matter what you eat it is how much ofit you eat. like instead of eating ur usual meal you can eat half of it.
*~Stephanie~*

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ew this think is so gay! everytime i answer a question this thing called "chatspeak" comes up and it says that i cant use "lol" or "cuz" ... because it isnt proper english? like wtf is that?! does anyone know lol!

on here it wont let you talk like you would on IMs you have to spell almost ever word out. i think it is because not all people now the kinda of words we use when we talk online. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok I broke up with my bf and from doing that my bf and his friends found me and beat me up pretty badly....i meen no broken bones but still pretty badly....so I was wonderin if he can get in like trouble 4 that because i kno like at school wen kids beat eachother up they dont get in trouble and i was wondering if this is like that...(my ex also did this to his last gf)....and is this my fault because thats how I feel..that its my fault...cuz my ex said that it was and it kind of is because im the one who chose to break up with him in the first place...and thats y he beat me up with his friends...well ya so do u think its my fault 2?

well a guy should never lay a hand on a girl no matter what happens between the guy and the girl. you should tell someone an adult the police a teacher anyone that you trust and tell them what he did to you. i know that what he did to you is herasment but i dotn know if it is sexual hersament but he can get arrest for it. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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14/f
0k, so I'm going out with this guy, and last night, he fingered me and ate me out.. He fingered me so hard that I bleed a little bit, and I was wondering, if there was any cum on his hand, like from the last time he jacked off, could I get pregnant? What are the chances?
Also, what can happen from being eaten out?

i dont think you could get pregnant because there wouldnt be enough sperm so that it could soil an egg. you are going to be ok dont worry about. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey, i wanted to get a job at walmart after i turn 15 in december.. does anyone know what age they start hiring at?

thanks a bunch

well soem stores start hiring at 15 but i think walmart starts hiring at 16.
*~Stephanie~*

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my brother is 17 and he just came out. i mean he told us he was gay. im shocked and i dont know what to do because me and him are close but i feel okward now. im having a hard time accepting this. what do i do?

ok well you cant do anything about it you need to learn to accept it. that is what you think about being gay but you noe a lot of people in this world these day are gay and we cant do anything about it but accept it. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok im really confused and i REALLLLY like matt ((hes this guy that i goes to the place where i dance and hes always my partner))...but i kinda like Max and MarC ((which are like my BESTEST guy friends)) and like they all like me and i like dunno what to do..if enyone has adive PLEASE HELP..cuz i dont wanna hurt enyones feelings!

well if i where you and i didnt want to hurt any of those guys feelings then i wouldnt choice any of them. i would find someone else so then they wouldnt get as hurt as if you choice one of them. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok well the other day i was at a party and this girl i had just met started coming on to me and when she wanted to have oral sex i backed out but i think i regret itt
im seeing her next weekend what should i do

well if you want her to do it then this time you might want to make the first move because you backed out the first time and she probably thinks you will back out the second time. if you dont want her to do it tell her that you dont want to do it.
*~Stephanie~*

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does anyone think its bad to bring your bible to school or stuff like that? I mean my friend does and i want to but am scared someone might hurt me because of it! but i really LOVE god and want to like spread him with people but am scared to! thanks!

i would do ti if i where you. it shouldnt matter what other people say. plus if they say anything about you dont take it serious because God is the only person that should be able to judge you and he will always be watching over you. try talking to your friends abotu God and telling them stuff about him and maybe they will get interested and will love God like you do. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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well tomorrow i'm going to the doctors for a check up and i'm 14/f and last time i went they looked down my pants and i think its VERY preverted! ( is that normal for most doctors to do?) is there a way i can stop them??

signed: grossed out

well i had to go through the same thing and i 4got what the doctor told me it was. but when i did mine i was 13 and they questioned me about it and looked down my pants to.. i had a male doctor and he sent me to a female doctor to do that kind of check up. i dotn think there is a way because they r checkin that you are healthy "down there". hope this ehlps.
*~Stephanie~*

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this guy found me on myspace and said i was really cute. hes really cute too and he said he just moved to my city. and he told me where he lived by and its really close to me. well he was like can i do a mapquest? cause im not sure how close u live. i wasnt thinking and i gave him my address and stuff for mapquest. now hes always like we should hangout and stuff. and hes like just turned 18. and he always talks about how much he drinks..and smokes...and i dont know im worried. what if he like comes to my house or something?.....

well if i where u i would be scared to that is why you shouldnt give ou information like that online.you should block him and not talk to him anymore. i mean you never noe if he is a rapper or what if that picture isnt him it was a friend or soemthing. you know. try not to talk to him if he is scaring you.
*~Stephanie~*

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if you pop a cherry, will u be pregnate?

well it depends how it got popped. i mean there r many ways that you can pop it. the only way you can get pregrant is to have sex and if you have unprotected sex and your cherry pops then yes you can get pregnant.
*~Stephanie~*

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Im wondering if my period should be coming soon. I've done some reading and I found out that I have most of the "signals" *Pubic hair, boobs are growing, growth spurt, underarm hair, discharge etc.* But its been this way for almost a month and nothing coming? Should it be coming soon? *Btw im 13*

yes it should come soon. but dont worry about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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I'm girl thats 14 and going into 9th grade, but I'm dating a guy thats almost 17 and going into 11th grade. A couple days ago he told me that before he met me, he made out with pretty much all his friends that are girls, and he misses that because he doesn't see me everyday so hes tempted to do things with them. He asked me if it would be ok if he did stuff with them. and still did things with me too, in other words, have friends with bennefits instead of a relationship. I said no because I didnt want to be his piece of ass, so I told him it was over. Now hes asking me to take him back, and I know I shouldnt but deep down I really want to be with him. what do I do!?

dont take him back. he isnt worth it.
*~Stephanie~*

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is it bad if your a porn addict

i think it is. i mean what do you do all day watch it. you need to get your mind off of that and try not to be so into it.. leave the porn alone and go hang out wit your friends.
*~Stephanie~*

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