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PLEASE HELP!


Question Posted Tuesday July 5 2005, 9:22 pm

ok im really confused and i REALLLLY like matt ((hes this guy that i goes to the place where i dance and hes always my partner))...but i kinda like Max and MarC ((which are like my BESTEST guy friends)) and like they all like me and i like dunno what to do..if enyone has adive PLEASE HELP..cuz i dont wanna hurt enyones feelings!

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Additional info, added Tuesday July 5 2005, 9:37 pm:
((Also..the thing is matt lives one state away and im kinda worried about the distance even though i'd see him every week)) ((I RATE HIGH!)).

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 12:48 pm:
well if i where you and i didnt want to hurt any of those guys feelings then i wouldnt choice any of them. i would find someone else so then they wouldnt get as hurt as if you choice one of them. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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chelly answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 12:37 pm:
Girl come on. Let me tell what you are going to cause.
Well they are best friends so thats one bad thing. Lets say that you pick one guy over the other one. (You say they both Like you) They are get into a fight and in the end they are both going to stop liking you and you are going to be with no man.
So its just best to have them as friends.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~chelly~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

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rockstarxlove answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 12:34 pm:
well i was going to say that you should choose matt, but then i read your additional info. and now i think thats not such a good idea. well you dont want to hurt any of your guy friends either, so that kind of sucks. because if you choose one of them you might hurt the other one. so, im thinkin just see whoever asks you out first because if they like you, they will, right? or think of which one you like more or which one would be a better boyfriend or whatever. and if you do really like matt, give that a shot, even if hes kind of far away!

hope this helped a little, good luck! *

♥ nicole

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X_Amanda_X answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 12:18 pm:
Well..hmm..If they all like you, and you like them..hmm...Well which ever guy likes you the most will probably ask you out first.

I know this wasn't well thought out but I hope this helped lol

X_Amanda_X

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Rebecca answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 12:04 pm:
Go for the one who is not your best friends. You will have lots of boyfriends - and good friends last a lot longer than boyfriends in middle and high school. Do a gut check and see which one you REALLY like - and if it is one of your best friends - tell them. Just be sure before you put a twist in a relationship.

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AcH428 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 11:45 am:
well..go for the guy that you think u like most. they should understand. if it doesnt work out with one of them then you could move on to another. they wont feel bad. if they like you as much as u say they do, then they'll get it.

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jcsgrlthe1st answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 11:23 am:
the only thing i can say is listen to your heart...weigh them out wiht pros and cons...
hah hope i helped girl!
♥BLAiR

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crazyoutyamind answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 11:18 am:
if you thinking about going out with any of them you need to find the guy who you like the best takes care of you more (gives you stuff!) you gotta have that in a guy and who is the cuttest oh yeah see wich one is more muture (sp?) and just tell the other guys that you dont like them more than friends and thats excatly what you want to be and plz not be mad at you well i hope i helped and if you have ne more questions just drop em in my inbox good luck!

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KATAxTHExADViCEgURL answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 8:38 am:
i think that you should give matt a shot. to be dating your best guy friend is kinda.. weird?!.. you said it yourself, that you REALLLLY like Matt, but you kinda like Max and Marc. I say give Matt a shot, and if things don`t seem to work out between you, wait a couple of months, and maybe try Max or Marc!? oo.. well, if Matt lives one state away.. it could possibly be a problem, like you said the long distance thing, i`m not so sure if it could work either. Well like i said before, just give matt a shot first, and if you might start to feel that it`s really not working at all, then your gunna have to dump him.

hope this helps!
xo0x- Kata

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goodiez531 answered Wednesday July 6 2005, 8:37 am:
i would say go with matt, because the other two are your best guy friends and you dont want to ruin that relationship with them..hope it helsp :)

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Teza answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 9:33 pm:
WE REALLY CANT TELL YOU WH0 YOU SHOULD PICK.. BUT ii`LL GIVE YOU MY 0PINION. I THINK YOU SH0ULD GIVE MATT A CHANCE. I HONESTLY D0NT THINK DATING YOUR BEST GUY FRIEND IS A GOOD IDEA. ii MEAN IF YOU BREAK UP THEN THINGS WILL DEFENETLLY BE WEIRD BETWEEN Y0U! GET T0 KNOW MATT MORE. YOU DONT HAVE TO TAKE MY ADVICE IF YOU DONT WANT BUT ITS YOUR LIFE AND ITS UP TO YOU! HOPE YOU MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE! =) [[ ♥ ]]

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Irishdude405 answered Tuesday July 5 2005, 9:28 pm:
Listen to your heart and find out who you like more. it seems like you like matt more and if you do u deffinitly need to go for it. you go to the dances with him and u have fun and Max and Marc sound just like crushes now go with matt and if things dont work out then look into max and marc maybe.

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