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i want to make a website filled with quotes so if you have any favorite quotes or lessons that you could give me, that would be great.

Here are some links to some sites where you will be able to find everything you are looking for.

http://www.firehotquotes.com
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http://www.quoteland.com
http://www.brainyquote.com
http://www.lovepoemsandquotes.com
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http://www.amusingquotes.com
http://www.goodquotes.com
http://www.coolquotescollection.com

If you can't find anything good there then I give up.

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does it mean someone is gothic if all they wear is black? and they dyed their hair pitch black?? thanks

There is a difference between someone being a true goth and someone being gothic. If someone is gothic then they will probably wear dark colours and may dye their hair. A true goth is part of a religion. I don't know anything about the actual religion but you could research it if you are interested.

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My sister has really bad cramps! Does any one know some quick fixes. She has already had motrain if that helps! Thanks!!

Get her to do some stretching. Honestly, it helps to do some mild excercise or stretches. She can also take a warm bath and have a hot water bottle. If painkillers are available then she should take one or two of those as well every four hours or so as that will definitely help.

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if my boyfriend touched his dick(no cum) and then fingered me, is there a chance that i can get pregnet? Thanks!

Even a tiny amount of cum that can't be seen can get you pregnant. If you are 100% sure that there was no cum involved then you can't be pregnant.

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How do you break up with a girl without her geting upset?

The chances are, if she cares about the relationship then she will get upset anyway. Just be truthful and to the point.

Do not do it when you are with other people, she will get embarassed and it isn't fair on her. Make sure you are alone.

Always do it face to face. Never ever under any circumstances do it via text message, it sucks. Do not say "This relationship isn't working it's not you it's me we can still be friends." Be truthful and completely honest about what's gone wrong and whether or not you can be friends. She will appreciate your honesty and sensitivity, even if she is upset.

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What is a friend with benefits?

Basically a friend who you do sexual things with. Like a friend who you may kiss or have casual sex with every now and again with no strings attached.

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I feel like my life can't get any lower. Everything I was good at I am no longer good at. No matter how hard I try people are always a lot better. My grades are slipping and nothing I do makes me happy. I hate my life and I just want to stay in my room and be alone forever. What do I do?

I know exactly how you feel. You didn't say your age but a lot of teenagers go through what you're feeling as they grow up. You probably feel alone and like no one else knows how you feel but honestly, it is just a phase. I am a lot like you and I find that whenever I feel this way I just have to speak to my friends. Try and find the thing that makes you happy, for me it's my friends but for you it could be something different. Concentrate on that thing and try to improve everything else, as long as you hang on to that thing that makes you happy you will be okay. It sounds strange but honestly, to me my friends are my life line, find yours and you will be fine.

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okay i kno im kind of stupid but is there any way to make your boobs get bigger? like exercise or anything.. and does sex hurt.. becuz im having urges to have sex.. but im afraid of getting like hurt and stuff.. HELP~! lol thanks a whooole bunch

Unfortunately there are no excercises that can make your boobs bigger. Once they are fully grown then you can get surgery if you really want but you cannot speed up the growing process.

Sex can hurt for the first time but it shouldn't after a while.

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when you shave down there do you shave it all off? sorrii im kinda dumb but please help

You can shave off however much you feel comfortable with. It's probably best if you just go for it and shave all the hair off but if you want to leave a bit then that's fine.

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ok i have this friend and well he rlly wants to loose his virginity cause he feels weird at his age...(peer presure) and so he asked me if i would do it with him...im scared of wht ppl wouldthink (ive alraeady lost mine)...but i dnt wanna sound like a slut or anything
pleasee help me!! thnks!!

No. That is the worst idea ever. For one he only wants to lose it because of peer pressure and secondly, you shouldn't sleep with someone unless you are in a stable relationship with them and you love them. People wouldn't think very highly of you that's for sure, definitely don't do it. Tell him to wait until he's in a good loving relationship.

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Hey you guys.
I Just wanted to know what is the diffence between Oral sex and "real sex" jw.
:-)

Oral sex is when you use your mouth on your partner's sexual organs. 'Real sex' is when the guy's penis enters the vagina.

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breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?

OR

still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?

OR

what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help!

