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I have this Guy that I think I really Love, But how do I dump him without the guit. I mean this guy only wants me for my body and i'm 14, I am not ready for all of this . Someone Please Help me! (link)
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you really should express your feelings and tell him how you feel if you are worried about breaking up with him and worried about the guilt just tell him no means no and give him a second chance if he still only wants you for your body then just tell him its over, you should say this,
"This relationship is really not getting anywhere, you only want me for my body and you dont appreciate my personallity. Wearan not put up with someone who only wants one thing and that is sex."
that should actually make you feel better those are the exact words i said to my last bf who only wanted me to have sex with me and to touch me and I feel great tthose words will make you feel good and secure, youll feel more safe also. it will be lifting your burden, hope that helps
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Im 20 years old and I want my boobs bigger without the surgury..any wayy i can??? (link)
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tone your upper body or massage your breasts they will enlargn in time also maybe try taking a pill
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i really wanna have an orgasm.. i like masturbating with my clitoris but im not sure if what i feel is an orgasm can someone tell me how to get one (link)
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you can get one by having someone rub your clit gently, make sure it is not dry, your clit will swell meaning you obviously will have an orgasm. but this usually leads to sex and if your not ready dont
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What are some cute nicknames for your boyfriend? (link)
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casanova, shnookims, sweetie, stud, pubelle, cherub, baby cakes, hottie
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So last Saturday me and this guy had sex, wasn't the first time I had with him but we were drunk. well he busted but I didnt realize and the condom broke after, inside of me. oh I'm 15... what are the chance that i got pregnant I got off my period not that long ago... but just i dont know what to do ! (link)
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you should inform a doctor or just plainly have a pregnancy test done also you have very high chances that you could be pregnant, so make sure you give the guy consent, tell him what is going on and how you feel, you may not know for sure unless you get a test done
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19/female. this might be longer, so i will return the favor to anyone generous enough to help!:)
Basically i've been head over heels for my good friend joe for about 3 years now. i'm still a virgin, the farthest i've gone is making out. joe is 18, and he's only been with one girl and he's basically done everything possible with her, sexual wise. they were together for 2 years, understandable. i'm not sure if joe knows i'm a virgin or not, i've said i was but then sometimes it seems like he thinks im not by the things he says. so i bought these black fuzzy handcuffs at the sex store, and basically it was to just put in my room because my room is black and pink. i've never used them before or anything. well this past weekend joe texted me asking if he could borrow them and i was like haha are you serious? and he was like ha hell yea! so i agreed to borrow them to him and then he asked if ive ever used them before and i lied, dumb me. i dont know why i did, but i said yes and he asked what i did and i said well i handcuffed up a guy and then gave him a lapdance and then he handcuffed me and we had fun. i think he liked hearing that, but it wasnt true. well then we started talking last night, welll texting and we started talkiing about sexual things and he told me like his favorite position, what he likes a girl to do in bed, how he loves to do the 69, how he has had sex in the shower and so on. well this made me feel dumn because i really really like the kid, we're both attracted to each other and honestly hes the ONLY guy i can see myself ever losing my virginity to. i mean i'm 19, almost every guy i meet is going to be more experienced than me but if me and joe ever did start getting sexual, basically i would have no idea what i was doing and he would probably be thinking ... i thought she was all kinky and stuff?? i know i should tell the truth but that will just make me sound stupid dont you think, i'm not sure if i could pull off pretending to know what i'm doing in the bedroom? any ideas, advice???! (link)
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i personally tthink you should just flat out tell him how you feel about the issue present, if you do decide to keep on lying do some research and find out about "it" but the truth will most likely find you out so ve careful, just tell him the truth it is so much easier although it may make u look stupid you will feel a whole lot better
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What exactly are Braxton Hicks. I have been having them for the last like four days. I have only had them really bad twice. I am 33 weeks pregnant. Is it true it means you are going to have your baby early? Is it true it thins you out so you can start dialating. (link)
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this is just preparation, this contractions are not true labor, in no way does it mean that your baby could be premature
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I'm 13, I have never had sex before and I'm not sure that I have ever even popped my cherry, just so you know.
