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my boyfriend just broke up with me and he gave me this necklace while i was going out with him and it meant a lot to me. i want to give it back to him but not to his face, i want to put it in his locker with a note. i don't know what to say in the note. ive thought of everything and nothing feels right to say its got to be short and meaningful. something that says "i'm over you", "its your loss" and stuff like that...but i dont want to say something MEAN b/c i dont want him hating me...i want it to say basically "i've moved on", and "you missed out." something like that Please Help Me. I really want to leave a big MEANINGFUL impression on him....HELP.
(the phrases i put in quotes...i dont want to use those exactly....)
xoxo Arielle (link)
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How about "It's all gravy". I love that saying... Though I know what you mean, short, but sweet.. hmm... "In advance, no." haha, wow, that was funny...
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well ive been going out with this guy tha i love and ever since ive been going out with him my best friend has been gettin all pissed at me and trying to break us upp....and now im not friends with her anymore cuz of this...and she said she wont be mad at me if i just break up wit my boyfriend but i love him and im not going to do that....i think maby she is kinda jallous that i have a bf n she dosent...but than again i dont know....help!!!
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Jallous? *shakes head* Okay, well yes, she is jealous, but not of your boyfriend, I think she's more jealous of him having all of your attention. Falling in love is great, but you can't forget about everyone else in your life. Don't exclude those who will still be there if things go pear shaped.
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I'm extremely shy, and I've never had a boyfriend, or a kiss. I want a boyfriend.. should I continue to be shy, do guys think it's cute? Or should I push myself to be more outgoing.. but idk how? I try to be myself, but I get so insecure, I always think people are judging me. I've had a few boys ask me out and everything.. but they were all losers, not to be mean or anything. So it's not like i've never had a chance of having a boyfriend. How do I get a decent guy to notice me? (link)
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Don't try to push yourself to be more out-going, being yourself makes you more comfortable than trying to be someone who you aren't. And by calling them losers, you are automatically mean, maybe that's why no other guy has asked you out, because they've seen how you shot down the last one and are also afraid of being shot down.
People *always* judge you, it's human nature, and you can't stop it. But if you are so insecure about yourself, maybe building up your confidence could help with getting yourself a boyfriend (as it seems very important to you) and also give you a boost in the way you talk, making you less self-concious.
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ok well i shave "down there" and i don't know what to do becasue sometimes i stay the night at friends houses and dont take a shower utnil i go home and sometimes i have the chance to "do things" with the person that i like and even if i shave the day before it's stubbly (sp?) the next day! and i dont want the guy to think that its gross and i also would like to know how much i should be shaving off? and it seems if i dont take a shower the next day i smell down there and then im afraid to get close to anyone and i end up being called a tease. (link)
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You can shave off as much or little "down there" as you like. If shaving doesn't work, try buying waxing strips from Boots and give those a go. If you find you smell when you don't take a shower, then take a shower, simple really.
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Every time I get out of the shower my hair is frizzy, poofy, and just a pain! No matter how much i straighten it, it never hangs down flat like other girl's hair! Its always poofing out, or has waves in it! I need help my hair always looks bad!
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If you *just* straighten your hair, without using any kind of conditioner or serum, then it'll have waves or be frizzy. Try using a light gel or wax to help it calm down, but remember never to use too much of the same or different types of product/s on your hair as it'll make it greasy and unmanagable.
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Well, I really really like this guy.... and I dont know what to do about it..... like, I mean, he has a girlfriend, and i just found out about it a couple of weeks ago, and it really hurt me... I am serious... I wuz crushed.... and if you saw him you would get what I mean... he is so cute, and he is really nice to me! What should I do? I want him so bad!!!!! (link)
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Hey there,
Hmm... guys why are they so difficult! If we don't like them they are single and if we do like them they have a girlfriend. Since he has a girlfriend, sadly there isn't much that you can do at the moment. :-( Dropping little hints here and there are fine, but you don't wanna seem too obvious because of the whole girlfriend factor. If he truly is someone that you like, then wait till his is single and go for it! If he says no he says no but you don't want to have that thought in your head what would have happened if I would have asked him... That's the worst. Look for an upcoming event, games, dances are great. See if he'll go with you as a friend (if he still has a girlfriend if not then ask him out as a date). Then he'll see what a great person you are and dump his girlfriend to be with you. I wish I could give you a plan that would occur faster... ok ok but only if you supply the hammer. JUST JOSHIN! lol That would be so mean! Well, good luck! Tell me how things go, hope I helped!
luv ya!
