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Ex gf problems
Me and my bf have been going out for a while now and his ex is trying to talk to him and acting like my friend then I have people telling she talks mess about me and wants to fight me.Well I'm not such an abusive person but I don't really know how to handle this.She keeps on trying to wear some really skanky clothes to impress him.He told me the way he feels about me already but I don't really know how to get this girl off his back. Please help!
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She's probably only trying to be your friend to get close to him. I don't know why she would tell others that she wants to fight you, maybe more than one person is trying to stir up trouble.
Let the boyfriend deal with her.He's the one who needs to tell her to back off. He needs to keep her off your back!
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anonymous -
First, to get rid of this girl, you need to understand where she is coming from. Most likely she is jealous that you're now with him, or if he dumped her, she could possibly feel insecure.
To get down to the real truth, go to the source. Ask her about it and approach the situation calmly. Don't go insulting her or pointing fingers or even get anyone else involved by mentioning names. Keep it between you two. Just lay out the facts and reassure her that you won't be mad if the rumors are true.
If she admits to it, ask her why. If it's cuz she's trying to win him back, tell her that it's over and the breakup happened for a reason. Even if they were to get back together, the same thing will happen anyways so there isn't any purpose for her to pursue something that will never be. Even so, she should be happy for him because he's found happiness, even if it is with you, not her.
If she denies it, tell the others to provide proof of her smack-talking.
Try not to let it get to you. You're happy with your boyfriend, and don't let anything get in the way of that.
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She is something else!
You could try to tell him to tell her that he's not interested in her anymore. It seems the only way she'll leave you both alone is if she hears it from him. Tell him to ignore her and she might go away after a while.
But she still might spread rumors about you two because she's jealous, so be prepared.
Hope this helps!
*Diamyn*
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Well first of all you need to tell your boyfriend how you feel again tell him if he doesnt back off you are going to make her. If he doesnt listen have a talk with the girl im sure your boyfriend wont mind. Hope I Helped!
~*SAYLOR*~
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