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My best friend
My best friend and I are like sisters. We've been through everything together. Last night though we were at our other friends house. We talked about school and stuff but then out of no where, my best friend said that she has had sex with her boyfriend of 2 years. It came to a shock to me cause first of all she is only 14 and then second she didnt use protection. My other friend though said it was no big deal since she has been dating him for 2 years. I dont know what to say to my best friend. i really need some help cause i don't want anythin bad to happen to her.
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hi im not telling u to lose your best friends trust but something serious like that u might have to tell an adult because not only is she only 14 but she did not use a condom she can be pregnat or have aids now or std's all sorts of stuff and she needs to get checkec out my a docter or something i hope this helps but just try talking to her first
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In my opinion, 14 is kind of young to be having sex + whatnot, but whatever floats your boat, I guess. Just tell her to make sure to use a condom from now on, because NOBODY should be getting pregnant at 14.
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well just sit down wid her alone and talk to her and tell her that ur there for her. and remind her of her age and the consequences pregnancy,stds.....
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tell her to use some fucking protection!!!! omg .... just ask her if she really wants a kid at 14
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teller to use a frikin condom next time!
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woah sex at 14? well when did she have sex? was it like a while ago or just like the other night? if it was just the other night wait to see if she gets her period or whatever. if she doesn't call a planned parenthood thing. i don't think they show up on phone bills. anyway, if it was a while ago and if no signs appear she prob not pregnant... but theres always the threat of stds. tell her to go to a gynocylist in the mean time
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i think you should express to her if she does prefer to have sex she needs to use protection. it doesnt matter how long they have been together. becasue just becasue they have been together for so long doesnt mean he doesnt have an std or doesnt mean that she wont get pregnate and the pull out method is not that effective.
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dont worry, i think its cute that u care but its between her and her boyfriend... as long as shes not pressuring u to have sex then its all good. just tell her to be safe and wear the rubber! or get the pill or sumtin... better safe then sorry
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Well, if you and your bestfriend is close then you should definitely be able to tell her how you feel without her getting upset. Just don't nag at her. Let her know some of the consequences in having sex without protection meaning let her know about pregnancy and std's and such. Also, let her know that you're there for her. If she wants somebody to go with her to be tested then be there. I hope this helps and good luck!
Crystal
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tell her how u feel. even if they have been going out for 2 years having unprotected sex isn't cool. having ANY sex isn't cool at 14. tell her wat can happen if she does that it only takes 1 time to become pregnant and no 14 year old should have to deal with that.
~Reenie~
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well she made a choice and theres nothing u can do, wats done is done. im not saying it was a good choice but its not bad either. it was tho that she didnt use protection. its not really uncommon for kids at the age of 14 or 15 2 have sex tho.
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it seems liek you really care about your friend.I tihn you should let her knwo that you really care about her and want her to use protection because you dont want anything bad to happen to her.Basically just sit her down and tell her what your feeling.
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Well, I understand you don`t want anything bad happening to her, but it also is her life. If you really want to talk to her, just tell her, listen I know your like in love with him but at 14 you should deffinitly be using protection!! Tell her that you really care about her and dont want her to get hurt or anything...If she gets mad, tell her your sorry for that you just needed to get it off your chest!! =)
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*Well, tell her how you feel about it since ya'll are like "sisters". Also remind her she needs to use protection unless she wants to have a baby.*
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