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How bad is it to cheat on a test? (link)
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haha its wrong, but EVERYONE does it
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ok.. so my mom got a boyfriend and shes 48 hes 38 and i am 15 he also has a son who is 7 years old.
well my mom was a single mom ever since i was 3 and as a couple of boyfriends all that she has broken up with .
She basically raised me to hate guys .. i guess
so now that she has a new boyfriend they are all touchy and feely and its is doo discusting. i mean they like do it right infront of me .. i mean i guess they think i should be used to if because im 15..
Or sometimes she will stay out till like in the morning .
I dont knowif this is a question more like i need advice cause im just so fustrated..
ill rate
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It's going to be difficult for you to accept any boyfriend of your mum's because you are close to your mum and you love her, but she's only trying to move on with her love life and she'll be as upset as you are now if you don't as least try and get to know her boyfriend. It's going to be hard for all of you.
If your mum and her boyfriend cuddle and kiss in front of them, leave the room, or mention to your mum that you're not comfortable with it because you feel like you're losing her.
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how long does it take for leg hair to grow back? I'm 13. (link)
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After 1 day their spikey but after 2 days they will probably need shaved soon! If you want the to grow completely back atleast 2 weeks
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my long time boyfriend is starting to rush me. i am growing in to a very "big boobed babe" as he says, like last night, after we ate at my house he started to kiss me every where. when he went down to the chest kiss, he started to unbutten my shirt, when i told him to stop he told me to just stop talking. when i yelled stop he got up and left my house slaming the door so hard he broke the glass, i have dated a lot of guys, but i am drawn to this one, he wont talk to me and i want him back.... what should i do? (link)
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Well I think this guy is just using you if he was unbuttoning your shirt, you told him to stop he told you to "shut up" basically, and you told him to stop again he got mad and left your house slamming the door (literally breaking the glass. This guy is definately just using you to get into your pants! If i was you i would just let him go!
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My boyfriend is at his dads for spring break and his dad lives 3 hrs away from here. I am finding it really hard to get him off my mind. I just lay around thinking of him and waiting for him to call me. But he only calls me late so he wont get in trouble. What can i do to pass the time and get him off my mind?
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1.) Give yourself a make-over
2.) Go to the mall
3.) Go to friends house
4.) Clean your room (uggh)
5.) Go to the beauty salon
6.) Visit relatives
7.) Volunteer
8.) Find a job
9.) Help out around the house
10.) Give yourself a facial
Thats all i can think of, sorry!
Hope i helped!
~*SAYLOR*~
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Heylo everyone,
i'm going on hols tomorrow (yay) but my lil bro always goes through my stuff!!! i'm gonna be on my period so i dont want him looking through my suitcase like he always does and finding the pads. so where can i hide them? i've had the idea of like rolling them up in my socks but i think they might be too thick or it might damage the pad or curl it up and make it hard to wear? (link)
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Well you could always take a purse with you and never let it out of your site. Or you can tell your brother if he gets near your stuff you will crack his head wide open and if he gets in it anyways tell your parents, and you can always tell your mom to tell your brother not to get into your suitcase. That is all I can thik of and I hope i helped!
~*SAYLOR*~
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We recentley got rid of my beloved pet, Mac. He was a yellow lab, 6months old and like 154 pounds. i loved hime so much and whenever i think about him or ee pics of him i start to cry. How can i get over this? (link)
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Try getting a new pet, not to replace Mac, but to take your mind off of him. Don't remind yourself of Mac, and instead try spending time with friends and family, so that you aren't left alone enabling you to think about Mac.
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My boyfriend dumped me about a week ago and the other night, he realized that it was a bad idea. So he asked me out and we are back together, but I was wondering, is it a good idea? We love and care for each other, but there seems to be some tension still. So yeah. (link)
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No. It's not a good idea. So what, he dumps you then thinks, no wait, actually I do like her? That's not the case. He probably dumped you for someone else, then that person wouldn't take him, and so he's back for you now. No. No. And no again. Go get yourself someone better.
