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Well theres this guy at my work ( i work at burget king and im 17) and he hits on me all of the time! The other day he kind of stuck his hand down my pants!

anyone have any ideas how i can stop him from hitting on me all the time?!

Advice would help! thanks

This qualifies as sexual harrasment. You can sue him. However, if you don't want to do that just yet tell him to stop hitting on you. If he continues to do it I insist you tell tell the manger or sue him.

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Ugh, my huge winter dance is in a few weeks (about 3) and I asked this kid i dont know too well but i mean i talk to him everyday jus sayin Hi or somethin. well, I asked him at 10:57 and then he didnt answer. then at 11:23 i asked if he was there nd he didnt answer (this is all online) then an hour later i saw he went away and then came back. so i IMed him nd asked if he saw what i said. here was the convo when he came back

him: yeah but im leavin soon im readin some stuff on a few sites then goin upstairs what ya need ?

me: did you see what i asked you earlier?

him: yes

me: and .. lol

him: .... ill get bac to u

he's probably goin to make me wait a really long time and i really need to find a date fast because tickets go on sale until wednesday. then they are unavaliable. i dont want him to keep me waiting to the point that i wont find a date. what do i do? do i tell him i dont want to go with him any more( thats weird). do i wait it out? what do i do?!?

If he can't make up his mind he's not worth it. He's probably going to make you wait too long. Ask another guy.

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my girlfriend is unhappy and i don't know what to do. i've tried comforting her and asking her what's wrong but she won't tell me.

she did tell me her "friend" said she was stupid and she sucked at life. she actually listens to her, since she's apparently "always almost right".

and my gf doesn't like me mentioningher and saying bad things about her.

what to do?

she also seems to be avoiding me.. i'm assuming she wants to break up. i don't know.

it's like i tell her i love her, i care about her, and or i want to see her...then she gets sad and says she sucks.

she's not even explaining anything. i'm confused.

No, she's not explaining, therefore, it needs to end. She doesn't seem ready to have a boyfriend. The only thing you can do is be a suportive friend.

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ok. me and my best friend use to be completely in love with each other. then we kinda just ended it cause he got a girlfiend. but now he dumped her. and i think im falling for him again. what should i do?

You should go for him. If he's single why not? Just casually flirt with him and eventually ask him out.

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What exactly does this mean?

And does tampons and ''pleasureing'' break this?

please hlep asap!

Thanks

That is when the hymen is broken. A hymen is sorta like extra skin in your vagina. When it is broken blood comes ouit. Yes, tampons and pleasuring break it. Riding a bike or a horse can even break it.

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can anyone give me their opinion on AIM Triton compared to AIM 9.5?? i have both but i juss cant seem to decide which one i like more. they both have good quailities & bad quailities. i think AIM Triton looks cooler & AIM 9.5 is so..90's. what do you guys think??

thanks!!

Not AIM Triton. It sucks immensly. Sure, it looks nifty but it gives you a lot of viruses and is too hard to use. Stick with 9.5

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Doesn't matter who reads this, but girls would most likely know the answer.


A friend of mine told me that having sex on the 14th day after your period there's a greater chance of getting pregnant, and sometimes 2-3 days after that too. Is that true? If it is true, is that correct?

Yes, usually that is true. About 14 days after your period when you most likely ovulate. However, it's different for every girl but around 14 days.

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so i want a new screen name for aim
currently its XFallxOutxGiirlX
but fall out boy is emo which im not so i wanna change it. i want it to say sumthing with rocker in it and im puertorican. my names hillary. any suggestions? please no numbers, not anything "cute" or preppy or that says anything about my looks such as sexygirl or anything. i also like X's :]

latin hil x3
latina X rocker
hardcore hilX
hillary x3
rock harder x

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13 f
ok i want to go skating at 6:00 but i have my period, is there anything i could do to not leak? pleez dont say use a tampon or two pads thx!

The only thing you cand do is where a tampon or pads. You don't need to be too worried. Put on a new pad or tampon (whichever you like better) before you leave and bring some more with you.

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hey im 13 and a female. i was wondering are looks an important part in a relationship? all my friends say it is but i think its a lil shallow.

**sleepiesheep**

In my opinon looks don't matter. However, most people think the oppisite and put a lot of emphisses (sp?) on looks. You are at a shallow age when boys and girls are embarrassed to date someone who isn't that hot. But it's good tht you don't think so.

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hey im a guy...and no im not planning on getting an abortion. i was just wondering something: why is it that girls/women abort children instead of adopt them? i know there are plenty of reasons why, but is there one (or more) that would overshadow the case of giving birth then putting the baby up for adoption. looking for a girls point of view on this, because even if the girl didn't want the baby, would there be something wrong in giving it away instead of killing it? thanks, will rate.

Selfish? In some cases yes in some no.

Let's say a gil gets raped. She is pregnant and she has no idea who the father is. She has a large chance of being infected with STDs and her baby is at risk too. So she is basically screwed and so is her baby. This is not her fault at all she did not want this to happen. Also her baby may have birth defects because she doesn't know who the father is or what's wrong with him. She may be doing her baby a favor by aborting it.

Now let's say the girl has unprotected sex and is between the ages of 12-16. She is preganat, however, she is not fully developed yet. Now she is at risk for dieing when she gives birth. She also is at risk for giving birth to a premature baby. I know this is completely her fault this time but her baby may have defects. So, again, she is dooing her baby a favor by aborting it. She is also doing her parents favor so she doesn't die.

