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Ok well me n my bf have been goin out for 10 months today!!!!!!!!!! and i love him to death!!! well n e wayz his birthday iz in october and so iz our 1 year anniversary so i wanna get him a shirt and a CD for his birthday but wat should i do for our 1 year???? (link)
find out wat they really like. show them that u really care about them by knowing wat they like. i'm not saying get them something SUPER expensive. but give them something u put a lot of thought into.

~Reenie~


Im goin out with a guy who is 2 years older than me and he lives an hour away and we can never see each other and our parents don't approve of the relationship.He can drive on his own in January so then we'll be able to see each other but as of right now we can't and well im not really sure if i should stay with cuz well shouldn't relationship partners be able to see each other at least once a week?or at least once every 2 weeks?Anyways there is this guy who lives in the same town as me and is only 15 minutes away and he really likes me and i kinda like him and well im not sure if i should dump the other guy and go out with this one or stay with the other one.Anyways I really need help so plz offer as much advice as possible...thanks....

Boys are very Confusing :( (link)
i say this advice A LOT but get to kno the guy u live near see if this relasionship could go anywhere. i'm not saying go out with this guy but become friends and see wat happens.

~Reenie~


My best friend and I are like sisters. We've been through everything together. Last night though we were at our other friends house. We talked about school and stuff but then out of no where, my best friend said that she has had sex with her boyfriend of 2 years. It came to a shock to me cause first of all she is only 14 and then second she didnt use protection. My other friend though said it was no big deal since she has been dating him for 2 years. I dont know what to say to my best friend. i really need some help cause i don't want anythin bad to happen to her. (link)
tell her how u feel. even if they have been going out for 2 years having unprotected sex isn't cool. having ANY sex isn't cool at 14. tell her wat can happen if she does that it only takes 1 time to become pregnant and no 14 year old should have to deal with that.

~Reenie~


Ok there is a guy a like aand he thinks I'm cute and he and his friend asked if my friend and I wanted to go swimming and we said yes. But should I change my mind? I'm scared because what I fall or trip or something.


Sincerely,
CameronLover1 (link)
go 4 it! stop thinking of all the bad things that can happen and start thinking about the good. besides if u don't go he might meet someone else he thinks is cute. hope i helped!

~Reenie~


My two friends and I were in a chat room and one of my friends says, 'OMG! I got your email! Don't tell *Katie (me)* though" to my other friend. I hate it when people talk like that. I asked my other friend what it was about and she said nothing. What should I say/do? (link)
that happens to me ALL the time and i HATE it! all u can really do is tell them they shouldn't do that unless they r going to tell u about it.

~Reenie~


ok i am a freshman, and september 17 is my homecoming dance. well all of my friends are always talking about their really pretty dresses and then my om was like oh u can stay at home with mom. i dont know if she was serious or not. and even if she wasnt she would prolly make me go in a skirt that i already and wore to school and stuff like that bcuz she is like a really sporty mom and she doesnt like getting dressed up all the time, so how do i ask her like if i can go, and if i can get a dress n' stuff like that? (link)
just tell her how much this means to u. and if she can't afford a nice dress try to do some babysitting or chores around the house. Hope it works out!

~Reenie~


ok, in school theres cross country and track. track is going to be in the spring. but i want to get fit for cross country. im a great runner but i want to know more thins. if you are a runner please give me tips on ANYTHING! thanx so much (link)
even though i am NOT a runner one of my family members is a really good one. see they had asthma but they didn't let that happen. all they did was run a little bit everyday and tried to increase how far they ran. do lots of stretching, ESPECIALLY in ur legs. well that's all i got, hope it helped a little!

~Reenie~


me and my boyfriend have been together for 15 months now. I'm 16 and he's 17. He's gonna be a senior this year and im gonna be a junior. We're in love so much, it scares me and even makes me cry sometimes. I'm so afraid of losing him when he goes off to college. is it abnormal to be feeling these feelings now? I would love to spend the rest of my life with him. We even talk about it sometimes. I tell myself "if it's love, it'll all work out" Yet i still think about it. I love him so much and would like die if we broke up lol. not really but u get what im saying. Is it wrong to feel like this so early? (link)
NO WAY!!! no matter how old u r u can be in love.
my only advice is don't rush anything, make sure ur feelings r absolutely real and pure.

~Reenie~


yesterday i told *him* i liked him. after i was finished talking, *he* said "cool." then nothing happened, and i had to go to the bus. ok, yeah, so my question to you is...how, on monday, can i bring this up again with him without sounding awkward/pathetic/desperate. he's my friend, i have lunch with him, and he rides my bus, if that helps. (link)
Just say "i didn't mean to put u in an awkward position and i don't want to now but wat do u think about it"
Hope it works out!!!