One day I gave my boyfriend a hand job then he went in the bathroom and finished up. After he did that he washed his hands then came back and started fingering me. That month I got my period and it came on time but now I'm not feeling the greatest . And it's been like a month after that.
I was wondering could there be a chance that I'm pregnant ? someone please reply to this I'm freaking outttt. (link)
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If he did not wash it off completely you could get pregnant, but then again if he didnt wash it off you still may not be pregnant, he could have missed where the sperm goes, so you may or may not be, but most likely not
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Okay so, i have this white creamy like discharge coming from my vagina. I was wondering what this could be. is it normal? or is it a sign of a yeast infection? if its a yeast infection, what causes it? and how can i get rid of it? (link)
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this is quite normal, it just means you will e gettign your period soon, but no worries youll be fine
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Hey, I asked a question about my boyfriend not being able to make me orgasm and you said to message you about his technique.
Can you give me some advice on what he can do? I think the problem is that I'm not getting turned on enough before the fingering, etc begins so I'm not wet so its not pleasuring me. (link)
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oh..ye..i remember.
you need to buil the passion. Kissing...stroking...licking...knibbling...heavy breathing. Then, he slowly need to work at you down there. Slowly tease you. Once in..a good technique (describe it to him) is to insert the ring, and middle finger in. The point the tips up, then do a "come hither" motion, or bring back the finger towards him. I use this on my girlfriend...SHE LITTERELY GOES CRAZZZZZY!
lol..leme kno if ya need more advice
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Hello im 18/f i want to become more healthier right now i eat alot of fast food and i drink a ton of pop and little water. I'm 5'6 and 143 pound and i want to lose a few pounds and not just lose weight but become healthier. I'm just wondering what are foods that are very good for you when you're trying to diet i've heard high protein low calories and carbs. Any examples for food that i could eat regularly would be appreciated! Thanks I rate! (link)
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stuff like..pasta with a healthy sauce or something. If you like burgers, then grilled chicken breast is good. Use little oil to cook it in. Olive oils are good however. Chicken breast is high in protien, and low in fat, so its very healthy.
home-made soups are good. Use a base of lots of vegetables, a good stock. Whatever you want.
Breakfast should be important. Healthy cereals, fruit, oats etc.
Drink loads of water, or something to flavour the water thats low in sugar if you dont like water by itself.
Make sure you excercise aswell. A mixture of cardio, and light weights. Your BMI is in the healthy class range, so you're doing good. Try not to fall into the underweight range.
theres lots of recipe ideas on the internet. Just google healthy recipes. Oh sushi and sashimi is good if you like it. High protien, low fat (usually). Hope i helped :)
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My boyfriend and I have gone to third base, where he's fingered my vagina and clit. But the problem is, I can't orgasm! This makes me feel bad because I have to fake so he doesn't think there's something wrong with me.
I can bring myself to orgasm by fingering my clit but am usually only success while I am watching porn.
Why can't I orgasm when he does this to me? It doesn't hurt or feel bad, but it just doesn't really do much for me as far as pleasure. Is there something wrong with me? What can we do so that I can orgasm? (PS - I don't want to have sex yet. I'm not ready.)
16 years old, female (link)
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maybe its his technique? message me and ill give you more details?
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hey are satin sheets comfortable? do they get cold like cold to lay on? any info is appreciated thanks. (link)
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i had really expensive satin bedsheets, but i dont use them anymore. They are cold at first, but they soon get really warm, sometimes hot in the summer. They can be rather slippery, and if its summer time and really warm...if you sweat...its horrendous.
when the weathers nice..and you can get comfortable, and if you dont toss and turn much, im sure they can be very pleasurable.
