Ugh, my huge winter dance is in a few weeks (about 3) and I asked this kid i dont know too well but i mean i talk to him everyday jus sayin Hi or somethin. well, I asked him at 10:57 and then he didnt answer. then at 11:23 i asked if he was there nd he didnt answer (this is all online) then an hour later i saw he went away and then came back. so i IMed him nd asked if he saw what i said. here was the convo when he came back
him: yeah but im leavin soon im readin some stuff on a few sites then goin upstairs what ya need ?
me: did you see what i asked you earlier?
him: yes
me: and .. lol
him: .... ill get bac to u
he's probably goin to make me wait a really long time and i really need to find a date fast because tickets go on sale until wednesday. then they are unavaliable. i dont want him to keep me waiting to the point that i wont find a date. what do i do? do i tell him i dont want to go with him any more( thats weird). do i wait it out? what do i do?!?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? attractive answered Sunday January 8 2006, 10:15 pm: Gurl you are to beautiful to wait on any guy and you say you dont know him very well. Find someone that you know and you really like an are comfortable with dont miss out because he wants to play games. but if he tells you tommorrow then yes go with him otherwise dont let him mess up a day that sopposed to be happy and joyus. and if you dont go with anyone just remeber you dont need a man to make you feel good you should be able to stand on your own to feet and have a good time with yourself and maybe find someone at the dance. Just make sure when you go to the dance you be happy with date or without you have fun!!!!!!!!good luck
-attractive [ attractive's advice column | Ask attractive A Question ]
Nomad6C9 answered Sunday January 8 2006, 3:37 pm: What I would do is tell him that I need and answer. Put him on the spot. Then what ever his reation may be, go with that. [ Nomad6C9's advice column | Ask Nomad6C9 A Question ]
pugluver answered Sunday January 8 2006, 1:46 pm: i would say to him i need to now know so give me an anwser.hope i helped plz rate me
HOPLESSxROMNTC answered Sunday January 8 2006, 1:25 pm: Wait until about tuesday then if he hasn't answer by then, go up to him in PERSON and say that you need an answer right now. If he says yes then thats good and if he says no then just ask another guy that you like. or maybe a guy friend to go as friends? Good luck!
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H0LDM3CL0S3 answered Sunday January 8 2006, 10:42 am: wait... he has to think, and for some guys that takes a really long time! lol! jp!
tasuki answered Sunday January 8 2006, 9:10 am: I think you should find someone else. This guy is a coward. He wants to tell you no but he's not man enough, so he's just going to avoid you. It hurts, but it's true. Get a better guy. [ tasuki's advice column | Ask tasuki A Question ]
Dr.Dradiel answered Sunday January 8 2006, 1:06 am: this dude dosnt have the balls to tell you no, its not your fault, you should just find another person to go with, or in worst case scenario go with a friend [ Dr.Dradiel's advice column | Ask Dr.Dradiel A Question ]
HyperMickiHAhe answered Sunday January 8 2006, 12:59 am: hard to break it to you but the ... means probably, no thanks. find someone else and if all else fails, find your best guy friend that you knwo wont turn you down! HIH
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Micki
p.s. if yoru best guy freidns have dates, find just some gf and go in a group!
p.s.s just say, nevermind, you found another date or if you find that mean, then tell your firends that if your date says yes, then you will go with them, ask if they dont mind being a backup plan. dont worry, they wont!
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