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Secrets
My two friends and I were in a chat room and one of my friends says, 'OMG! I got your email! Don't tell *Katie (me)* though" to my other friend. I hate it when people talk like that. I asked my other friend what it was about and she said nothing. What should I say/do?
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that happens to me ALL the time and i HATE it! all u can really do is tell them they shouldn't do that unless they r going to tell u about it.
~Reenie~
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Tell your friend that you feel like you should know. It makes you sad that they won't tell you. Because it most likely is about you. Just tell them that and maybe they'll feel bad about doing it.
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let her know it bothers you and comfront that friend that said that and tell her how you feel and ask her how she'd feel if that happaned to her if u did that
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Your friends shouldnt be keeping things from you..When theres an uneven amount of friends in a group theres always an odd ball! I mean sometimes do you n your 1 friend talk about the other gurl?you know you do! Maybe it was nothing bad, maybe they are doin something nice for you? Talk about it!Get to the bottom of it! Thanks for the question! If they are talkin about you then chances are they arent real friends anyway! :*:SaRa:*:
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Well obviousley it must of been a secret about you. I think you should tell your two friends: remember the other night we were in the chat room and you said not to tell Katie (me), what was that about? And why would you write that in front of my eyes if you dont want me to know. And just say " I was just wondering and please just tell me" Thanks for the Q!
-*ScoobyGirl80
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Whenever you get a chance to talk to them again, ask them one more time about the e-mail. if they don't say what it is, then tell them that you hate it when people talk behind your back and keep secrets fro you like that. Friends tell each other everything. Hint: If they are really suspicious about it and if your birthday is coming up soon, they might be planning it. Oops, I didn't say anything. SHHH!! other than that, tell them that it really hurts and you want to know what is going on. Also, If you want to, you can meantion that you were in the chat room an read everything.
**[Ania]**
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you should say "is our friendship worth an email?" and if they say yes then you should say "well then why wont you tell me what it says?" and if they say no then you should say well then in that case i dont think we should be friends. if they are a very good friend they wouldnt keep things from you. that is wrong.
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you should tell them that you dont want them saying things liek that infront of you unless they are going to tell you what its about. any questions feel free to ask or IM me in JustASweetKiss76
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Katie,
in my opinion i think that you should tell your friends how you feel about them keeping things from you, and/or tell them not to talk about things infront of you if they dont want you to know..b/c that is rude..
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i hopei helped you a little bit..
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Well katie.. ive been caught in situations like those and it could mean alot of different things. If your friends arent willing to tell you what the email was about then obviously something is wrong and you should confront them both about it. If they deny tell them how suspicious it is and that if it happened to them they would think the same thing. It could be a joke though cuz she knew u were in the chat.. i dont know try doing that and see what happens.
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well i don't think that is kool that ur friends know that ur in the chat room and they want to tell there own secrets i say u need to ask both of them why you couldn't know and if they say they don't trush u be like what have i ever done to you i always tell ya'll everything and make them feel bad and they will tell you later ok hope that was good bye<3
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ok well i think you shuld talk to yur friendz about it and just confront them and ask them why they feel they have to keep thingz from yu ..or just dont even let it bother yu..if they were yur tru friendz then they wuld trust yu..but then again maybe yu did sumthing to lead them to not trusting yu??
if yu need anything else, feel free to ask!!
lOvE alwAyz, aSh*
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Ask your friends why they do this to you. If they were really your friends, they would know that this makes you a little bit upset and they would stop doing this to you. Hope I helped :)
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well you should just like ask your "friends" why they do that. if they really are your friends, then they would know that you dont like it when they do that and they will stop... but like if they tell you to get over it.. then it sounds like they arent good friends..
xxjoolsxx
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