It would be horribly unfair to him to carry on with him just because you don't want to hurt him. It will hurt him more when he finds out that you've been stringing him along. Break up with him and be completely and totally honest with him about your reasons for doing it. I have been crying and depressed for months because my boyfriend broke up with me and started messing me around, saying he liked me again and stuff. He is allowed to be hurt, he will cry for a while but he will get over it. Everything in life mends, even broken hearts. Play it cool with his best friend for a while, I don't suggest running straight to him once you have broken up with your boyfriend. I have done that and it's not something I'm proud of. Leave it for a week or so then take things slowly, remember to be completely honest with him.

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Are you supposed to wear a bra under a cami? Im not very big....like kinda flat...Thanks

It's up to you but it's probably best if you do. You might want to wear a strapless or clear strapped one so that it is less obvious.

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my friends told me they have started to frig themselves but i havent and i feel as though im the only 1 who hasnt am i different? i dont no how to do it though and were your ment 2 put your fingers? can you help me in any way at all??

If you're looking for a masturbation manuel then you've come to the wrong person. I can't tell you how to do it, everyone is different. There are many websites on masturbation that you can go to if you want, just use a search engine. It's basically just a case of trial and error, experiment with yourself to find out what you think feels good. It's okay if you don't want to do it, don't feel pressured because your friends are doing it. It's a personal decision, you don't have to do it if you don't want to.

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Im 14, and i havent actually been on a date. I filrtquite a bit. Is this abnormal?

No, that's perfectly normal. You probably just haven't found anyone you really like who likes you back yet. Have fun, flirt and enjoy being single. There is plenty of time later on in life to date.

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Is it true that your boobs stop growing 2 years after you got your period?

No. Your boobs stop growing when they are ready. There is no set time when they stop although most girl's breasts stop at about age sixteen.

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here it goes- i am 14 years old, and i still havent gotten my period.. is that a bad thing? or is it normal? please help!

Some people don't get their period until as late as nineteen. It's fine, you might just be a late starter. You don't want it anyway, trust me.

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I have just shaved my pussy, and it didnt shave all off. Now it has been a day after and I have red bumbs and its sort of itchy. I dont know if I should continue or not. And if I dont will the hair grow back normaly or will it be thicker and darker. I tried shaving it because my best friend a guy told me that its disgusting if I dont and that he has fingered a girl with hair and he didnt like it and that all of his friends agree. Even though I dont want to do it just because he told me to, I am self consious and dont know if its normal or not. I also want to know like I havent made out with a guy i mean they have tried but i just turn away i told my friends that I have because they are more expierneced then me and I thought they would judge me if I hadnt. And now when i have a boyfriend im nervous cause i dont know how to and they do. What should I do about the situation, can you please help me!?!?

The red bumps are just razor burn. Make sure you put plenty of body lotion on it regularly and it will get better. I think you should continue with it because it does get better the more times you do it. As for the thing about the hair growing back thicker and darker, it is a myth. The hair grows back with a blunt edge which makes it stubbly but it wont be thicker or darker.

As for the making out thing. Don't worry about it. You just have to relax and it will be fine. When you're ready it will come naturally. If you have turned away in the past, you probably weren't ready.

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ok well theres this kid i like, and i just realized i like him, and he hasnt been picking up his phone and he hasnt been online, and i miss him so much, and it really got to me last night because i almost started crying, and its depressing me because i havent talked to him yet.

Hmm, this is always tricky and I know how you feel, I've been there, believe me. Keep trying to get in touch with him, maybe you could try organising a big get together with friends and invite him along. It's always a bad idea to let a crush or boyfriend take over you life and get you down because it WILL depress you. Keep trying to talk to him but don't let it get you down if you can't. Go out with friends, have fun and try to get your mind off him. He honestly isn't everything, I've let guys I like and boyfriends take over my life and all it does is get you down. I know this isn't what you want to hear but what you want isn't always the best thing you can do.

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Why is it that when i masterbate sometimes i get this reallyyy good feeling down there and i like cant catch my breath for a minute becuase it feels so good? i know it sounds stupid but i always get it and i dont know why!

It's just an orgasm. If you click on the link below it will take you to a question I answered the other week about what an orgasm is and why you get it.

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=277098

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