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idontknowwhattodo
my girlfriend is unhappy and i don't know what to do. i've tried comforting her and asking her what's wrong but she won't tell me.
she did tell me her "friend" said she was stupid and she sucked at life. she actually listens to her, since she's apparently "always almost right".
and my gf doesn't like me mentioningher and saying bad things about her.
what to do?
she also seems to be avoiding me.. i'm assuming she wants to break up. i don't know.
it's like i tell her i love her, i care about her, and or i want to see her...then she gets sad and says she sucks.
she's not even explaining anything. i'm confused.
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don't push her to give you an answer right away or you will definately push her away. maybe the right thing for you two is to take a break from the relationship for a little while. a lot of times this is a way to find out what you really want from a relationship and life in general. take it easy and things will work out. I promise.
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wow. i'm going through the EXACT same thing. i'm neglecting my boyfriend right now - but he's too clingy to me. but anyways, you really need to talk to her. ask her if she's losing interest in you [if u think she's avoiding you and she wants to break up] and ask her if she wants to take a break. if she doesn't want to open up to you, just simply tell her you'll be there for her at all times, and she can talk to you at anytimes. hope i helped a little bit :o)
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just keep doing what youre doing. comfort her. just be there for her. even if you have absolutly no idea why you are doing it or what shes sad about, you are doing it because you love her. dont bring it up in a conversation, if she wants to talk about it then shell bring it up. dont bother her about it. tell her not to listen to her friend and that she is perfect and she means the world to you and that you love her. if she doesnt have anything to say back to you then at least she knows that you love her and that you are there for her. it takes girls a long time to actually speak their mind sometimes. but assure her that you will be there for her whenever she needs someone to talk to and that you will try to understand.
XO KALIE
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I applaud you for even taking all of these thoughts into comsideration.
One of the important elements a relationship needs to have is communication. Unfortunately that's what you all's relationship is lacking. I think that it is best for you all to end what you'll still have.
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No, she's not explaining, therefore, it needs to end. She doesn't seem ready to have a boyfriend. The only thing you can do is be a suportive friend.
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She can't love you if she's so busy hating herself. You need to date someone with a little more self esteem, or at least someone who's willing to accept a little help and not under the control of a stupid little girl. Sorry, but I don't think she's a keeper.
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