How to Dump someone who only wants you for your body
Question Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 9:01 am
I have this Guy that I think I really Love, But how do I dump him without the guit. I mean this guy only wants me for my body and i'm 14, I am not ready for all of this . Someone Please Help me!
SecretDreamer95 answered Sunday January 24 2010, 9:35 pm: no need to feel guilty. its your body and only you know what is comfortable. he doesn't love you he loves your body..and you are still young. its good to start to notice it young rather then later.. [ SecretDreamer95's advice column | Ask SecretDreamer95 A Question ]
jynx answered Thursday January 21 2010, 12:51 pm: If this guy wants you for your body you should not feel guilty for breaking up with him. He obviously does not care about you as a person so the truth is he might not care about the break up at all. You say that you are 14 and that you are not ready for all of this, why then are you dating? These are the kinds of things you encounter in the dating world so if you can't handle this then you are not ready to date. [ jynx's advice column | Ask jynx A Question ]
orphans answered Tuesday January 19 2010, 6:11 pm: you really should express your feelings and tell him how you feel if you are worried about breaking up with him and worried about the guilt just tell him no means no and give him a second chance if he still only wants you for your body then just tell him its over, you should say this,
"This relationship is really not getting anywhere, you only want me for my body and you dont appreciate my personallity. Wearan not put up with someone who only wants one thing and that is sex."
that should actually make you feel better those are the exact words i said to my last bf who only wanted me to have sex with me and to touch me and I feel great tthose words will make you feel good and secure, youll feel more safe also. it will be lifting your burden, hope that helps [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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