~Reenie~


ok i like this guy, really really awesome guy. hes perfect! the only thing is that he likes my friend. and he doesnt seem to want to get over her anytime soon. should i get over him or wait untill he sees that im the one for me. i even made a poem:
why cant u let it be
that ur the one for me
stop liking that gurl,
its like wanting to kiss a squirrel
hah
can u give me adive????????? thank you! (link)
well, i think u should try to be friends with him first. Be there 4 him maybe that will show him what a caring person u r. So even if he doesn't end up likeing u he might want to spend more time with u.


ok well this is kinda long but ok..ever since i was little i fell in love with gymnastics, i was about 6 when i saw the olympics and was just amazed by it. i used 2 sit and do cartwheels in my livingroom and stuff. well i beged my parents 2 let me join gymnastics and they never did...about a year and a half ago they finally let me take a summer session but i didnt learn much..now the olympics are on tv and i dont no it bothers me alot that its liek my dream will never come tru and it makes me mad at my parents, i feel like they never encouraged me at all and it may sound stupid but i dont now hat 2 do 2 get rid of this feeling, and i just feel liek im not good at ne thing anymroe, please help (link)
well maybe u should look up different places that have year long sessions and learn EVERYTHING u can about them. Then tell ur parents about everything u learned and what's the best deal. And see if they change their mind. And if they don't ask them if they can give u some of the money and u'll earn the rest to pay for the lessons. If u LOVE gymnastics and ur willing to do that maybe they'll support u more! Or u could also see if anyone u no takes gymnastics and see if they will teach u some stuff. Then show ur parents wat u learned!


I'm in love with a guy I never even met but I talk to him on MSN and he's so sweet and everything he lives like 10 hours away and I don't know I live in Ontario he lives in Calgary and I'm so in love I can't help my self he's sweet and like yeah feels like I know him it's been 2 years almost since I first met him on Chat Rooms...ne suggestions?...and why do I always fall for the guys I never met and never will? (link)
ok. i think u fall 4 them cuz u don't no anything that they have REALLY done. they could have done really bad things and u don't no about it. It could be some 50 year old guy saying he's 17 and u couldn't tell if he was lying. Iternet dating is SO dangerous so my advice is BE CAREFUL!


Hey...im a girl and im addicted to masturbating. i do it whenever i can with whatever i can. if my parents found out they'd kill me. but...i was wondering 2 thins
1) can your cherry pop when you're masturbating?
2)if you masturbate too much, can it make you sterile and not able to have babies?

Im so scared of these two things...but im so addicted...help me! (link)
1. Quite probably. It can also "pop" doing countless other things, like hurdles or horse riding.
2. No.


me n this girl did it n i think i might like her n idk what to do because i dont really wanna girlfriend (link)
you just said "did it". dude your way to young to be doing "it".


What are some good ways to get stronger so it's easier to do back-handsprings??? I can do them with a spotter but then when I try doing them by myself, I land on my head all the time. Help me please!!!
Signed,
Need More Strength (link)
back hand springs arent all about strength you need to perfect your form, just because your weak doesnt mean you should land on your head, you should always land on you hands. if your doing it right that is, you might just be nervous and your not following through like your supposed to, to gain strengs for a hand spring for your arms, bench press, do it all the time, at least 40 lifts a day, not all at once though. for your legs, run or use a trampoline.


im in 8th grade and ive never had a boyfriend or been kissed. im really pretty (every1 sez so atleast) and idk whats wrong with me! im always smiling and happy and im really funny and goofy..whats wrong with this picture? (link)
mabey you need to ask a dude out, you dont have to wait for him, its actually cooler is you ask.


Everytime I try to upload a pic of me to my colum.. it tells me it is more than 15K so it couldnt be uploaded. How can i tell if the pic is 15K or not?

PS.. i use Paint or Photoshop for my pics

(link)
Ctrl + Shift + Alt + S in Photoshop to select "Save for Web". Mess with the "Quality" slider in the jpeg section until the file size is under 15kb.

If the image is too big size-wise, choose Image -> Image Size to reduce it.


I just bought a new laptop. And I was just wondering about connecting to the internet.

At my house we have cable and a router so it's no problem there but the house I work at has cable but no router I was wondering if there was a way to use their connection without changing their wires around. If anyone could tell me that or anything else helpful since I know nothing that would be great. (link)
Depends on how the cable modem connects. A lot of them are ethernet, which means you just use the same cable as you would with the router.


theres this boy i love nd wen we broke up we didnt tal as much liike we really care for eachother the break up wasnt supposed to happen ndw e really like eachotther nd hed tell me hed call me bac but he wouldnt he would wait like a month nd i kno its kinda stupid but should i call him .. or not
help even thought its stupid .. (link)
why wouldnt you call him. you have a phone too. girls need to take more responsibility in a relationship. not just always waiting for him to call or to ask you out, you have to ability to do all these things too.


How can a girl ask a guy out, without coming on too strong? How would a guy react if he kinda likes the girl, like if the girl notices him checking her out all teh time and winking and ahving little side convos. whats a good way to ask him out?
thanks...i rate high** (link)
just talk to them and call him and whatnot, be cool and just ask him out the way a dude asks you out, its the same question with the same meaning, dudes like it better when girls ask them out. its not wrong or slutty, its awsome.




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