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broken friendship
i have this friend we were bestfriends but then we fell for the same guy he was are buddy but then i told her how i feel about him and she saide she only likes him as a friend then out of nowhere she told me that she loved him and then he told me the samething about her i told them i was ok with it but the truth is that it killed me inside then they started going out and i feel bad cause all i wanted is for them to break up and when they did she called me crying but i didnt care i was just happy they were over and i think shes mad at me cause she doesnt even talk to me its like she hates me but i dont think she has a right to hate me its not like i broke them up i just dont know wat to do should i feel guilty
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The only thing you should feel guilty about its wanting them to break up instead of being supportive for your friend.
A Boy is NEVER worth breaking up a friendship.
She called you crying because she probably expected you to be there comforting her. She expected you to support and care for her.
Since we are all humans, its natural to be happy when we get what we want, but it doesn't necessarily mean that it is the right thing to be happy about.
Try to have a special conversation with her, tell her how you felt when she went out with the guy she knew you liked.
If she keeps fighting and if she refuses to hear what you have to say, then she is probably not a true friend, you know?
I truly hope my advice helps :)
Let me know how things work out.
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OK, it is alright to feel guilty, and dont blame yourself for liking a guy, it can't be helped. If you and your friend are more like sisters than anything else in this world ask yourself this "is friendship really worth the price over one guy?" There will be more guys to come. But that friend you have is a specific individual and you will never find another friend like her. If you are okay with that then pursue the guy. It is your choice, no one can decide for you. Just go with your gut, im sure you will know what's right.
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