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19/M
I have been a thumb sucker my whole life. My New Years resolution is to quit it for good. I am going to go cold turkey. If that doesn't work, what else can I do to help me quit? (link)
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To stop from sucking your thumb put something on there u kno u dont like. Try medicine or put a band-aid on it.
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i have this friend we were bestfriends but then we fell for the same guy he was are buddy but then i told her how i feel about him and she saide she only likes him as a friend then out of nowhere she told me that she loved him and then he told me the samething about her i told them i was ok with it but the truth is that it killed me inside then they started going out and i feel bad cause all i wanted is for them to break up and when they did she called me crying but i didnt care i was just happy they were over and i think shes mad at me cause she doesnt even talk to me its like she hates me but i dont think she has a right to hate me its not like i broke them up i just dont know wat to do should i feel guilty (link)
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The only thing you should feel guilty about its wanting them to break up instead of being supportive for your friend.
A Boy is NEVER worth breaking up a friendship.
She called you crying because she probably expected you to be there comforting her. She expected you to support and care for her.
Since we are all humans, its natural to be happy when we get what we want, but it doesn't necessarily mean that it is the right thing to be happy about.
Try to have a special conversation with her, tell her how you felt when she went out with the guy she knew you liked.
If she keeps fighting and if she refuses to hear what you have to say, then she is probably not a true friend, you know?
I truly hope my advice helps :)
Let me know how things work out.
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Hi.
My husband's legs hurt him a lot. They feel like they are on fire most of the time. When I massage them the muscles feel like sand almost. We've been trying to figure out what it is without having to go to the doctor.
Any ideas? (link)
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What you want to do its to try and massage his legs using ice. Ice can cool off that "fire" and numb his legs from the pain. A lot of rest is also needed. He probably over-worked himself.
If none of that works, you should really consider a doctor. You're husband might have something very important to tend to.
Let me know how things work out :)
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I found out today that my ex-boyfriend from a couple years ago was invited to the same small new year's party as me. I haven't been able to stand being around him since we broke up, and every time I'm in a room with him, we end up fighting. I would love to hear anyone's suggestions as to how I can work through these bad emotions. I really don't want my new year's eve to be ruined by negative feelings for one person. I get really worked up every time I even think about being around him, though. How can I stay calm? (link)
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You are completely right, negative thoughts is never the best way to start off a new year. New Years mean New Start, right?
My advice to act maturely like an adult. Don't bring up anything negative from the past because its over. Any negative past thoughts are not worth reminiscing. Just think of it as a fire. If you keep feeding it, it will grow. You don't want that.
What you want is a friendship with your ex. A truce. None of you are right, but none of you are wrong, either.
If he starts off the fight, don't fight back. Just say something like:
"I don't want to fight anymore. We broke up because we didn't want to fight anymore. There's no point in this.....what do you say? Can we just be regular friends?"
I apologize for my long answer, but I do hope you tend to it. Let me know how things work out for you after that New Year's party :)
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19/female. this may be long but i'll return the favor ... thanks!:)
so my best friend taylor, who i have known since like 7th or 8th grade told me that she absolutely hates when girls put guys before their friends, and i'm the same way. i've never been like that, never will and its something i strongly believe in. well last night, i was with her, this guy she likes (shes hung out w/him like 3 times only) my two other friends and my cousin. well me and taylor had plans to hang out, because we wanted to give each other our christmas gifts and then we decided to go out to dinner with everyone then go bowling after. well taylor was my ride, i had my jacket in her car and everything .. i mean i rode with her. well she was acting weird the whole night and then after bowling we all didn't know what to do so we just decided to go back to my friends house, and i had ended up riding with my other friend back, because i had a feeling taylor would want to ride alone w/that guy. anyways so we get to my friends and taylor doesnt even get out of her car and the guy she likes has my jacket, and gave it to me. i was like uhhh whats going on?? and he was like we're going to go to my moms. i was furiated, i was like what the f*ck, why is she ditching us?? and she was my ride home!!! i mean my other friend ended up bringing me home but taylor didnt even ask or CARE. and she didnt even say bye or anything so i just walked passed her car and was like whatever!! she didnt say anything last night and then today she texted me and tried acting like nothing happened. so finally i said something .. i was like why did you ditch us last night for some guy you like just met, that was bit*h move. well then she made up all these excuses and i was like i'm done, done with this sutation and done with you and him if its going to be like that and she didnt say anything back.
