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I really like this guy and I think he really likes me too but I think he is too shy to talk to me. But I have tried almost everything at first I sent him a valentine gram and told him I thought he was cute and signed my name then I had my friend give him a note that still didn't work so finally two of my friends try to talk to him but he wouldn't talk to them. But he keeps making eye contact with me,he keeps staring at me too we keep eye contact for awhile but then either he turns or I but then we both look again to see if the other one is still looking and he makes sure he is always where I usually am(he knows my schedule and we have classes kind of close to each other but none together)All my friends are telling me to talk to him and just ask him straight out"Do you like me?" But I need to know should I waste my time at all? Is it possible he just stares at me but doesen't really like me? (link)
you should ask him if he likes you. he's probably not going to tell other people if he likes you, so that's why YOU have to go up to him and start talking. once you feel comfortable talking to him, just ask him if he likes you. tel him that you've been wondering for a while now, and you sort of like him, and that's why you need to know if he likes you too. even if he doesn't like you, it's better knowing than just to keep wondering if he likes you or not. hope it works out!


im so mad that school yr is over and ima miss all my friends especially this one boy i liked all yr. i didnt get his number i think i got a way to find it out. but im so scared though. i really love this guy and ima be thinking about him this whole summer and i think it might be love. i dont want to use the "l" word but i cant help it. i mean i see things in him that i dont see in most guys. even though he does act like guys act--you know how they are--but i really feel connected to this guy. what should i do? just stare at his picture for the rest of the summer or do something about. becuz im not the bravest person in the world, and i am so scared. can somebody help me becuz my friends don't understand and nobody does. but i dont know if he feels the same way. i guess you can tell by the look in his eyes, but all i see in him is something different. he probably wont break my heart. but im not sure. i cant look into his eyes because i wont see him and its just so crazy. can somebody just help me. (link)
you should go for it! you don't want to just sit there looking at his picture all summer! ask someone his phone number or screen name, and then just cal him and talk to him. start talking to him for a while, and then just ask him who he likes. don't be scared,just try talking to him. after he sais who he likes, if he sais he likes you, then it'll be easier to tell him that you like him too, but if he doesn't say he likes you, then just keep flurting with him, and soon you'll have the courage to tell him you like him. hope it works out!


Yesterday my boyfriend of six months broke up with me. We broke up because he has to work this summer and he says itll be really hard for him to just see me for one day a week instead of the six that were used to. I was so sad after hearin this, I cried almost all night cause i really miss him. Now last night he started to second guess himself, and he tells me how he made a huge mistake and he didnt think it thru. Well he wants me back for the summer. What sould i do, I do really like him amd want him around. Should i let him back??? just be friends??? or take a step backwards and say were just dating again????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
you should go out with him again. talk to him about his job and work out a time when you guys can hang out with each other. it's only for the summer, so when you get back in school, ya'll can be with each other a lot more. hope it works out!


Me and my old not quite boyfriend got in a fight because i had hickys on my neck and i said they were from one of my g/fs and he found out i wAs lying and he wont talk to me.. Should i give him a call and tell him im sorry? Or what should i do i miss him.. And i made a huge mistake.. (link)
Definently call him and tell him you're sorry. but don't expect him to forgive you at first, because if someone cheated on you and lyed to you, you wouldn't just forgive them that quickly. tell him you'll never lie to him or cheat on him again, and just ask him for one more chance. if he really likes you and misses you that much he'll probably forgive you. hope i helped!


heyy, i'm taller than my b/f, hes 4'11 and im 5'0.. I hate wrestling with him cuz every time I go near him he gets into the feidle position and goes 'oh crapp' I weigh 90 pounds and im 13, so im not overweight at all.. But how do I stop making my boyfriend scared of me! (link)
why are you wrestling him? Just Wondering. Anyways I don't think there is alot to do. You aren't that much taller. Tell him he needs to move past your height or your relationship won't work.


