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why did i lie about the dumbest thing ....
19/female. this might be longer, so i will return the favor to anyone generous enough to help!:)
Basically i've been head over heels for my good friend joe for about 3 years now. i'm still a virgin, the farthest i've gone is making out. joe is 18, and he's only been with one girl and he's basically done everything possible with her, sexual wise. they were together for 2 years, understandable. i'm not sure if joe knows i'm a virgin or not, i've said i was but then sometimes it seems like he thinks im not by the things he says. so i bought these black fuzzy handcuffs at the sex store, and basically it was to just put in my room because my room is black and pink. i've never used them before or anything. well this past weekend joe texted me asking if he could borrow them and i was like haha are you serious? and he was like ha hell yea! so i agreed to borrow them to him and then he asked if ive ever used them before and i lied, dumb me. i dont know why i did, but i said yes and he asked what i did and i said well i handcuffed up a guy and then gave him a lapdance and then he handcuffed me and we had fun. i think he liked hearing that, but it wasnt true. well then we started talking last night, welll texting and we started talkiing about sexual things and he told me like his favorite position, what he likes a girl to do in bed, how he loves to do the 69, how he has had sex in the shower and so on. well this made me feel dumn because i really really like the kid, we're both attracted to each other and honestly hes the ONLY guy i can see myself ever losing my virginity to. i mean i'm 19, almost every guy i meet is going to be more experienced than me but if me and joe ever did start getting sexual, basically i would have no idea what i was doing and he would probably be thinking ... i thought she was all kinky and stuff?? i know i should tell the truth but that will just make me sound stupid dont you think, i'm not sure if i could pull off pretending to know what i'm doing in the bedroom? any ideas, advice???!
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If you ever were to hook up, which is the only way he'll know if you're experienced or not, things just come naturally. My first time I was kind of scared that I wouldn't know what to do but the truth is things just happen; once you start you'll just kind of realize how to go about different things and typically the guy can lead the way most of the time. If you're worried about BJs they're really not complicated, you'll just kind of know what to do. You can always ask him what he wants and how he wants it. If you guys end up hooking up, just let him know you're a virgin again and if you do other things, let him know you're kind of new to it all. He may have forgotten that you told him you gave someone a lap dance, etc. Guys don't remember a lot of things anyway. If he does remember just say it was a one time thing, or you can always tell him the truth that you did it because you like him etc etc.
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i personally tthink you should just flat out tell him how you feel about the issue present, if you do decide to keep on lying do some research and find out about "it" but the truth will most likely find you out so ve careful, just tell him the truth it is so much easier although it may make u look stupid you will feel a whole lot better
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well randomly text him one night and tell him how you feel be like guess what. and when he says what. tell him that you are a virgin and the furthest you have gone is making out. tell him you like him. etc. flirt with him.
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