Besides these two cases I am completely against abortion. I would like to give you one last scenerio though.

A pregnant woman is on her way to get an abortion. She gets in an accident caused by a drunk driver. She survives but her baby dies. The drunk driver is charged of murder. The woman was about to get her baby murdered anyway. Now does this seem right?

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whats a good job for me?
-I don't like to work with people
-I have no highschool degree
-I can't do physically straining work

-I like being outdoors, but its not a necessity
-I like animals
-I'm a little dumb, yes

-ASPCA
-an animal kennel
-a park ranger
-an animal trainer
-work at the zoo
-work at the circus
-work at the aquarium

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if someone called you on the phone, and said that you have really nice tits, and they want to have sex with you, what would that be called

All depend on how you view it. If you said sexual things back or if this turned you on it may be considered phone sex. If this was a random stranger that you don't know it may be called stalking you. If neither of these apply it's called getting a compliment and that they want you to have sex with them.

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i have this boyfriend, and he's my first, but sometimes it feels like i see him as just a friend. i like him but i dont think i like him enough to be in a committed relationship with him. i really dont know what to do because i'm not happy about this but i also dont want to hurt his feelings

If it's not working out break up with him. You seem really unhappy. Yes, it may hurt his feelings but you are only hurting him more by leading him on like this.

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sorry its long but i RATE HIGH! 13/f okay so i like this guy named coby and today at hebrew school i think we were flirting and we always talk at hebrew school and he threw tape down my shirt and then he's like well you no when you get home tonite and take off your shirt the tape will be down there and we started laughing and flirting. The thing is at school he is REALLY popular and all and he barely talks to me but i really like him and i am not sure if he likes me. We also talk on aim and all that stuff and he was like the blow job that the ____girl gave me really ruined my reputation and then i was like well i think thats sexy. but the thing is i already have a boyfriend. so what i am asking is
1) does he like me?
2) what do i do with the boyfriend i alreay have?
3) should i as coby (the guy i like) out?

It seems to me that he likes you. Now comes the big question: do you care more about your boyfriend or Coby? If you truly don't like your boyfriend break up with him and go for Coby. However, if your boy friend is worth something to you keep him. It's all up to your emotions.

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Okay so like 2 months ago my mom got married again to this man she knew from her home town. At first I did not like him because he was not my dad but he grew on me. One day after classes i went to meet my mom at work for lunch. I went straight home afterwards.When I got home I heard something like a man moaning. I Knew no one was supposed to be home becasue my stepdad was supposed to be at work. The moans became louder as I aproached my moms room. So I thought to myself I just had lunch with my mom. And she was at work how could she be two places at once? I came to the conclusion the my stepdad was having an affair. I got angry and decided to bust open the door and catch him in action. To my great surprise it was not a woman in bed but a man. I could not belive the image I saw. I screamed and shot the door. I could not belive it. My stepdad who is such a Monday night football guy and who usally does not care for gay people was having sex with a man. WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON. He begged me to be quiet but I told my my mom anyway and what I can't belive is that she thiks that I made the entire thing up. She looked at me like i was crazy. She says that I never liked him in the first place (which is true) and that I would do anything to split them up. (not true). She cried all night none stop, she told me that I was breaking her heart how could i be so cruel. Our relationship is down the drain now. How do I get my Mom to see that I am not lying? Please help.

Write down everything. Tell her how you came home opened the door and saw this going on sometimes it's easier to believe in writing. However, she probably is in denial and may not believe you. If she doesn't believe you confront your stepfather about it. Tell him that he is hurting everybody by hiding this. If he comes clean the relationship that was there before him would be saved- the one between you and your mom. If things get worse see if you can live with your dad (if he is alive...I'm sorry you didn't mention if he passed or if your parents were divorced), a different family member, or a friend. Time will solve this. Eventually, she will see what you are telling her.

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okay well i have something really big to tell my parents and im not sure how to tell them. well i really want to tell them that i want to have a baby (16/f) everyone says i should but i really dont get along with my parents.. well its not that we dont get along its just that we arent that close. should i tell them now or should i wait till have a bf that i have been dating for a while because i am currently single. i know eitehr way they are going to flip but i dont want to screw things up. so how do i tell them and when?

I don't really think you're making the right desicion even though before I said to decide for yoursef. But anyway I think it would be better if you told them before you get a boyfriend. If you told then when you had one they would never let you see him.

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on myspace they say Hard x Core
And Scene Kids
wtf does it mean?

Hardcore is a type of music. Kinda rockish. I don't know what the X is for. Scene kids are emo kids.

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Well , i really like this guy in 7th grade, but the thing is I'm in 8th grade. I don't really know him that well but i really like him.
I know him well enough to like ask him out, but i dont want to yet.
I know some of my friends would give me a hard time about it but i know his friends wouldn't.
Should i ask him out or not?
I rate high for help
x0
>torn

Ask him out. You're only one year older than him. Start by just asking to hang out then make it something more. And if your friends give you a hard time abut it get some new friends because thesefriends aren't good.

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OK so today i am wearing jeans and my new ugg boots (short, chestnut) should i tuck my jeans into the boots? or have the jeans cover the boots? thanks in advance

Tuck them in if it still looks smooth at the bottom. If it doesn't leave it untucked.

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