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homecoming
ok i am a freshman, and september 17 is my homecoming dance. well all of my friends are always talking about their really pretty dresses and then my om was like oh u can stay at home with mom. i dont know if she was serious or not. and even if she wasnt she would prolly make me go in a skirt that i already and wore to school and stuff like that bcuz she is like a really sporty mom and she doesnt like getting dressed up all the time, so how do i ask her like if i can go, and if i can get a dress n' stuff like that?
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well i think yu shuld just go up to her and say "mom, do yu think i shuld go to the homecoming dance??"(that way it wont hurt her feelingz if she wantd yu to stay home with her and that way it will also let her kno that yu want HER opinion and her help..) ...and then jus say "well my friendz are goin so i figured i shuld jus go ..it mite be fun.." and then for the dress part .. jus say to her "mom i saw this really pretty dress at (wutever store yu looked in and saw a dress yu liked ) ...can i get it for the homecoming dance??" and then if she sayz 'jus wear a skirt yu have now' jus say "yeh but this is an important dance and i wana have pictures from it and stuff that i can save so wen im older ill have memoryz and look good in my pix" ...
lemme kno if yu need more help!!
-ash
good luck !!!!!
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okay first off u need to pull her aside and say hey mom homcoming is coming up and i was wondering if i could go? if she says no make sure she gives u the reason why. For your outfit... ask her to take u to the mall and look around and if she cant ask one of ur friends... or make ur own outfit and be creative =-)
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just tell her its your first dance of the year and you really wanna go. and as fr the dress situation tell her its a really casual and dressy dance. and its your dance and not hers so you want to look nice with a really pretty dress. good luck. hope that helps a little.
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Just explain to her how important to you it is. After all it is your first high school dance. And if money is an issue for buying the dress and what not, tell her you'll work for it with chores, or babysit, or something. I think she should understand. Hope it helps =) *amber*
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just tell her how much this means to u. and if she can't afford a nice dress try to do some babysitting or chores around the house. Hope it works out!
~Reenie~
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hey..have a daughter to mom talk and tell her how much you really want to go. If your mom says she doesnt want you going because she cant afford a nice dress ..then offer to babysit the neighbors kids or something to make money. She`ll appreciate your responsibility and hardwork.
If trust is the reason why she wants you home..tell her these are your highschool memories and you dont want to miss out..promise you`ll be safe.
Hope u convince her! :)
-melissa-
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Talk to her one on one....no friends because that puts pressure on her, tell her it means a lot to you and you really want to go...tell her this is a one time chance this year and you promise to stay safe!
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