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can't orgasm
My boyfriend and I have gone to third base, where he's fingered my vagina and clit. But the problem is, I can't orgasm! This makes me feel bad because I have to fake so he doesn't think there's something wrong with me.
I can bring myself to orgasm by fingering my clit but am usually only success while I am watching porn.
Why can't I orgasm when he does this to me? It doesn't hurt or feel bad, but it just doesn't really do much for me as far as pleasure. Is there something wrong with me? What can we do so that I can orgasm? (PS - I don't want to have sex yet. I'm not ready.)
16 years old, female
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For one, i always thought that third base was oral lol but whatever not that important.
Well if you like watching porn then maybe you need more visual stimulation from him. Have him be naked if you dont do that already. Um i dont really know what else he could do to make it more like watching porn.. maybe you could watch his fingers go in and out of you if you're into that. Or maybe it's just that porn turns you on and you dont get turned on enough before he tries to make you orgasm. You should try messing around with him a bit before he fingers you to get you more turned on. But other than the porn factor if you can make yourself orgasm and he cant make you orgasm than its probably him not you. Give him suggestions on whatever you do to make yourself orgasm. Personally, what always gets me to orgasm is three fingers inside me (i'm not a virgin and a guy still has to put two in to stretch me to be able to fit three so you might wanna try one or two instead) and the guy rubbing my clit. Make sure you get some wetness on your clit before the guy starts rubbing it though. Oh and if your laying on your back have him put his finger(s) in so that his nails are facing down and have him curl his fingers up and rub your gspot.. that feels so good! Hope that helps some.
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maybe its his technique? message me and ill give you more details?
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