I can't apply eyeliner on the top lid for the life of me!
I get it perfect on one lid and the other lid is really bad.
I suppose I just need to get used to it like with my bottom lid (I can put that on like second nature now)
Any tips though? (link)
Alot of people have problems with that. I did. I switched from using the pencil eyeliner though. Go buy baked eyeshadow, black, whever color you want to use. Buy and Eyeliner brush, then get the eyeliner brush wet, and in turn use it to make some of the eyeshadow wet. Then use the brush and just slide it over your eyelashes, right on the lid. It takes a bit of concentration the first time but it gets easier. And I think its so much easier than pencil eyeliner. :)


I am going to the beach in 3 weeks and i was wondering, what are some ways to tone up your stomich area? I am not realy confident but i love my bathing suit and i want to feel nice in it. I am 5'3 female that weighs 120pounds, Im 13 in 7th grade. i do cheerleadin in the summer but that doesnt start till the 22nd of next month!!!

I just want some simple stuff to do like before bed.. like quick exercises maybe a website or two! Thanks!!!



--Thank-You-- (link)
I did 200 crunches and 100 sits ups a night and that helped alot! Also, take a ball (like a soccer ball basket ball) and lay on your back with your knees up like you are going to do a sit up. Hold the ball behind your head. Then slowly sit up, enough to get your lower back off the ground, and hold for 7 seconds, keeping the ball over your head at all times. This should really help, but you have to do all of them, and I recommend doing them in the morning, or you will have trouble getting asleep.


Im a bit fat person. i just want to know that i eat water melon alot so is it good for dieting perpose or will it make me more fat?? please do answer my question. i will be very grateful. (link)
I don't think it is. It's a bit sugary but it's mostly water. (green tea will help speed up your metabolism and burn an extre 200+ calories because of all the anti-oxidents in it ^_~)


does anyone know of any exercises that strengthen your arms so you can surve over hand with alot more power (besides push-ups) thanks alot! (link)
USe weights and different lifting techniques every day, go to your coach to help decide which ones are best for you.


i just play basketball((in 7 grade ther is athletics))but in off season i get really lazy and gain weight. but this year i dont want to. is there anything i can do in off season((summmer )) i can do like sports wise. what should i do (link)
Track, long distance.If you have a treadmill, get on the treadmill for an hour a day, and do about 5 miles ,4 days a week. or go to the nearest track and do 20 laps in an hour, also 5 miles. this will burn about 500 fat calories and about 650 calories. That will keep you in shape. :)


could someone give me a screen name for aim that has to do with summer? (link)
flipflop(inicials)


I love denim skirts and flouncy skirts from abercrombie! ..the problem is..They are too expensive! Do you guys know anywhere I can get a bargain skirt?..don't say ebay! Thanks! (link)
g+g!!!!!!!
best skirts
best prices!!


HELP!....i am a skinny girl(not anorexic) but tons of people think i am, what should i do? PLease help me! (link)
People do that to my friend alot to. If they call you skinny or anorexic, just say "no, I'm THIN" and walk away. Beyond that you can't make people stop.


13/f
I just got my school year book and I want a certain guy to sign it only I'm too shy to ask. If someone told me if I should or should not and give me confidence then I would ask him directly. So, should I or should I not ask him to sign my year book directly and why? Also, if you said no is there any other way I can get him to sign my year book? (link)
Find him standing by himself, and just be cute about it, hop over to him (not literally!) and tilt your head to the side and ask sweetly if he would sign. Then, if he doesnt offer his year book (if he has one) ask to sign, and put a short message, with a screen name or a phone number if you are brave. I hope it works!


Ok, so i have a boyfriend, pico and i like him and he likes me but it just seems like hes gettin kinda like too obsessive and i want to break up with him but i don't want to break up with him and i don't know what do do....please help me!


Notes:
- he's "flirted" wit my friend but it was just a joke (as he says)
- tons of other girls have asked him out but hes said no becuz he loves me sooo much
- he says that i'm the best thing a guy can have (link)
Don't break up with him so fast! Talk about it with him, tell him he is suffocating you. Establish times for you to call each other, once a day. He sounds sweet, give it time, maybe your relationship is starting to freak you out a little. It will go away. Just don't lose something like that over nothing.