i have a right to be mad dont you think?? once someone breaks trust w/me or something i strongly believe in, i dont just forgive easily. i'll admit i keep a grudge and i just cant beleive she did that to me. everyone i was with thought it was rude of her too. i just dont know what to do from here though... (link)
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Everything is easier said than done. Your friend is probably blind to what she is doing. The trick is to try to understand it through the other person's eyes. See, she may really really like the guy. I'll admit that she is really wrong for ditching you like that, but in her mind she did have a reason, even if you don't think she does. You do have the right to be mad, but everyone makes mistakes. That's what life is about.
Try showing her what she is doing wrong. Have a heart to heart talk with her, you know? A friendship is never worth being broken up by some boy. I'll even admit to myself that if I met a guy that I ended up liking, I'd be blinded by love.
I understand completely what you are saying. If my friend ditched me for some guy, I'd be upset, too. But is it really worth losing the friendship you had? Think about it.
If you were in her position, you would need some understanding friends, she does too.
She will be surprised at how understanding true friends can be.
I'm very sorry for my long answer, but you asked a really long question ;)
Let me know how things turn out :)
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18/f
i found out 2 summer ago that my girlfriend was raped when she was 6..this was before we got together, but we had been best friends for a while already..anyway, i cried when i found out, but she never explained to me what really happened..she told me she had gotten over it already though..
the thing is, sometimes i wonder if the problems she has now are a result of her being raped when she was younger. for example, she does not have a really good relationship with her parents and when we talk about serious things, she tells me she always has a hard time sleeping [even when she was younger]..and that she thinks about little things that bother her, which shouldn't really bother her..she also has small anxiety attacks and has a hard time breathing when people yell or get mad [she has asthma too].
i never mentioned the rape situation to her ever after she told me though..i don't know what to do though.. i always ask her why she thinks she's like that..but she always says "i don't know..there's just something really wrong with me"...and i just want to get to the root of the problem so i can help her..i just feel so helpless all the time whenever she talks to me about her problems...
i'm sorry this is so long, but do you think it's possible that her getting raped could be the cause? or do you think it's something else?
thank you soo much. (link)
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Yes, it is definitely possible. Studies say that rape victims are never completely healed mentally because of the pain, experience, and torture they went through. It makes them afraid it will happen again.
You should just reassure her that everything that happened in the past is over. Tell her that you won't let anything bad happen to her.
Try counseling. Ask a social worker.
You are really lucky she talks to you about these things, because usually rape victims just keep things to themselves and are embarrassed of what others might think of them. That is probably why she does not go to her parents.
Lastly, do not push her to do anything she does not want to do. It would hurt her, and make her afraid.
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So the title pretty much says it all. I feel like the earth is moving but I'm stuck standing still. How can I make life fun again. By the way I'm 15 so it's weird that I'm having this like midlife crisis. Please help I have no idea what to do! (link)
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Every teen goes through that. The trick is not to go through it alone. Hang out with some friends, find the thrill! The only reason why earth is moving if because it has no reason to keep still. You shouldn't have a reason, either. I used to be completely bored with life. The same routine everyday: Waking up, going to school, going home, do homework, eat, and sleep. I know its boring, but its hard to change that routine. Try to make new friend, physically. Learn something new, like an instrument perhaps? Anything that will keep you busy. Heck, go buy a pet to keep yourself busy too! They are a handful!
Hope my advice helped :)
This was a tough questions ;)
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