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Me and my bf have been going out for a while now and his ex is trying to talk to him and acting like my friend then I have people telling she talks mess about me and wants to fight me.Well I'm not such an abusive person but I don't really know how to handle this.She keeps on trying to wear some really skanky clothes to impress him.He told me the way he feels about me already but I don't really know how to get this girl off his back. Please help! (link)
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Well first of all you need to tell your boyfriend how you feel again tell him if he doesnt back off you are going to make her. If he doesnt listen have a talk with the girl im sure your boyfriend wont mind. Hope I Helped!
~*SAYLOR*~
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hi, i just recently turned 13 and im in the 6th grade. my mom doesnt know thati sahve my legs. i've een using her razor for about 2 months. i had to just do it because everyone else was doing it! i was the only one! all the girls stared at me and it was really embarassing. me and my family are going on a cruise very soon and my legs will be showing most of the time. if she notices i dont know what to do. if she says something about it what should i say! i dont wanna say like,"well, i've been using ur razor because everyone else at shools been doing it!" shed hav this grudge. i know this is long but i'll rate. pleeeaaase help me out! i need really goos advice! i dont think i could just talk to her..i have a pretty bad relationship with her. help help! (link)
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Dont tell her "Everyone else is doing it" that will make her mad just tell her that you are 13 and a time comes when a girl starts shaving. That girls stare at you at school when you wear shorts/skirts/kneeknockers/etc And that you dont like it because they make fun of you!
Hope I helped!
~*SAYLOR*~
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Ok, so over spring break I was on a cruise, and well, while I was on there i met a girl. We kind of talked but didn't really hang out until the last night where we messed around (made out more or less) and then she went to bed and it was supposedly over. Well since then we've been talking over email and IMing and such, but I didn't hear from her for about a week and I kind of forgot her last name. It's really been bothering me, but I don't want to just ask her because it just seems kind of horrible that this girl messed around with me and I don't know her last name, or don't remember it at least. (link)
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Tell this girl that you and her havent talked in a week or so and just plain out tell her you forgot her last name!
hope i helped
~*SAYLOR*~
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I have a friend who is heavily into drugs. She isn't doing it to have fun, she is doing it to escape problems in her life. She has had a very difficult life, so it isn't like an emo thing. I am too close to her to help her. I have been through this with her many times. My question is, what can I do to try and get her away from all of the drugs without making her mad at me. Also if there is anything you could suggest, where I could help her, it would be much appreciated. Thank you all so much in advance. This problem has really got me down.
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Drugs is an addiction you cant get her away from them. But i know a cousin of my sisters boy friend that went to a party and got really bad hooked on drugs and they took her to counciling it worked too. Luckily she hasnt started them back! So all you need to do is talk to your friend tell her that drugs can kill her that she needs to stop taking them and just keep on talking to her and eventually she will give up on them!
hope i helped
~*SAYLOR*~
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Me and my best friend Ashlee are REALLY close but lately shes been really into guys. I mean, I am just not the way she is ..I mean were 13 but I guess Im kind of prude. Well, one night Ashlee got invited to a party with my other 2 friends Lindsay and Courtney. A few other people in my circle of friends (And I) didnt get invited. But, I didnt think much of it and I didnt care at all. Then, the other day, I was on the phone with my friend Alex (Shes one person who didnt get invited either) and Alex told me that Courtney, who was at the party, told her that the party wasnt really a party. It was just a few guys and Ashlee, Lindsay, and Courtney. Courtney said they played spin the Bottle and Ashlee (Who had never kissed anyone before) made out with 4 guys at the party! The worst part was that she didnt even tell me. I dont know what to do! I told Alex (Swore on my life, basically) NOT to say anything about what Ashlee did (especially to Ashlee) because she would know Courtney told Alex and Alex told me! Im so depressed! what do i do? (link)
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I think the main reason you are depressed is because you didnt get invited to the non-party! Just go on with your life, trust me you didnt miss anything. Just go along with it and when Ashlee feels like telling you she will!
~*SAYLOR*~
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So im making a bet with a friend, and if i win i get to make her do soemthing completely non sexual (and i do mean completely) and im at a loss, cant come up with anything. while your answering feel free to make suggestions for her as well, shes having trouble too. (link)
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*Call a teacher and tell him he's HOTT
*Ask out the ugliest, stinkiest boy in school
*Go skinny dipping in a neighbors pool
*Wear a bra outside of her shirt, underwear outside of her pants, nails painted neon green with purple stripes and her hair strait with some fizzed up!
and that is all i can think of that would be embarrassing so hope i helped*****
~*SAYLOR*~
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