hey.. i am a cutter.. and i am clinically depressed or i think i am i am tired all the time, always feel sad and have even had thoughts of suictide.. i have one friend who saw the scars and told the school conciler but she never followed up on the report.. i thank the friend she has givin me love and support.. but i still look at the scars, new and old everynight ans cry and cry and cry.. i am a triplet and i hav alot of pressure on me. But i can't tell my mom becasue she will send me to another school, like she did with my older sister, and going away will just make things even more horrible.. i want to tell someone but i dunno, oh and i can't tel my dad because he died in irak, and i miss him dearly. but i don't want to tell my mom because she is a single mom with 4 kids,, i don't want to worry her.. pls answer this other ppl have just cused me out, said i was gay, and told me to stop, i need more than just stop please..
thank you soo much i really need ur advice (link)
I'm sorry people have been rude to you. I can see why you cut, you sound like you have a stressful life. If you want to stop, http://www.selfharm.net/self.html#safe
can really help. You dont have to tell anyone about it either. It offers some tips and alternatives to cutting. It's really interesting. I agree with you not telling your mom either, that could be too much for her. Another trick I think could work is to just have a good cry. If you have your own room, close the door, put on some really heavy rock music, even if you dont like it, lay on the floor and just cry. I do that alot. It works, I just get lost in the music and its relaxing. Please let me know how you are doing. IM me at lilshinyobject14 or email me at samantha@reeder.com


I am constantly insulted by my sister. Before, she would make fun of me, which I would just shrug off, but lately, its been getting to a point where I just feel like there is no point to anything. I cant even cry when she says things to me, I just shut down, and let her go on and on.

Like tonight, I walked into the living room, and she began to swear at me. She said that I am a psycho, and that she cannot wait for me to leave for school (college in the fall) because I am worthless. I have not even said anything to her at all at this point, I really don't know what I did.

What I really dont understand is how she will talk to me one night insultingly, and then the next day she wants me to go shopping with her.

I really dont understand it-if anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it

(link)
That happens alot with me and my sister, and honestly, theres nothing you can really do. I have a trick that usually works, instead of responding to the insult, try and say someting you can both relate to. Like "hey do you think you are going to go see that new Johnny Depp movie this summer" and you just see how that goes.


i love my X but he has a gf now.. we were together for 8 months and i broke up with him and left for vacations. after i came back he asked me back but for some reasons we never hooked up again and fought. he started dating this girl and now they are together. when he was with her he used to call me but i never answer my cel because i was angry at him. about a month ago we saw each other at a party and he was with my best friend the whole party taking about me, he said "i would leave my gf just to be with her, i still love her." and more.. we talked but not much because i was too nervous to face him. we chatted and i asked him if what he had said was true and he said yes after that we didn't speak again, he didn't do anything neither did i. about 3 days ago he saw my best friend in tennis and they talked. she said "i always believed that you and alex would end up together" and he said "me too".. he always has in his nicks about past love and first love quotes like "i would never love the way i loved you" "it's so hard to forget about you" .. in his profile (wich he updates every week" he has "single" in his status. my parents were getting divorced, i was dealing with bulimia and my mom found out and gave me a hard time, i was feeling very low about me at that time but now i want him back. i think i'm losing him because he has on his nickname "now a love story is coming to an end" ..PLEASE advice me because i DO love him but put yourself in my position and tell me exactly what would you do!! remember that putting myself out there IS REALLY HARD.. PLEASE..advice me!! (link)
if you two like each other that much you should definently get back together. i know it's hard to talk to him but you have to talk to him. let him know that you like him. first ask him if he still likes you, then tell him that you like him too. he said he would leave his gf to be with you, so if you tell him then ya'll can get back together again. hope it works out!


Can you get pregnant from giving head sence the cum goes in your mouth with sperms in it? (link)
no, no you can't. the sperm would have to go through your entire body system then somehow end up in your vagina and then swim it's way into an egg that's passing through. and that is just impossible. but would make a cool sci-fi porn.


Yes, well i'm rather young and I get around a lot and I dont ever use a condom. (the boy) because I dont even have my period yet but does this mean that I can still get std's?? If yes, do they make a condom made of paper or something cuz im allergic to the plasticy rubber stuff.
thanks,
I rate fairly high!!
f/15 (link)
wow... sex at 15, with multiple partners. what the hell is wrong with you man? am i the only one who thinks that this whole situation you bring up is just totally wrong? keep your pants on!




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